Because of the important position of children in the family, parents do their best to educate their children; Investing in children is a huge expense. But sometimes we find that no matter how many parenting books we have translated, how many parenting experts we have consulted, how much we have invested in many early education institutions and applications, how much we have paid attention to from the media or WeChat official accounts, and how many good methods we have learned to educate our children, few of them are effective in the end. Why do parents pay so much attention to it, but it doesn't work in the end? Today, we will answer the curiosity of parents from a professional perspective.

First of all, I want to emphasize that each of our children is unique. No one is the same, or most of them are the same. Isn't there a popular saying now That's someone else's child. Yes, this is a fact, and we will admit it sooner or later! Other people's children must be different from their own. Educational methods suitable for other people's children may not be effective or even counterproductive. Therefore, instead of learning other children's educational methods, it is better to consider their own children's personality and characteristics, and the right medicine is the key.

Secondly, what I want to say is, how to define it? It doesn't work? This word! Many parents try their best to learn educational methods, and then can't wait to apply them to their children, and then anxiously wait for these methods to sprout, blossom and bear the flowers of success they expect. That's what parents define? Is it useful? ! However, the person who really has the right to decide and evaluate whether it works is the child, the receiver and executor of these methods, and the producer of the final result. Undeniably, after a series of research and summary, education experts have come to the educational law, which is helpful for children's growth. What we need to do is to give children some patience and let them digest and transform these methods, rather than encourage them to do so.

Finally, I want to say that every parent keeps a peaceful mind. We should observe the characteristics of children and accept their imperfections. If some methods have been exhausted and the child is still ineffective, it is necessary to maintain a positive and peaceful attitude. Every child's growth law is different, and his advantages and disadvantages are also different. We should learn to discover his advantages and accept his shortcomings, so as to maintain a harmonious relationship with children and let them go further.