"Plastic Child" comes from an article by Sanmao, a famous writer in Taiwan Province Province.
San Mao and Jose originally wanted to take their families out to travel and enjoy the beautiful scenery of nature, but they found that the children were not interested in it.
On the contrary, they prefer cartoons, TV plays and game consoles.
For the beautiful scenery in nature, in addition to perfunctory, only "fear", fear of dirty mud, fear of snakes in the grass, fear of bees in the garden. .......
San Mao sighed: "The biggest sorrow for children growing up in cities, in my opinion, is that they have lost the spirituality endowed by their natural talents."
In fact, the phenomenon of "house" mentioned by San Mao is more common now.
In the process of being "plasticized" gradually, children are prone to a series of phenomena such as obesity, attention disorder, depression and decreased resistance after cutting off close contact with nature.
What is even more frightening is that many parents are not only ignorant, but also become accomplices of "anti-natural parenting" invisibly.
The phenomenon of "being plastic" can be seen everywhere.
Raising a child, all kinds of worries:
Afraid of scalding children, sunburning children, cold children, Xiong Haizi hurting children; There are bad people outside, and there are rampaging cars; Everything outside is dirty. You can't touch water or dig sand. ...
Even, my baby is slightly different from other people's babies and starts to be nervous.
Just like branches often receive such questions:
? Interfere with natural movements.
Q: The baby is eight and a half months old and can stand up by himself. I'm worried that standing too early will make him cross-legged Should I stop standing? Will the child bow his legs because of this?
A: For infants and young children, large-scale sports development is a matter of course, but parents should let their babies lie down more when they are awake.
Lying down is the starting point for the development of great sports. Prone → Raise your head → Hold your chest → Sit → Climb → Stand up → Walk → Stand independently → Walk independently. ...
For babies over 8 months old, as long as they can stand on their own feet and land on the ground, there is no need for parents to stop them, and there is no need to worry that their legs will become bowlegged.
? Intervene when children eat their hands, suck their lower lips and sleep with dolls.
Q: Children always like to suck their fingers and lower lips, sleep with pacifiers, comfortable towels and clothes, and cry as soon as they pull them out. I heard it's bad for their teeth and hygiene. How can they quit?
A: Sucking is a child's physiological need, and it is not a "bad habit" before the age of 2. As long as there are no serious shortcomings (finger peeling, abnormal appearance, etc.). ), parents can accept this behavior of their children.
Speak less, choose a better pacifier that doesn't hurt your teeth, and disinfect it frequently. Let him eat, and he will naturally stop eating when he is satisfied!
Otherwise, forcibly stopping it will only be counterproductive, and even psychological problems and sleep disorders will occur, and the parent-child relationship will be easily affected.
At the same time, parents should pay attention to whether their children have any special experiences recently and whether they have psychological anxiety.
? The weather is bad, I dare not take my baby out in case I catch a cold.
Q: Recently, there have been many colds in the community and the weather has changed rapidly. We dare not let our baby go out to play. ......
1. Dress appropriately. Wearing thick clothes is easy to sweat, catch cold and catch a cold.
② Insist on going out for air regularly every day to improve the adaptability of respiratory tract to cool air.
Drink as much water as possible to increase metabolism in the body.
④ Adults in the whole family and children over 6 months should consider influenza vaccination.
⑤ If you catch a cold at home, you should be properly isolated from your child.
Is this the best way to raise children in this era? Don't! Let children get rid of "plasticization" and get close to nature!
Get close to nature and get rid of "plasticization"
Although parents of every era have different doubts about bringing a baby, we can all find the most suitable way to raise children.
Since there is a "wild horse" at home, why not take advantage of the small holiday and go back to a "grassland"?
? Don't take the usual path
If you are worried that there will be too many people on May Day, then avoid popular attractions and take your baby to the community, parks or the countryside to play. Take the path and explore different parent-child time.
Don't worry that the child will fall, go forward boldly.
Different steps, long and gentle slates and narrow paths are all good for children.
Don't worry about the baby's reluctance to walk. We can take her on some interesting and challenging routes.
Method 1: Set a "small goal" and play the game of "finding street lamps" to encourage the baby to go all the way.
Method 2: Pretend to play games and let children imitate animals to walk.
The dog barked with its tongue out as it ran;
The rabbit has two ears and jumps forward;
Elephants have a long nose and shake their noses when they walk. ...
These rich and interesting "games" can promote the development of children's abstract thinking and make time more interesting.
? Feel the natural changes.
Children's nature belongs to nature, and every grass, tree, flower and stone will make ta extremely happy.
Where does it bloom? Where do the new leaves grow? Where are the bugs?
Where does the sun rise? From which side did it fall?
This will not only help children better appreciate the charm of nature, but also keep their curiosity and exploration spirit.
You know, nature is also a good early education teacher!
Earthworms in the soil after the rain, birds perched on branches, cobwebs faintly visible among plants, ants everywhere. ......
How many legs does an ant have? Where do they live?
Why do you keep crawling around? Going home or looking for food?
Children are always curious about small animals, so it is more interesting to see and explore with their own eyes than to read picture books at home.
? Close observation of plants
It's one thing to look at it from a distance, but it's another to ponder it when you get closer.
We teach our children not to destroy flowers and plants, and besides preaching orally, we can also let them take a closer look.
Look at the shape and texture of leaves, the shape, color and posture of flowers. ...
When children observe more carefully, they will be more focused and immersed in the beauty of nature.
Get rid of the dependence on plastic environment, put down your electronic products, put on loose and comfortable sportswear and sneakers, and bring your children to have a close contact with nature ~