Many people think that old people will be a bad influence on children. In fact, this is a wrong cognition. Some old people have better parenting ideas than young mothers.
Recently, a "smart grandmother" became angry. She put a mat in the living room, next to a row of shoes, which were in different postures. Grandson kept jumping on the mat, his feet and shoes in the same posture. This game can exercise children's reaction, exercise and observation ability at the same time.
1, ignoring children's development
The development of children actually stems from the leap in life. However, many old people protect their children too well to let them jump at will. For example, the old man is afraid that the child will fall and let him go. In fact, brisk walking can exercise children's balance ability. In fact, the child is developing, just walk and jump more.
Step 2 be willful
Many old people spoil their children too much, always meet their various needs, give them snacks all day and don't let them do housework. Obviously, this is a wrong approach, which will only produce a "giant baby". After puberty, I am afraid that my children will be rebellious and difficult to discipline.
3, TV to coax children
In order to take care of babies more easily, many old people always coax their children with TV. The children were attracted by those beautiful pictures, and they sat for a day. Old people use this time to rest. In fact, children under 2 years old should try not to watch TV, otherwise their eyesight will be affected and they will become withdrawn after a long time.
Of course, there are many advantages for the elderly to take care of their children. Old people can bring out excellent children with certain training.
1, learning traditional culture
Traditional culture is the essence of China culture. Old people can learn these ancient cultures with their children and make them better than their peers.
2. Take children to do early education
Nowadays, the amateur life is rich, and the elderly have more pursuits. They also learn a lot of new knowledge through mobile phones and play puzzle games with their children, so that parents and grandchildren can make progress.
3. Take more children to exercise
Many old people will go to the park to exercise, such as playing Tai Chi and sword dancing. Those little grandchildren will also exercise with the old people, which can be a good exercise.
When the elderly take care of their babies, young parents should communicate with them as much as possible and let them take care of their babies scientifically. Once it is found that there is something wrong with the way the elderly raise their children, it is necessary to correct it in time to make the children better.