This is normal. In fact, a couple's reluctance to have children is influenced by many factors. The first reason is maturity. I think it is wisest not to have children before adults are really mature. I still don't understand children, how can I be responsible for guiding them? Although having children can help adults to further mature and progress, you have no motivation to become better. Many children can't change anything in essence.

Secondly, before deciding to have children, if both husband and wife can't unify the principle of raising children, then one of them certainly doesn't want children. For example, some parents say that they can't spoil their children, so once they make mistakes, they will be punished. One party can't be soft-hearted and say no to punishment. Big principles are not enough, but small things are more important. It is easy for children to establish conditioned reflex, and even crying should be treated by both husband and wife.

Another reason why I don't want children is that the pain of having children lies not only in the process of pregnancy and childbirth, but also in the cultivation after giving birth. Accurately speaking, the later training is the most important. After all, it is the parents who choose to have their children born, not the children themselves. The birth you impose on your child is responsible for his/her birth. Responsibilities include that your financial conditions enable him/her to live a carefree childhood, a gentle adolescence, and an hardworking young man who is not afraid of failure.

Many adults always say, "I have worked hard to raise my child, and the child should look like it." I'm afraid of being such a parent, and I'm afraid I can't afford the responsibility. I am even more afraid that I can't teach my child well and let him/her go astray and endanger society. Sorry, I can't afford this responsibility. So, some people don't want children.