Appropriate early education is possible, but it is not necessary to do it too early. As the saying goes, proper "early education" is ok, but "early education" is not necessary. It used to be a holiday, but every family has a difficult experience. Holiday tutoring is almost the state of every "chicken baby". This year, the national "double reduction" policy was introduced, and training institutions were not allowed to make up classes on holidays. Many children rarely have a happy holiday after the "double reduction". Every family in our generation has blocked information about children's education. After the large-scale use of WeChat, many parents joined various WeChat groups to find out how excellent other people's children are and how many cram schools other people's children have attended. Increasing anxiety in mutual communication has become a standard for parents.

"People are in the rivers and lakes, and they can't help themselves." In the face of the "reality" of comparing with each other and great pressure, it is difficult for parents not to "compete for the baby". At all costs, they report to the class and fill the children's schedules. Busy parents often only pay attention to intellectual development, and have no time to take care of the spiritual and emotional needs of their children during their growth, or even whether their children are overdrawing their health. It is often seen that some tired children have a quick snack at night and then go to another class. In the day-to-day rush, sometimes children simply don't have time and more energy to digest seriously. Playing chess, painting and calligraphy, music and dancing are the same as throwing coins into the fountain pool of the scenic spot.

Shi Tiesheng said in "I and Ditan" that children's pain will be doubled on their mothers. Nowadays, the biggest feeling of retired people who take their grandchildren every day is that many parents will explain all their "love" for their children with "there is no way, there are too many people in China and the competition is too fierce". If parents can't handle their anxiety well, it will become the heaviest burden on their children's minds.

I am not against proper "early education", but "early education" is unnecessary. The child lost his childhood, and this is the price. According to a survey, if you receive knowledge education too early, you will easily get tired of learning. When it's time to play, you are not satisfied, exhausted from the beginning, and lose your vision of study and life. And then take it back when you shouldn't play in the future. Knowledge of English, literacy, addition and subtraction will be studied in the primary school system. If you learn the content of primary school in advance, your child will be absent-minded in class, which will easily lead to insufficient stamina.