When a wife is pregnant, her mood often changes greatly. Many people think that the emotional ups and downs of pregnant mothers are caused by hormonal imbalance during pregnancy. Actually? This kind of emotional ups and downs just reflects one? The important fact is pregnancy. This not only adds a lot of psychological pressure and physical burden to my mother, but also brings great changes to my family.
Let's change our roles and feel the mood of pregnant mothers-when we think of the growing baby in our bellies, our sweet and happy mood is beyond words. However, at the thought of doing things with a full stomach and squeezing the bus, my good mood immediately disappeared, not to mention all kinds of worries, such as: whether the life of husband and wife will be affected, whether the baby will develop abnormally, whether the figure will be out of shape, whether the delivery will be smooth, and how much will it cost to raise a child? Who will look after the baby? Besides? Often? Physical discomfort, such as dizziness, vomiting, backache, etc. The pregnant mother's mood is inevitable and it is difficult to decide whether it is sunny or rainy.
According to statistics, the first three months of pregnancy is the most unstable time. Because during this period, the pregnant mother changed the most, both psychologically and physically, including the adjustment of living habits. Therefore, the pregnant mother's mood in a few seconds? From extreme excitement to extreme depression, it is not surprising. The first step for a husband to face his pregnant wife's orgasm is to accept her. Treat the needs and reactions of pregnant mothers with understanding and cherish.
Secondly, it is to encourage pregnant mothers to engage in their favorite activities, such as reading, watching TV, listening to music, walking and so on. You can also relax or announce? Emotional work? Pay each other? Mood day? Leave some warm notes at the right time, such as leaving a note on the table to tell? She dreamed about her and her children yesterday. Let the pregnant mother feel that her husband is around, always support her and share her happiness and troubles, which will help the pregnant mother to keep a good mood, eliminate some unnecessary anxiety and get out of the negative state.
Then: 1) Husband and wife should respect each other.
I think to handle a good relationship between husband and wife, we must first know how to respect each other. The relationship between husband and wife should be based on equality. Neither side should be superior to the other. In particular, a few men still have the idea of male chauvinism in their minds. They always think that they are the head of the family, and they have the final say in everything, regardless of their wives' feelings, which will inevitably cause their wives' dissatisfaction and lead to family disharmony. There are also a few Hedong lions who care about their husbands like children, like to limit their freedom, even teach their husbands in front of colleagues, and even fight, so that their husbands lose face and lift their heads in front of colleagues. I don't think it is easy for a man to gain a foothold in society. A man's social status directly affects your family status. As a wife, if you don't know how to give your husband face in front of outsiders, others will look down on your husband and think that this man is afraid of his wife and worthless. Among my colleagues, there is a young couple whose wife is lecturing her husband in the office, so I said to her, "If you have anything to do, go home and say that men should save face." My husband and I have been married for more than ten years, and we are both very attentive.
(2) Husband and wife should learn to appreciate and praise each other.
Husband and wife should learn to appreciate each other, don't always stare at each other's shortcomings, learn to appreciate her (his) advantages and give praise from time to time. For example, your wife has worked hard to cook a table of dishes, and you should enjoy it with appreciation, praise and gratitude. You can lose no time in saying, "My wife cooks good food, and the food she cooks is delicious.". Her heart will be very useful and her enthusiasm for doing things will be higher. This is also a clever way for men to be lazy. Everyone likes compliments, even adults. My husband didn't know much about it before and kept discouraging me. When he says that my cooking is not delicious, I will retort, "If you do well, then you do well." Later, he learned to be smart and said something beautiful from time to time. Although I know he is a little against his will, at least it won't arouse my disgust. Don't think it's an old couple. It is necessary for men to sweet talk occasionally. No woman doesn't like it. For example, if your wife buys a new dress and walks around in front of the mirror, you are his first audience. When she comes to you in high spirits and asks if you like it, you should pretend to appreciate and praise it. Don't look at it at all, just say, "Yes, yes." Then she will think that you are indifferent to her. Don't think that these are all tricks, and the harmony of husband and wife often depends on these to be more harmonious. In fact, men really need to study hard
(3) Husband and wife should understand each other.
As a family, husband and wife have a common goal, that is to work together to create a warm and comfortable nest. Men want their wives and children to live a better life, and they may think more about how to make money desperately and let their wives and children have a better material life. He will pay more attention to making money than to his family. As a wife, you should understand your husband. When he drags his tired body home, make him a cup of tea and say something nice. As a wife, it is hard to work, take care of children and do housework. A husband should learn to be considerate of his wife. In the busy work process, try to find time to spend with your wife, because women need spiritual comfort besides material enjoyment, and don't ignore their wife's feelings. When you ignore her too much, she may look for bosom friends. This is a big hidden danger for the family.
(d) Husband and wife should learn to be tolerant.
Gold is not enough, no one is perfect. After a period of romantic love, they finally became a family, the mystery between lovers slowly disappeared, and the hidden shortcomings in love began to be exposed. What is presented to the other party is the true self. Sometimes you will feel disappointed and regret how you married such a person. At this time, you should understand that everyone has shortcomings, and people without shortcomings are the biggest shortcomings. Since you accept her (him), you must accept everything of the other party, including the shortcomings. Be generous and tolerant. When the other party is wrong, you should not be unreasonable and aggressive, and hold on to the other party's shortcomings. You can communicate well with him (her) when everyone is calm, and point out the mistakes of the other party in time, which will be more acceptable to the other party. Both husband and wife should pay more attention and behave as well as possible, because there is a limit to people's patience. Don't go too far, or when she (he) can't stand it, the family will also face collapse.
(5) Husband and wife should trust each other.
Trust is the most basic factor to maintain the relationship between husband and wife. Learn to trust each other and don't be suspicious all day. If even the minimum trust is gone, the husband and wife will almost come to an end. You must believe that your eyes are wrong about the person. If one party wants to guard against the other, it is difficult for a husband and wife to be harmonious. There is such a woman who always likes to spread her experience to other women, that is, she asks her husband to pay all her monthly salary, leaving only 100 yuan as pocket money. She thinks that a man can't go bad without money. In fact, if her husband really wants to be bad, there will always be other ways. Both men and women, who want to be bad, can't control it. If they don't deteriorate, they don't need to be controlled at all. If they go bad easily, they can't control it Why bother about that god? Is it too tired to keep yourself nervous?
(6) Husband and wife should be considerate of each other.
Husband and wife are a family. If there are no special circumstances, they should be together for life. They should learn to be considerate, take care of each other and care for each other. The healthy one should take care of the unhealthy one. One party at leisure should do more housework to reduce the pressure on the other party, know how to pay for the other party and contribute to the family. You will gain a lot while giving.
As the saying goes, everything goes well at home and the family is harmonious. Husband and wife think in one place and work hard in another. Why not worry about the prosperity of small life? Of course, dealing with the relationship between husband and wife is a complex science, with many skills and methods. I think this is very wrong. In the northeast words: "steel is steel!"