We often hear teachers or parents complain that so-and-so children are really rude and never call people, so-and-so children are selfish, so-and-so children love to fight, so-and-so children love to lie, so-and-so children take beautiful toys from kindergarten ... These fully reflect children's polite social behavior. Childhood is an important period in the formation and development of personality and personality, which has great plasticity in personality formation. Cultivating children's civilized and polite social behavior is an important part of kindergarten quality education. Civilized manners are a fine tradition of the Chinese nation, so it is very important for children to form good habits of manners from an early age, but a simple "greeting" from children in kindergartens is the beginning of civilized manners education. As the children's first teacher, how to infiltrate civilized manners into daily life, from a simple "good morning" when children come to the garden in the morning and a short "greeting" at ordinary times, to cultivate children's good civilized manners. This is a problem that deserves our attention. Keywords: simple greetings and politeness are worth paying attention to first. Text: The gate of kindergarten is the window of civilized education in kindergarten, and it is also the place that every child must pass every morning. Every morning, the kindergarten teacher on duty, the grandfather of the doorman and the aunt of the doctor will greet all the children at the kindergarten gate, and form a beautiful picture with the sweet greetings of "Good morning, teachers and children" and the polite gesture of "Please come in and welcome to the kindergarten". However, this beautiful and harmonious picture will eventually be mixed with some disharmonious pictures. Some children are spoiled at home, and some children are driven by their parents' educational concept of "valuing wisdom over morality" and the concept of exam-oriented education in schools, which drives schools and families to pay only attention to children's achievements and ignore civilized and polite education. Some parents think: "My children are like this, they don't like to call people and are rude", as if they think this is the nature of our children. Just give the child a ostentatious prevarication. The child seems to think that I don't call people, but I am used to it, so I don't have to call them. Over time, it is difficult for children to develop manners. Instead, I often hear teachers or parents complain that so-and-so children are really rude and never call people, so-and-so children are selfish, so-and-so children love to fight, so-and-so children love to lie, and so-and-so children take beautiful toys from kindergarten ... Childhood is an important period of personality and character formation and development, which has great plasticity in personality formation. Cultivating children's civilized and polite social behavior is an important part of implementing quality education in kindergartens, but a simple "greeting" from children in kindergartens is the beginning of civilized and polite education. As the children's first teacher, how to infiltrate civilized manners into daily life, from a simple "good morning" when children come to the garden in the morning and a short "greeting" at ordinary times, to cultivate children's good civilized manners. This is a problem that deserves our attention. Politeness is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation. It is very important for children to develop good manners from an early age. There is a good saying: "Talent without virtue is not far away", which means that a person only has talent, but he can't do it without etiquette as the basis. Politeness is not only a realistic reflection of a country's social atmosphere, but also an important symbol of a nation's progress, and it is also a reflection of a person's inner ideological and moral level and cultural accomplishment. It is the requirement of the times and the hope of the country and people to let children be civilized and polite people. So how to start etiquette education for children from a simple "greeting"? First, teaching by example is better than teaching by words and plays an exemplary role. In kindergarten, we will find that most children who come to kindergarten are greeted by teachers first, and then the children will respond. Some children take the initiative to call the teacher, also at the request and reminder of parents. Few children can speak first, and then the teacher will remind them to say "goodbye" to their parents. Children have always lacked the desire to use polite language actively. In fact, it is a good opportunity for kindergarten children to come to the park every morning. Our teacher should seize this opportunity, set an example to educate children to use polite language, and will take the initiative to ask the teacher early. For example, in the first few days of school, several teachers and I stood at the gate of the kindergarten early every day, waiting for the arrival of the children and saying "good morning" to each child with a smile. The response is that most freshmen will pass by your eyes quietly, and some just say "good morning, teacher" slowly, reluctantly and timidly under the reminder of their parents. One of them is a freshman in a small class with big eyes. He comes to the park every morning. No matter how our teacher greets him, he doesn't want to call the teacher. The father of the child is always embarrassed by his rudeness. I know it's just that children are shy and unwilling to show it. Since the first month of school, I have never stopped encouraging and greeting my children every morning. Finally, one morning not long ago, the child took the initiative to greet our teacher and "ask early" to us. This is really a very happy thing. I know that my persistent behavior has had a good influence on him. Examples speak louder than words. I am glad of my success. Every day, from the moment you enter the garden gate, you can hear your child ask "Good teacher, early teacher" and the teacher also asks your child early. In such a polite atmosphere, a sweet "greeting" is very helpful to the cultivation of children's polite education. "The power of example is infinite", especially for children. The younger the child, the more attractive the role model is. As teachers, we should greet our children cordially and treat them with courtesy at the first time. Use our example to infect children and let them develop good manners and manners from an early age. To lay the foundation for stepping into the society and learning to communicate with others actively in the future. The scope of children's life is not only kindergarten, but the most important environment is family. We can't ignore the influence of family environment. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Some people say that children are copies of their parents, and anything parents say unintentionally will be printed in their minds. Therefore, parents must start to cultivate children's manners, and children are parents' mirrors. Parents' words and deeds will profoundly affect their children's life. Adults should pay attention to their words and deeds when speaking or doing things. Parents should first do it, speak kindly, be modest and not swear. Use polite language at all times. In addition to these, I think parents should seize the opportunity to visit relatives and friends, set an example, and conduct long-term and patient etiquette education for their children. I believe that as long as parents and teachers persevere in education, our children will certainly become pioneers of etiquette! Second, create a civilized and harmonious material environment and give full play to the function of environmental education. Engels said: environment makes people. The educational function of the environment is to moisten things quietly. We try to promote children to develop civilized manners through the creation of environment. We consciously incorporate various polite expressions with civilized pictures into the environment layout of kindergartens, such as posting "welcome", "good morning", "goodbye", "thank you" and "sorry" at the entrance of kindergartens, classrooms and stairs, and strive to build a kindergarten. Thirdly, politeness education permeates all fields of the curriculum and plays the role of organically integrating education. After careful analysis, it is found that there are abundant politeness education resources in textbooks in various fields. In health activities, language activities and social activities, many works contain polite expressions and a civilized truth. On the basis of teaching materials, find the right combination point, organically integrate education in various fields with civilized manners education, and let civilized manners education run through the on-site teaching process. Let children learn knowledge, and at the same time, through learning to use a few short polite expressions, educate their children in civilized and polite moral character and improve their comprehensive quality. In the first part of the morning activities, the teacher is invited to warmly receive the children, and the teacher and the children say hello to each other. Say "hello" and "please" before asking for help. In language activities, let children learn to care about others and say, "Are you okay?" "Can I help you?" "Thank you", "Sorry", "Never mind" and "Goodbye". Educate children on manners and manners in festival activities. There are many festivals related to or important to children in a year, and each festival is an opportunity for polite education. Around these festival themes, some entertaining manners education activities are designed. For example, on March 8, I sent my mother a small red flower made by myself and said, "Happy Mother's Day!" In my mother's ear. On May Day, I poured my father a glass of water and said, "You have worked hard!" " ..... In daily education activities, there is a good opportunity to educate children on manners and learn polite expressions. As a teacher, we should actively use all kinds of polite expressions to set a good example for children and create a good atmosphere of polite education. As parents, they should also help their children to establish a sense of politeness, seize every opportunity, guide and educate their children, which will be of great help to their correct use of polite language.