The heroine in the film has always insisted on her writing. Although she has less and less time to control after becoming a mother, she will use fragmented time to record her feelings after becoming a mother. Probably because of her sensitive heart, in the long busy and trivial life, she realized that she gradually lost herself and couldn't find her place.
On her daughter's 6th birthday, she was busy taking care of her little son, walking the dog and going to the store to buy birthday props for her daughter. When she was waiting in line at the checkout counter, she was beaten by a young man in grade 2 because her phone was too loud. Then on the way to pick up the cake with several bags of props, the bicycle tire was punctured and I had to push it. When I went to get the cake, I found that the cake maker misspelled my daughter's name. When I was arguing with the cake master, passers-by who picked up the cake at the scene teased me that her daughter's name was too tacky. Later, I finally pushed the car downstairs and found that my husband was not at home when the courier came to deliver the package. She has accumulated emotions for a day, and finally she can't help but want to explode. Because she has to carry several bags of things by herself and climb several floors to get home. At this time, she looked at the cigarette in the courier's hand and paused for a few seconds. The courier instinctively handed her one. At that time, she was probably too tired, so she temporarily forgot her mother's identity. She wants to smoke a few cigarettes, so that her emotions can be temporarily stored, because she has to arrange a birthday party for her daughter and can't relax.
Fortunately, the courier helped her move her things upstairs. She also returned the gift and invited the courier to come in for a glass of water. When chatting with the courier, I learned that he likes writing as much as himself, so she talked about the novels she wrote when she was young and the music she liked when she was young. At the request of the courier, she played a song she liked that year. When the music reached its climax, they couldn't help jumping up and feeling a long-lost passion spreading in the air. The courier said she was a beautiful person. This kind of praise, as well as the recognition of her charm, has not been heard for a long time. However, after her physical and mental revelry, she immediately soberly returned to reality. After seeing off the courier, she continued to decorate the house. But just then, my best friend called to ask her why her real name was not hidden in her article. Now everyone is talking about her best friend. She needs to rely on her son's electric toys to meet her physiological needs. In this way, the two had a big fight on the phone. When I saw her husband leaving a message for her article, I asked her what theme she wanted to express. She felt that her husband's comments on her article were too sharp, and the unbearable mood reached its peak, so she rushed out of the door, smoked a cigarette and drove on the road. When her husband called, she hung up until her little son got stuck in his throat because of a lollipop, and she had to go home again.
There were two people sitting in the car, and the youngest son fell asleep in the back seat. Both of them tried to talk in a low voice, and the hostess thought that her feelings and charm were gradually swallowed up by trivial matters. When talking to her husband about the courier, she said that she had not been recognized and praised for a long time. In the long marriage, she has been playing the role of a good wife and a good mother, but none of her own roles. So she is very tired and wants to make a breakthrough and do something. So after seeing her husband's comments on the article she had planned to participate in the competition, she couldn't help but want to explode. Because the trivial life swallowed up her creativity, she became more and more slow in expressing herself. And her husband's comments just want her to be herself and express her true feelings. Seeing this, I have to say that maybe the movie needs dramatic conflict, which aggravates the setting of some conflict events. However, this is our life. Every day we need to deal with too many negative emotions in order to spend the day safely. Besides, in the long-term trivial, can we still have the passion to create life?
Some mothers I know have devoted themselves to their children's affairs since they were born. They no longer pay attention to their bodies, study or continue their hobbies. As they say, because even sleeping is a luxury after a child is born, there is no mood to talk about hobbies and sports. Perhaps this is the case, and the passion in life is also actively away from them. As long as they have time, they will study more about children's education, which milk powder is better and where early education is more helpful. Bury yourself in this pile of information every day, reluctant to give yourself some time to run yourself. They may have forgotten one thing. Parents are the best teachers for children, and the subtle influence of family atmosphere is the most important link in the formation of children's character.
Of course, some people want to be themselves seriously because of the arrival of their children. They want to set a good example for their children, so they actively participate in learning. No matter how busy they are every day, they are willing to spare some time to read and exercise. They believe that if they shape themselves well, children will be subtly influenced and develop towards a healthy state. Therefore, many times, the road is good or not, and the direction to take is decided by ourselves, not necessarily because of the environment, which makes us stagnate. More importantly, are you willing to be creative in your life and love your life?
I believe in the greatness of motherhood, but before being a mother, you must be yourself first, and then your mother.