1. If you spend more time with children of the same age, you will have differences and opinions. For these contradictions, parents let their children handle them themselves and don't interfere too much; Parents should actively educate their children when they fight and make trouble, instead of blaming them as soon as they come up.

2. Encourage children to participate in group activities and let them participate in some group activities, such as crawling competitions and parent-child activities, which are of great help to children. In the process of participating in activities, children can get things that they can't get at home through mutual communication.

3. Encourage children to associate with others. After the child is three years old, parents should encourage him to associate with others more and make him get along with others more happily. If children take the initiative to associate with their peers, they will learn to respect others; If you can't communicate well with others, it's easy to form disrespectful, willful, autistic, complacent and selfish personality, or close your personality. Parents can take exchanging goods as the starting point of educating their children, such as letting them exchange toys with others. When children actively exchange toys, parents should guide their children how to exchange with others. In the process of communication, he will communicate with others through words and actions, and the other party may or may not be willing to communicate with him. When others are unwilling to exchange toys with him, parents can teach their children how to deal with this kind of thing.

4. Improve children's social skills. We should give children the opportunity to exercise actively. Now most children are only children, closed in their own small families, with only two or three relatives at home. Children who grow up in this environment generally have poor manners in dealing with others. I often meet some children in the clinic. Everything is fine at home, but in public, they are unnatural, timid, shy, unwilling to talk and answer questions ... These children's adaptability is also declining. How can such a child adapt to the complicated and changeable society in the future?

5. Cultivating children's EQ EQ is all factors except IQ. The most important thing is the frustration quotient, which is called AQ, and the moral quotient. 1- 12 Cultivate children's good habit of eating and drinking Lazarus; Early childhood can cultivate children's intelligence, and children's bad habits, such as eating hands or eating, should be actively corrected: three years old is the key period of intellectual development, and education before three years old can complete 80% of life education, so it is very important to cultivate emotional intelligence and IQ in this period. 3-7 years old is a critical period for children's language expression, and parents should actively cultivate their children's language expression ability.