I feel the same way about it. My parents are ordinary workers. They love me very much, but they do have many shortcomings. The growth conditions of our generation are much stronger than those of our parents, so our knowledge and knowledge are much wider than those of our contemporaries. So sometimes, I can jump out of the circle where they are my parents and look at them macroscopically. Sometimes they are narrow-minded and selfish. They love me in their own way. Of course, I don't agree with them, but I can't resist them Just change myself silently and try to get rid of this environment. I have experienced it, and I don't want my next generation to experience it again.
However, I have to admit that after I got married at work, many times, my behavior was subconscious, just like my parents. I've been suffering for a while. I've been trying to get better. Why can't I help being another one of them?
This is the subtle effect.
Therefore, a good family atmosphere is more important to children's growth than anything else. In other words, parents are the best early education for children. Their words and deeds have long been captured, imitated, learned and even surpassed by children. So, parents, be better yourself and your children will be better!