The emperor's father is not easy to be.
In fact, the emperor's father is the worst, and he is under greater pressure than ordinary people. In addition to managing the world, he should also shoulder the responsibility of cultivating future successors. There are too many famous emperors' fathers in the history of China, but few of them really succeed.
Liu Bang, the founding emperor of the Han Dynasty, had eight sons. When training Liu Yuxin, Liu Bang first asked him to "study hard". In order to make progress in his studies, Liu Bang asked Liu Ying to write his own recital every time. This is the so-called "you can study hard and learn from yourself every time."
Among the emperors' fathers, Li Shimin is the most commendable. Li Shimin * * * has 65,438+04 sons. In order to educate princes such as the Prince and train qualified successors in the Tang Dynasty, he specially wrote instructions such as "Emperor Fan" and "Huang Jieshu", and ordered people to collect the gains and losses of the children of ancient and modern emperors, and compiled a Record of the Good and Evil of the Kings of Gubing for the princes to read. Li Shimin on the name of governing the country: "The boat is not as good as the king of man, and the water is not as good as Li Shu. Water can carry a boat, but it can also overturn it. "This is what he said when educating and admonishing the princes.
As the father of the founding emperor, Zhu Yuanzhang, the founder of the Ming Dynasty, was well-intentioned in educating the prince. He used to write his own lyrics, let people compose music, teach children and grandchildren, and entertain. So historians spoke highly of Emperor Taizong Zhu Yuanzhang's Ming History? "Biography of Empresses" said: "It was a generation in the late Ming Dynasty, and Miyako theorists said that the goodness of their family law was beyond the reach of Han and Tang Dynasties."
As for the emperor's father in Qing Dynasty, the best one should be Emperor Michelle Ye of Kangxi, who has many doctrines, such as Courtyard Instruction, Courtyard Instruction and Sixteen Articles of Oracle Bone Inscriptions. "It is advisable to teach early, but dare to quit" is one of Kangxi's most respected family education concepts.
A good example for Guan Dad.
Zhuge Liang was a famous official in Shu during the Three Kingdoms period. He lives in Shu, but he never dares to relax his education for his nephew. Zhuge Liang had no children in his early years. He adopted Zhuge Qiao, the second son of his brother Zhu Gejin, and later he had his own son Zhuge Zhan. In the education of sons and nephews, Zhuge Liang emphasized morality, talent, learning and ambition. He said in the "Commandment": "A gentleman's trip is to cultivate one's morality by being quiet, to cultivate one's morality by being frugal, not to be indifferent to his ambition, and not to be quiet and far away." It is for this reason that the proverbs of "indifferent to your ambition" and "quiet and stay away" are common in modern learning.
Lu Xun is a famous official father of Wu. In the seventh year of Chiwu (AD 244), Lu Xun replaced Gu Yong as the Prime Minister of Wu, and refused to enter through the back door for his children. Reflection? Wu Shu? According to the biography of Lu Xun, Lu Xun believes that if a child is really talented, he should not worry about not being appointed, which means "if a child is talented, he should not worry."
Yang hu, a famous minister in Wei and Jin Dynasties, was the second generation of officials. As a father, he inherited the family style established by Yang M, the former Shangdang satrap, and his father. Yang Hucheng has a daughter but no children, and his brother's son is his heir. Yang hu's whole experience as an official father can be found in the manual. He asked his son and nephew not to talk about other people's instructions behind their backs. So far, people keep in mind: "There are no casual words and no disrespectful words. Hearing people's mistakes is acceptable and cannot be announced. "
Bao Zheng, the most powerful official father in history, was one of them. Bao Zheng warned the younger generation to abide by the law, otherwise, "the future generations will be officials, and the polluters will not return to their own homes; After his death, he should not be buried in a big coffin. " And specifically stated, "Not from my will, not from my descendants." Out of seriousness, Bao Zheng also carved this proverb on a stone to warn future generations.