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Why do children always repeat "boring" actions?
# This is family education # In the process of educating children, it is easy for us to judge their behavior by our own abilities.

With parents' experience and understanding, it is not difficult to remember children's picture books, but there is a gap between children's ability and adults'. Therefore, this kind of "boredom" is actually relative.

In this process, parents pay attention to the complexity behind it, while children pay attention to satisfaction. The child repeated an action repeatedly, which proved that the child tasted the sweetness in this action, was affirmed and obtained certain psychological satisfaction.

For example, my children especially like to listen to Wrong Nest Stegosaurus as soon as they come into contact with picture books. He not only likes listening, but also likes playing Stegosaurus, and even gave himself a name-Little Stegosaurus.

This story tells that Tyrannosaurus Rex's mother gave birth to four dinosaur eggs, one of which was Stegosaurus. Stegosaurus and other dinosaurs always seem out of place because of their different looks, so Stegosaurus is not very happy. Finally, with the help of mother Tyrannosaurus Rex and mother cimat, the little Stegosaurus returned to the Stegosaurus group.

In my analysis, this is the performance of children seeking psychological belonging. He needs more care and companions like him.

For example, some children like to play with buttons. Buttons mean separation and connection. Based on this, it is speculated that children reproduce the relationship with their parents in the process of playing buttons.

If the frequency and time when the father or mother leaves the child are irregular, or if the parents are avoiding the child when they go out, then in the child's mind, he does not believe in the current relationship for the time being. In the game, what children want to express is actually to control the separation and contact with their parents.

In the growth of children, children's behavior is unexpected but traceable. Therefore, we need to know children more carefully. # Learn early education at home #