On June 5438+February 2020 1 1, Ms. Fu's children attended Xinhua Kindergarten in weiyang district, Xi City, Shaanxi Province. This morning, she received a phone call from the kindergarten, telling her that the child fell in the kindergarten, and the child's chin was broken, and finally she had 8 stitches.
Later, I asked for monitoring and found that the kindergarten teacher picked up the child and fell to the ground, causing a chin injury.
Now that the Education Bureau and the police station have intervened, the kindergarten said that it would expel the teachers involved and reduce the tuition fees for Ms. Fu's children, but Ms. Fu did not accept it.
As a mother with children in kindergarten, I firmly refuse to accept it.
According to Ms. Fu, I chose this kindergarten because it costs more than 2,000 yuan a month. It is the most expensive kindergarten nearby, so you can buy a peace of mind with expensive money. In fact, many parents have this idea. Parents are worried that their children are too young to go to kindergarten. They always hope that kindergarten teachers can take good care of their children.
My child began to enter kindergarten at the age of two, and directly chose the most expensive kindergarten around at the beginning. Now it costs more than 3000 yuan to transfer to another kindergarten. When I transferred to another school, the director asked me what I wanted my children to learn. I replied that I didn't care what I could learn. It doesn't matter to me. I just hope that the children will have a good time in kindergarten and the teachers will take good care of them.
Choosing a kindergarten is better than choosing a teacher, but I didn't know what kindergarten teachers were like at first.
Ms. Fu should have chosen this kindergarten with this idea, but her children were taken care of by such violence. Can kindergartens be exempted from tuition fees to erase the harm to children? To put it more seriously, this may be the shadow of a child's life. Children's psychological counseling should be their concern. Moreover, the child's chin is stitched, which will inevitably leave scars. How to make up for this? Let's just say, fortunately, it's not on my face.
With regard to the frequent incidents in kindergartens, I can't help thinking of two questions.
1. What are the criteria for kindergartens to choose kindergarten teachers? Is it enough to hold a kindergarten teacher qualification certificate? I know that my child's kindergarten has recruited a person with only a kindergarten teacher qualification certificate. He has not been a kindergarten teacher for more than ten years. Because I couldn't recruit anyone, I hired this person to make up for it. And she also said that sometimes children want to fight if they are naughty and disobedient. As a parent, I want to say, I still want to hit her!
I think kindergartens should pay more attention to their patience and love when choosing kindergarten teachers. Dozens of children in a class will always be naughty. Without patience and love, there will be such a violent child problem.
Secondly, it may be generally believed that kindergarten teachers are not very demanding in skills, so their treatment is not very good, but in fact they are very hard. Now both parents have a headache in the face of a child. They face dozens of children at the same time. I think the salary of kindergarten teachers should be raised. The kindergarten teachers I know may generally earn two or three thousand yuan, and the higher ones may be three or four thousand or four or five thousand yuan.
Kindergarten teachers care for the flowers of the motherland and the hope of the future. What an important career this is. Good kindergarten teachers are rare and should be respected and valued by everyone. Unfortunately, a good kindergarten teacher chose to change careers because his salary could not meet his life. Choosing a good kindergarten for children also needs to choose a good kindergarten teacher for children.
It happened in 65438+February 2020 1 1. In a surveillance video, a little boy knelt on the ground with a chair next to him. At this time, a young kindergarten teacher suddenly walked beside the child, picked up the child's arm in one hand, picked up the child and threw it directly on the ground.
The incident took place in Xinhua Kindergarten in weiyang district, Xi City, Shaanxi Province. In the video, the child fell to the ground and was pulled up by the kindergarten teacher, because the child's chin was bruised and the child jumped on the ground because of pain.
After receiving the call from the kindergarten, the parents took their children to see a doctor and had been sewing 8 stitches. Afterwards, the parents chose to call the police, and the garden proposed to expel the teachers involved and let the children go to kindergarten for three years for free, but they were rejected by the parents.
The parents' idea is that the garden needs to solve the children's follow-up treatment problems, mainly scar problems, and also need to provide relevant psychotherapy and psychological guidance.
The emotional management of kindergarten teachers' profession is particularly important.
As a kind of education industry, kindergarten teachers are a special existence, because they are faced with some immature or even naive children. It is difficult to manage at first, but patience is not something that ordinary people can have.
Children aged three or four or even two or three are curious about everything, especially in today's era, children are the apple of every family's eye. Before entering the park, most of them were idle at home.
All of a sudden, let them observe some "disciplines" in a fixed space. Some children with lively nature need time to adapt, so practitioners as kindergarten teachers should be psychologically prepared.
Not to mention some younger children don't know how to eat or drink Lazar. In fact, parents send them to kindergarten, which is equivalent to spending money to find a nanny. This kind of parents basically don't expect their children to learn anything in kindergarten, just let them adapt to the living environment of the school and be taken care of by the way.
For such a young child, if there is not enough love and patience, and there is no good personal emotional management, the work will definitely not be done well.
Like this incident, it may be that the little boy is disobedient and naughty, but the behavior of the kindergarten teachers involved is unacceptable, not to mention their high professional quality, but such behavior is suspected of breaking the law.
Looking at all kinds of similar incidents, there is a * * * nature, that is, the teacher is "in a bad mood" because of the influence of personal life or site conditions.
High fees do not necessarily mean good.
The mother of the injured child said that when she first chose this kindergarten, she thought it was a kindergarten with higher fees nearby. She thinks that high fees should mean more standardized management and better teachers' ethics, so she would rather go to this kindergarten with more than 2,000 yuan a month.
I never thought about it, but I met such a thing. This also directly reflects that expensive is not necessarily good.
Kindergartens have different charging standards. Generally speaking, it is a data summarized from the faculty, infrastructure and local consumption level. In fact, this data still has moisture.
For parents, there is no way to know how they worked it out, nor can they consider the relevant standards. There is only one selection criterion: high charge = good.
The infrastructure is clear at a glance, but the professionalism of teachers is invisible to the naked eye. This is also the crux of the problem. For kindergarten children, the teacher is the key and the most important.
Therefore, when parents choose a kindergarten, they can't just take the charging standard as a measure. In fact, what kind of teacher is more crucial.
Contradictions among Freshmen: Parents and Teachers
We know the contradiction between doctors and patients, as well as the contradiction between urban management and vendors. In recent years, more and more contradictions between parents and teachers have begun to appear, and there is a growing trend.
In the past, this new contradiction did not exist. At that time, my parents were teachers of one mind and one mind, always standing on the same front. In order to educate children, both sides have the same purpose.
But now this situation has quietly changed. Although most parents still stand with the teacher, cracks have begun to appear.
Recently, a mother I know called the child's class teacher, and I happened to be there. Their conversation made me feel a little incredible, even a little sad. Because the mother's son didn't do well in the math exam recently, she always felt that there was something wrong with the teacher's teaching methods on the phone, while the teacher thought that his son was too playful and difficult to discipline.
This is the origin of contradiction. Children with poor grades want to blame others, not find problems from themselves.
Going back to this incident, if the parents of the injured child are more extreme or extreme, and see that their children are treated like this, they will do something drastic, and the consequences are self-evident
Education needs multi-party interaction.
Recently, the Ministry of Education issued an initiative of "resolutely punishing school troubles according to law and strengthening teachers' personal safety", and made specific measures from five aspects:
The first is to strengthen law enforcement.
The second is to persist in punishing juvenile delinquency according to law.
The third is to strengthen legal interpretation and increase publicity and education on the rule of law.
Fourth, do a good job in the publicity of advanced models of teachers in a normal way.
The fifth is to continue to promote the construction of a safe campus and a campus ruled by law.
This is a good thing, because the country and society can not do without teachers, and the growth of children can not do without teachers. To ensure the personal safety of teachers.
However, this is for teachers with professional ethics, and it is for teachers who are qualified to be called "engineers of human soul". I don't think it applies to some teachers who have no professional ethics.
Parents, families, schools, teachers, education departments and society need multi-party interaction to do a good job in education, and it is difficult to expect one party to complete this work.
Answer: The children play with stools, and the teacher directly lifts the children and throws them on the ground.
Broken jaw, 8 stitches.
The fact is that he was hit by a stool.
But why did the teacher do it?
Do something amazing.
What is the first question reflected by the young teacher's behavior?
No love, no patience.
Treat children simply and rudely by corporal punishment and throwing children.
I don't understand what happened to this child.
The young female teacher has a tendency to violence in her bones.
She may think that the child is disobedient and does something wrong, that is, he should be punished.
You don't need any reason.
But did the child do something wrong?
Not exactly,
If the child really made a mistake, or refused to admit it.
There is always an opportunity to explain.
To err is human, so criticize and educate first.
None of this was done by the young female teacher.
Action: Pick up the child and throw it directly.
This one picks up the baby, throws it out,
Of course, I can't imagine what kind of physical and mental harm it will cause to children.
Probably didn't even think about it.
Emotional anger, an impulse, nothing.
I think this child is too naughty and needs a good education. Nothing serious will happen.
If she calms down, she decides not to risk being discovered by surveillance, being fired, financial compensation and legal liability.
Qualified teachers, especially kindergarten teachers,
Patience and meticulousness are the first and most basic.
Persuade people with reason and educate people with morality.
In order to make students respect and respect.
Young female teachers, because they are young, may not have any jobs.
Just graduated and entered social work.
Educate children in their own habits and ordinary ways,
I have no experience with children myself,
I have had the experience of taking care of children, I know the hardships of taking care of children, and I know the character of children better.
This attitude should be a habit derived from parents' education.
Subtly transfer thoughts from parents to other children.
Change to an elder with experience in ideological education,
The first reaction must be to ask the child what happened.
Soothe children's nervousness, fear and fear.
Because the child is hit by a stool, there will be crying mood.
When she wrestled with that classmate, the other children watched helplessly.
What's the reaction in your heart?
What's wrong with this female teacher? Her behavior is terrible.
Did the students make any mistakes?
Frightened, but also frightened, leading to overreaction and overreaction to the teacher, with psychological shadow.
I am afraid that I will be punished by the teacher like this classmate and become afraid to go to school.
She is not fit to be a teacher.
Personality can be seen, extreme, irritable, irritable, psychological distortion.
Lack of the most basic education of teachers' morality.
Seriously endanger the life and health of students.
Holding a child is a serious matter. Even if the garden dismisses the teacher involved, the parents will not agree, and it is impossible to end the matter like this.
Economic compensation, compensation for mental damage, this is definitely important.
It may also make her bear criminal responsibility for hurting people.
It is not easy to restore children's physical and mental health.
Subsequent psychotherapy must be a long process.
I hope he can restore a peaceful life and happiness as soon as possible.