You said you would protect her all your life, so I wandered around alone.
4. I still like to walk alone, look up at the starry sky alone, remember all the time, or cry alone.
The Monkey King, who didn't meet me, experienced 81 difficulties, and her love was full of regrets.
6. You don't seem to lack me. How dare I hug you?
7. Even if I meet you in my dream, I feel so happy.
8. Don't think about it if you are unhappy. Be nice to yourself, because no one will really care about you.
9. Surround sadness with tears. I want to say how much understanding it takes to mature.
10. When three people walk together, one person will always be left out. When you try to get along with others, you are not beautiful.
1 1. Who will isolate sadness and relieve this pattern?
12. I may have lost my initiative, so I don't seem to care about anything and let myself be Ma Benteng.
13. Now we begin to leave with emotion. What should we do when we really graduate?
14. Missing is like taking a sip of old wine.
15. I don't think I have the strength to resist your cold attitude.
16. It is better to lose the feeling of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss.
17. I usually laugh wildly with people, but I just don't want to be lonely.
18. It took me a long time to know that the best ending with some people is never to hear from them.
19. I know I like you, but I don't know where the future will be. Because I know you won't take me anywhere. And memory lights up your smile. It takes so much effort to be happy.
20. What kind of wind will you hear and what kind of dreams will you have with anxiety and thoughts?
It's a pity that you and I are far apart and have no chance to hug.
1. Missing is like taking a sip of old wine.
2. Dry the sadness, and the rain dispels the melancholy.
You said you would protect her all your life, so I wandered around alone.
4. I still like to walk alone, look up at the starry sky alone, remember all the time, or cry alone.
The Monkey King, who didn't meet me, experienced 81 difficulties, and her love was full of regrets.
6. You don't seem to lack me. How dare I hug you?
7. Even if I meet you in my dream, I feel so happy.
8. Don't think about it if you are unhappy. Be nice to yourself, because no one will really care about you.
9. Even if I bypass Qianshan, I can't find another me.
10. When three people walk together, one person will always be left out. When you try to get along with others, you are not beautiful.
1 1. Who will isolate sadness and relieve this pattern?
12. I may have lost my initiative, so I don't seem to care about anything and let myself be Ma Benteng.
13. Now we begin to leave with emotion. What should we do when we really graduate?
14. Let the tears surround the sadness.
15. I don't think I have the strength to resist your cold attitude.
16. It is better to lose the feeling of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss.
17. I usually laugh wildly with people, but I just don't want to be lonely.
18. It took me a long time to know that the best ending with some people is never to hear from them.
19. I know I like you, but I don't know where the future will be. Because I know you won't take me anywhere. And memory lights up your smile. It takes so much effort to be happy.
20. What kind of wind will you hear and what kind of dreams will you have with anxiety and thoughts?
You are finally leaving me. Sad to say, let me hug you again.
This time, you are finally leaving me. When you went to the security check, my tears could not help rushing down. It has been 2 1 year. The moment you came, I knew this day would come. Everything I have done for you is for today.
There is a kind of love that means separation, and that is the love between parents and children.
That day, I heard you say to me: Mom, my classmates all say that no matter where Keren is placed in the world, she can survive and will live well! You know, that's the best compliment I've ever heard At this moment, how proud I am, for you and for my mother!
You came by accident, and when I was not fully prepared, you were caught off guard. From the moment I knew you were coming, I became a mother, and I had a sacred mission. I want to prepare everything for you, so that one day when you leave me, you will have a better life than when you are by my side.
You were born in a cold winter, which was particularly cold that year. You won't come out. I suffered a lot when I gave birth. From the first day I met you, I knew all my pain was worth it.
The day after birth, the nurse took you to take a shower. She came back and said strangely, you can laugh. Many children won't laugh until a few months later. You are only two days old, and you can still laugh. It's really incredible.
Later, I saw you smile, especially when you were sleeping. It was sweet! What did you dream? Is it the flower girl in the sky or the fairy grandpa who sent you here? Tell him that you have found a responsible and good mother, so that he can rest assured?
A few days after you were born, you had diarrhea. Your family went back to get something that day, and I held you in the delivery room and cried. You were small and weak. I'm really worried that I can't support you. I am a helpless mother, and I don't know how to give you a future!
You survived after all, and you finally made me seriously perform my mother's duties.
Before you were born, I read more than a dozen books on prenatal education. I want to make all preparations for being a qualified mother.
After the full moon, I carry you in the streets, parks and shopping malls. I let you see the world where you were born and enrich your mind with more information. I keep talking to you as I walk, pointing at all kinds of things. Whether you understand it or not, I see your big bright eyes rolling around. I'm sure you can feel what your mother said.
I insist that everyone speak Mandarin to you and use correct expressions, such as taking a bath, instead of taking a bath for nothing or taking a bath. When you grow up, I insist on inducing you to say what you want, such as drinking milk. You pointed to a bottle, I taught you to say milk, but you refused to say it and cried. Then you say milk angrily, I'll give you the bottle.
When you were a few months old, I bought a lot of picture books and taught you about animals and plants, transportation and so on. I took pains to describe the world to you and made up many stories. I became a fairy tale king.
When you are two years old, I think you should gradually enter independent text reading. I began to prepare for your literacy reading. First, I labeled all the items in my house with words and names, so that you can gradually associate words with objects. This process is a bit long and requires patience. I even use cards to write the names of many things outside, and I will find opportunities to teach you when I see them when I go out.
When you were two and a half years old, you knew many Chinese characters, but they were scattered. I know that literacy is not the goal, but independent reading is, so I transferred you to the early education stage of game literacy+reading.
I don't know who else will prepare lessons to teach children like me. I have designed nearly 100 kinds of parent-child games, focusing on teaching you to read. I won't teach you from the shallow to the deep, nor will I teach you from the concrete to the abstract. I will teach you one article at a time. I let you read a simple story independently every few days after you can read, so that you can taste the joy of success.
Every night is the happiest time for our mother and daughter. After dinner, you will say, mom, let's play literacy games, so we use those little word cards as props. We played with rabbits, little red riding hood and black cat sheriff ... learning became a pleasure and your need, so you learned quickly. At the fastest time, I can recognize nearly 30 words every day, at least a dozen.
Soon you will be able to read some short stories in pure text independently, so there is a strange phenomenon in our family. It is not the mother who tells stories to her children, but the children who tell stories to their mothers, which makes you feel particularly fulfilled. Because of this, you prefer to read and write.
In this way, it took me a year to help you clear the reading literacy barrier. Before you are four years old, you can not only read fairy tales in pure words, but even watch the juvenile version of The Journey to the West and The Romance of the Three Kingdoms. So, when you were five years old and in the first grade of primary school, others brought comics to school, and you brought books, Yilin or Journey to the West. Reading has become your first hobby.
Extensive reading makes your knowledge so extensive, involving almost all aspects, making you far more mature than your peers in thinking and handling things, and your written expression is better than most of your peers. As a result, when you were 7 years old, as the only small author in this city who won the first prize in the World Chinese Composition Competition for Primary School Students, your work was included in the national outstanding primary school students' composition selection. I'm not surprised at the news!
Until today, I think that the cultivation of reading habits and ability is the best gift for you in my life!
In the cultivation of mathematical thinking, unlike other mothers, I taught my children to sing numbers from the beginning and let them count to 100 like parrots. I'll let you learn to report numbers at a glance without counting objects, and even report numbers with your imagination, starting from 1 and ending within 10. I play blindfolded counting with you, listen to the game of reciprocal and antonym with you ... and cultivate my attention, sense of numbers, logical reasoning ability, reverse thinking and mathematical imagination in various ways.
I won't teach you how to count until everything is ready. I have made great progress because I sharpen my knife and cut wood by mistake. I just said that when I count to 10, I will jump to 1 1, and when I count to 20, I will jump to 2 1, and then I can do the same. I can't believe I taught you to take a bath at the age of two or three from 65438.
I have always believed that interest, habit and ability are more important than knowledge for education. I insisted on this idea in the process of raising you. Before I train you to learn any knowledge and skills, I always start with these six words, never eager for quick success. Even if you walk slowly at first, you will make rapid progress later, far exceeding children of the same age. Before the age of 5, you can add and subtract multiple numbers in your mind, and you also know currency and conversion.
At this time, you can help me to buy daily necessities such as oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in the shop downstairs. I think I can give you pocket money. I will give you 20 yuan a month, and it is stipulated that you should arrange to buy your daily necessities besides books and clothes. I said, you can use it all at once or as needed, but I won't buy you what you want after using it.
You can always arrange it well and even save money. You bought me a primer coat on my birthday, and I will wear it for ten years.
When you were in the first grade at the age of five, our city stipulated that you could go to school at the age of seven. In order to make yourself walking to school, I gave up one of the best famous primary schools in this city (my father and sister are teachers in that primary school, and the registered permanent residence is there, and the principal has agreed to accept it), and chose a new primary school closest to home, which just enrolled students in the first year.
I remember that night, I took you to the new headmaster's house for an exam. The headmaster was too kind to refuse in person (I did find an acquaintance). However, when he saw a little guy come in, he frowned and said, how can I go to school when I am so young? I don't know anything! You said to the headmaster unconvinced: Principal, you are wrong. I don't know everything. Do not believe you test me!
The headmaster became interested in this self-righteous little guy. He asked your name and age in English first, and you answered like a stream, because the headmaster didn't know. Since you were three years old, I have shown you Disney cartoons in pure English every day. I use this to cultivate your sense of language.
Then the headmaster took out a book for you to read. Wow, didn't the headmaster deliberately make things difficult for us? Let a 5-year-old mention Saint Amethyst? Read from the place he specified. I didn't expect you to have a plan, read it in one breath, and looked at the surprised expression of the principal. You smiled proudly!
Who knows if the headmaster still won't give up He adds and subtracts three digits and two digits to make you do mental arithmetic. Who knows that you got the right answer as easy as blowing off dust. Finally, the principal smiled and said, I will take this student and let the best teacher teach her. Don't waste it
The day before school starts, I told you that going to school is your own business. I taught you to use an alarm clock before, and you have learned to tell the time long ago. I showed you the way to school, including a path. I taught you all the ways to pay attention to safety. I said I would take you to school on the first day. From then on, you must listen to the alarm clock to get up, wash your face and dress, carry your schoolbag and go to school by yourself. The school was unified at that time.
Every morning, you get up, run to the balcony to try the weather, then decide how many clothes you want to wear, then wash your backpack and go to school, and say goodbye to your parents before going out. I often get up after you leave!
I remember one day, it was raining heavily outside. When I watched you walk carefully in the rain with an umbrella on the balcony, I suddenly burst into tears. I don't know if I am a cruel mother, but I know that for your future, I must cultivate your independence from an early age.
I haven't checked your homework (except your composition) since your first day at school. Because you read the words early, you don't need me to read the questions, let alone explain their meaning, so I never watch you do your homework. Sometimes you don't finish your homework, or you don't write it well. Let the teacher criticize you. I didn't even help you dictate. You wrote it yourself.
Sometimes I miss things before going to school, and I don't have a notebook when I take dictation in class. Although I work not far from your school, I have never tried to send you anything you missed, because I hope you will take your responsibility yourself. Many times, you have to borrow your classmates' papers to finish dictation.
The worst time, one month before the second grade exam, you lost your schoolbag for fun. When I learned about this, I could have taught, scolded and punished my children like other mothers, and then tried to buy or borrow textbooks for my children, but I didn't!
I didn't scold you, on the contrary, I expressed sympathy. Without books, it is much trouble to do homework in class. You can buy schoolbags and notebooks with your pocket money, but I say there is nothing you can do about books. You can only solve the problem by yourself. I'm going to make you do badly in the exam. I want you to take the consequences for your actions!
No way, because there are no books, we can only listen more carefully in class and remember what the teacher said. But because there are no books to do homework at home, we have to use textbook homework during recess, so we lose the time to go out and play with our classmates and taste the consequences of carelessness.
To my surprise, your final exam turned out to be three courses 100. Yes, it is the subject 100, but I know you work hard. I didn't punish you or help you when you made a mistake. You learned what you should have learned from your mistakes.
I have been cultivating your independent thinking ability. I never told you to listen. On the contrary, I said that even when both parents and teachers are at fault, you should learn to think for yourself, because you started studying earlier and established your values earlier. So I will hardly tell you the answer to anything you encounter, including the problems in your study. I use questions to guide you to think and let you find the answer yourself.
Teachers in lower grades like to give content and words when teaching composition, so that students can draw gourd ladle and even connect words into sentences. Let me tell you clearly, mom doesn't like you like this. Can't write according to the teacher's instructions. You want me to write my heart by hand. The teacher gives you low marks, and the mother gives you extra points. If you write an article without thinking for yourself, mom wants you to rewrite it.
I forbid you to read the composition of primary school students. I don't want those articles to bind your mind. So your articles have various genres, such as playing with mud, fighting with children, writing about beggars and writing about all kinds of interesting things. One year on Teacher's Day, Zhanjiang Daily wrote an essay. Others wrote about the teacher's hardships and feelings, but you did the opposite. You wrote an article "My joys and sorrows with Teacher Chen", which was full of real and interesting things and expressed the relationship between teachers and students in the new period. It was selected for the newspaper.
I remember once, you wrote a composition to send grandma across the street, which was a fake patchwork. Although the score was not low, I was so angry that I tore up my composition book and threw it into the trash can. I said loudly, if you write your composition like this again, I won't allow you to read books in the future, because reading so many books is useless to you and makes you up.
You cried and wrote an article "I hope my mother won't care about me". You wrote down your three wishes in the article, hoping that no matter when you study, what friends you make and what books you read, your mother will care. This article later participated in the World Composition Competition for Primary School Students and won the only first prize in this city. At that time, you were 7 years old, and compared with your big brothers and sisters who participated in the fifth and sixth grades, your writing was still a little immature. The judges said you won if you didn't do it. You wrote about childlike innocence.
I often play math games with you, such as 2 1 point. I ask you to seek multiple solutions to a mathematical problem, not just books but books. When you encounter a problem, I won't tell you how to solve it. I will set the steps for you by asking questions, so that you can follow the trend. I tell you, learning a method is more important than solving a hundred problems.
By the fifth grade, your ability to solve math problems even surpassed that of your math teacher. Later, when you represented Zhanjiang City in the National China Cup Mathematics Competition, you were only 65,438+00 years old. I'm still sorry that you didn't let you go by plane but by car. You got carsick to the point where you only got a bronze medal.
You have won various awards such as Chinese, numbers and English, and won many honors for this newly established primary school. The headmaster is proud of you, too When you graduated from primary school, this newly-built school has become a famous local school. At the beginning of that year, the enrollment of this prestigious school was the first in the whole region and the second in the city!
You are a child with a special personality who advocates freedom since childhood. Every day after school at noon and at night, I have to play outside for a long time before I go home. I always wait for you to come home for dinner for a long time, so I won't let you in as soon as you come back. At first, you wanted to come in crying. Later, you stopped crying, opened your schoolbag and sat at the door with a book until I opened the door for you.
When you were six and a half years old, you went to a children's summer camp in Beijing without your parents and became good friends with foreign teachers. I heard that you took the lead in finding the theory of the head teacher in Tsinghua because of the power failure of 1 1.
In junior high school, you went to Guangzhou, which is more than 500 kilometers away from home. At that time, you were only 1 1 years old, and you could go back and forth several times by yourself. 17 years old, you went to Beijing to go to college. From the first time, you were so independent, and I felt at ease when you went anywhere in the world.
I have always felt guilty about you. I didn't give you a harmonious family. Your father is a good man, but we really don't get along. Although you have never opposed my divorce and even advised me to give up, I don't have the courage to use it as my excuse. In the third year of high school, your relationship with your father deteriorated. You put up with my emotions every day and advised me to break up every day, even though you missed the college entrance examination and Peking University.
Before you graduated, you were admitted to a well-known Internet company. As soon as you entered, you showed your ability and work attitude, which was affirmed and praised by your colleagues and leaders. Leading a lot of work dares to let you, an intern, finish it independently. I believe your future is bright!
I apologized to you the night before you left home for work. I said if I had known this, I would have taken your advice and decided to divorce you and let you go to Peking University! You say, mom, I don't blame you. I know, you weren't ready. I'm fine now. I believe that I will not be worse than the students who graduated from Tsinghua Peking University in the future.
I remember when I was struggling with my divorce, someone called you to advise me to think of my children and said that it was not easy for my divorced daughter to find a good family. You flatly refused. You insisted that my mother had the right to live her own life. There is no need to sacrifice personal happiness for me. After the divorce, my father is still my father and my mother is still my mother. It's just that they ended a relationship that should have ended long ago. I just need them to live their own lives. If my boyfriend's family dislikes me because of this, I don't want to enter such a family at all. My mother trained me so hard, not to make me a wronged kannika nimtragol!
In those difficult days, you gave me the greatest spiritual strength. You say, mom, you can rest assured to pursue your life. As for me, don't you have a daughter? And don't be afraid, mom, you are so excellent that someone will still love you at the age of 60!
When I really found true love and fell in love with my lover, you were the first person to give me my blessing on my wedding day. You told me to cherish hard-won happiness and live a good life. You changed from my daughter to my best friend.
I had a dream the other night. In my dream, I took you to see a program. I lost you in the crowd. I cried and shouted: Who has seen my daughter? Where's my lovely person? I woke up to find that you have grown up. ......
I sent you a message to tell you this dream. You say, mom, I am still your daughter when I grow up. I will come back to you one day. ......
I think the greatest achievement in my life is to be a mother. On the occasion of Mother's Day, I want to send this document to all mothers in the world. Being a mother is the most glorious and sweet career in the world!