At that time, great changes have taken place in women's body and mind, and both hormone secretion in the body and external changes require women to have strong adaptability.

People in China attach importance to confinement. On the one hand, they hope that the parturient can recover, and on the other hand, they also hope that the child can have enough breast milk. Based on these two considerations, most families will improve their diet and living environment during this period.

Some families without conditions, if there is no one to take care of the parturient, will choose places such as Yueyue and Ziyue Club for postpartum rest.

Generally speaking, confinement is only once or twice in a woman's life, which deserves family attention. On the contrary, those who deliberately make things difficult in this period are the real bad guys.

0 1 "I want to live in the Confucius Club, but my mother-in-law tried to stop me, saying it was a waste of money."

Reader Zhou Qing spent a month in prison and almost divorced her husband.

In the late pregnancy, Zhou Qing began to look for a suitable month club. Because of the nature of her husband's work, she couldn't take paternity leave, so Zhou Qing had to ask professionals to help her.

However, her mother-in-law in her hometown volunteered to take care of Zhou Qing's confinement, especially when she heard that the confinement club Zhou Qing was looking for needed 8,000 yuan a month, she was more firmly opposed to Zhou Qing living there.

"Eight thousand dollars, what's the matter? I won't spend those wasted money. " My mother-in-law is distressed by money and urges Zhou Qing to unsubscribe.

Zhou Qing wasn't so happy: "mom, the somebody else is a professional, eight thousand. This is after the discount. There are people around me who are confined to the moon and spend tens of thousands. "

"Oh, sin, tens of thousands of confinement, really when the money is blown by the wind?" My mother-in-law couldn't believe it, and repeatedly stressed: "Don't live in that club, just wait for me to take care of you at home."

After several arguments, Zhou Qing listened to her mother-in-law's advice, not to live in a club, and not to ask for a new moon, so that her mother-in-law could take care of herself.

In fact, she is also very reluctant in her heart, because she is not familiar with her mother-in-law and has not communicated several times since she got married. Moreover, her own tastes are not clear to each other, and the concept of parenting is obviously very different. There is bound to be a contradiction between two people in one room.

Zhou Qing also wants to go to her mother's house for confinement, but her mother is worried that "your mother-in-law will have opinions", so Zhou Qing has to wait for her mother-in-law's arrival.

The daughter-in-law wants to cry, because her mother-in-law only cooks two eggs at a meal.

I didn't expect Zhou Qing to find that the hard days had passed after giving birth to a child.

My mother-in-law is rude in everything she does. She doesn't care about Zhou Qing at all. She hates having the water heater on at home, saying it's a waste of electricity.

Zhou Qing stopped: "Hey, Mom, I have to wash my hands with hot water. Isn't it cold to turn it off? "

My mother-in-law disagreed: "In our time, there was no hot water. It would be nice to have water, or you young people will be sissy. "

Hearing this, Zhou Qing was very unhappy and thought, "What's wrong with caring about your body? I pay my own water and electricity bills. Is it up to you to show your superiority here? "

To make matters worse, the moon meal my mother-in-law cooked for Zhou Qing was also very humble, saying it was a "moon meal". In fact, it's not even an ordinary meal. There are only two eggs and a bowl of millet porridge for breakfast, and lunch is the same. There are scrambled eggs and boiled eggs, not even a vegetable or meat.

Zhou Qing suggested: "Mom, I should supplement more nutrition now and increase protein and vitamins." The implication is that I need meat and vegetables.

But the mother-in-law obviously "doesn't understand": "Eat eggs, eggs are so nutritious."

After a while, Zhou Qing was wronged and blocked. She called her husband, who was too lazy to take care of it: "Mom has experienced it. What if she did? Can it still harm you? "

Later, Zhou Qing couldn't resist quarreling with her mother-in-law: "Mom, you really went too far. Is this deliberately bullying me? "

They all say that they don't hate the moon. She really thinks that her mother-in-law is trying to make her feel better, saying that she wants to take care of the children. In fact, she won't hug a child when he cries, and she won't coax him when he sleeps. She cooked several meals with her daughter-in-law's money, but she didn't do what her daughter-in-law wanted.

So she thought, 36 plan, walking is the best policy, and she didn't come here to suffer.

Go back to your mother's house, and don't be tortured by this cowardly spirit anymore!

Zhou Qing returned to her parents' home with her child in her arms.

This time, the mother-in-law didn't want to call her son directly to complain: "My son is here, Xiaoqing, isn't this in front of me?" What do others think of me when I go back to my mother's house after confinement? "

It can be seen that this mother-in-law only cares about face-saving projects and does not proceed from reality at all. Why did the daughter-in-law flee to her parents' house, complaining only and not analyzing her own problems?

Zhou Qing is puzzling. His body should be responsible for itself. At first, he had to spend money to recuperate at the Confucius Club, but he was prevented from going.

I can't even find a new moon, and I can't even use some hot water at home;

I can't eat well. In that case, why can't I go back to my family?

Is it necessary to eat eggs every meal and let her mother-in-law be at the mercy of old ideas and concepts?

Personally, Zhou Qing did the right thing. Old people sometimes have good intentions, but they can't keep up with the changes of the times.

They don't understand that what could have been solved with money should have been solved with money long ago. Don't make trouble to save a few money, and make everyone unhappy.

To tell the truth, I have always advised the elderly not to care too much about the lives of young people, especially the lives of their mother-in-law, not to mention the lifestyle of their daughter-in-law. Young people should be allowed to deal with such extremely personal things as confinement.

Instead of holding old ideas and doing the same thing to increase each other's difficulties.

The 8,000-yuan moon club looks expensive, but the money can ease family conflicts and avoid a hatred and a lifelong resentment. Do you think this money is not worth it?