Young people are under great financial pressure, so the wedding expenses are not mentioned for the time being. After marriage, they not only have to worry about miscellaneous trifles such as rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but also worry about milk powder money and various expenses of early education classes after having children.

If you can't prepare for all the unknowns in the future before marriage, you will feel very headache about the word "money" after marriage, so this pressure will make men shrink back and dare not talk about "love" easily, or even dare not walk into marriage easily.

Modern women's thoughts are very independent.

Nowadays, women's thoughts are more and more independent, which is completely different from the girls of the last era. Women in those days hoped to change their lives by marrying a good man and starting a beautiful marriage.

Nowadays, women choose to be what they want to be in this era and begin to struggle for their careers and dreams. They no longer "fall in love" and no longer rely on marriage to spend their lives.

In other words, nowadays, women are very "Buddha", even though they are constantly urging their parents and relatives to get married, they still maintain their persistence.

If you can't meet a suitable lover, then you'd rather be single than spend the rest of your life with an unsuitable person who doesn't love.

Moreover, they have enough ability to support themselves and give themselves everything beautiful, even if they are alone, they will be particularly happy, so more and more young women are beginning to reject marriage. besides

I haven't met the right lover. If you get married just for the sake of getting married, you won't feel lucky when you meet someone you don't like.

So even if you spend more time, you should try to find someone you really like to spend the rest of your life with.