On the advantages and disadvantages of intergenerational education, in many families, children are put first. In these aspects, we can know our babies better. They all say "I will be you when I grow up" and spend more time with them. Let's share with you the advantages and disadvantages of intergenerational education.

On the advantages and disadvantages of intergenerational education 1 viewpoint 1: sufficient time is beneficial >: unfavorable

Uncle Li, who lives in the same community as Ms. Zhang, expressed his views to reporters. He believes that if grandparents can master the love for their grandchildren, it will be very beneficial for grandparents to take care of their children.

Advantage 1: Many grandparents have enough time and energy and are willing to spend time with their children. Be able to listen to children's stories patiently. Generally speaking, it is easy to establish a harmonious relationship between grandparents and grandchildren.

Advantage 2: Grandparents have practical experience in raising and educating children, and know much about what problems children are prone to at different ages and how to deal with them.

Advantage 3: The rich social experience and life perception accumulated by grandparents' parents in long-term social practice are favorable conditions for promoting children's development and effectively handling children's education problems.

Advantage 4: Grandparents themselves have a childlike innocence, and it is easy to establish harmonious feelings with grandchildren, which creates a good emotional foundation for educating children and is conducive to the physical and mental health of grandparents and grandchildren.

Viewpoint 2: easy to spoil, disadvantages > advantages

Ms. Zhang believes that taking care of children by grandparents frees up some necessary working hours and enhances the feelings between children and their elders, but it is not good for children's growth in the long run. She summed up the following reasons:

First, it is easy to form the phenomenon of doting and "intergenerational habits". Grandparents love their grandchildren too much and indulge their children everywhere, which easily leads to their willfulness, strong dependence and low self-care ability. There are also some grandparents who "protect their weaknesses" because they love their children too much, which leads to children's weaknesses not being corrected for a long time.

Second, the concept is outdated. Many grandparents still ask their children with old ideas and teach them too many old experiences. There are also some grandparents who unconsciously teach their children a lot of feudal superstitions because of their low culture and outdated concepts, which invisibly increases the difficulty for children to accept new ideas and new knowledge, resulting in emotional barriers between children and parents. Parents love and protect their grandchildren's shortcomings, which makes it difficult for children to accept their parents' strict demands and criticisms, and it is also easy to form emotional obstacles and emotional opposition, making it difficult to carry out normal and necessary education. This is particularly prominent in my son.

Therefore, Ms. Zhang still believes that young parents should take time to spend with their children no matter how busy they are. Giving children's education and custody to grandparents is prone to problems. "It's not that you don't trust your elders, but it's hard to be strict with your children from the perspective of your elders."

Expert advice: young parents are the main ones, supplemented by the elderly.

To achieve the "win-win" of intergenerational education, we may wish to make the following efforts:

First, grandparents who implement intergenerational education should constantly learn educational knowledge, including parenting knowledge, pedagogy and psychology, as well as nutrition knowledge.

Secondly, I suggest young people. No matter how busy parents are, they should try their best to spend time with their children. Education should focus on young parents, supplemented by the elderly. More parenting behaviors are carried out by young parents themselves. Especially for babies aged 0 ~ 3 years, this period is a critical period to establish children's sense of security. Many western countries advocate mothers to be full-time mothers during this period. Children with poor security will have many problems in their future growth.

Third, educate children, please "hard" the next generation of parents. Influenced by the social environment, in the intergenerational education, the old people have sufferings, and the "sufferings" are branded too deeply on them, so they don't want their grandchildren to suffer anything. Therefore, when they bring up children, their resilience is generally poor. It has become a compulsory course for children to have principles in education and be able to "resolutely" educate them.

Fourthly, intergenerational education must be unified in educational concepts. To do this, young parents are required to communicate with grandparents about their children's education frequently, so as to have the same caliber and unified views. Otherwise, when children make mistakes, parents will criticize them, and old people will cover up their weaknesses, which will lead to children being at a loss.

On the advantages and disadvantages of intergenerational education 2 1 Feeding: chasing the child. Hello.

Clinically, children fed by grandparents are more likely to have bad habits such as picky eaters and partial eclipse. This may be because the elderly are soft-hearted and charitable, so that they have crossed the boundary between "caring" and "doting".

But in fact, because of their rich experience and patience, the elderly may better understand which foods are more suitable for children's growth and what children like to eat. Therefore, it is best for parents to unify their thinking and discuss with each other. You can ask the old people what to choose and how to do for your children. Parents should stop it in time when they see the old people chasing their children to feed, take a bite of rice, win a candy, etc., so that the old people can understand that letting their children do bad things will only harm them.

2, eyes, legs and feet are not flexible, which brings hidden dangers

In all kinds of contradictions in Separate child care, hidden dangers are fatal. As the elderly grow older, their eyes may not be bright enough, and their legs and feet may not be flexible enough, leading to various hidden dangers. In this regard, on the one hand, young parents should try their best to spend time with their children. If possible, find someone with energy to ensure that the children will be looked after by grandparents. On the other hand, don't discourage the enthusiasm and enthusiasm of the elderly, and work with them to find ways to reduce hidden dangers to a relatively low level. For example, install anti-collision angles, locks, dining chairs, etc. It is more convenient for the elderly to take care of their children at home.

3. Discipline: too strict or too loose

Many old people tend to be too strict or too loose in disciplining their children. The former takes the past "militarized management" as the standard and sets a standard for everything he likes; The latter, when seeing a child coquetry, is soft-hearted, and everything depends on the child.

In fact, children also need respect and understanding, but also have appropriate free space. Faced with this problem, young parents should first have a correct attitude, no matter how busy they are, they should spend more time at home, and don't hand over the education and custody of their children to grandparents. In addition, the two generations should negotiate to establish feasible family rules, and there are rules to follow when problems arise.

4, early education: only teach children to read and study.

Different times have different views on education. In the eyes of many old people, early education is nothing more than "intellectual development", teaching children to study early and learn early. In fact, the new view is that "children who can play are smarter", and it is more important for parents to cultivate their children's nature and expertise. We can let the old people read books in this field, lead children to contact with the real and colorful world, participate in outdoor sports with their parents, and let the old people gradually accept brand-new educational concepts with the happy smiles of children.

In the face of many unfortunate events, are you worried about intergenerational education? In fact, there are many successful cases of intergenerational education. Smart pregnant mothers will avoid the above misunderstandings and achieve a win-win situation for children and parents.