? I always thought she was just a model, a host and a singer. After a closer look, Baidu realized that she actually obtained a double degree in art history and economics from the University of Toronto, Canada. She has both talent and face value, and her gestures exude infinite charm. Now many people know the importance of education. One or two children in a family do their homework from the time they are pregnant, prenatal education after pregnancy, early education after birth, cram schools and interest classes for various skills, and learning skills in food and clothing. These hardware "equipment" is very hard, but how to cultivate these soft skills of communication, communication and habit with people?
Sister Lexus wrote this self-cultivation class for the children. The content of this book is not too difficult. It is suitable for children in middle and senior grades in primary schools to start learning, and it is also of great guiding significance to our parents. The book is divided into four chapters, The Code of Language, The Giant of Action, The Wisdom of Pattern and The Magic of Mind, with more than 30 suggestions. Some short stories and daily trivia are integrated into it, with beautiful pictures, explaining how to cultivate good cultivation for children in a simple way.
? It's not just dolls that talk badly, even adults sometimes talk a lot when they hear what others are saying, and they interrupt in a hurry before they understand what others really mean. On the one hand, it is impolite, on the other hand, it may be easy for others to misunderstand. Listening and speaking is also an effective way of communication. Learning to listen can not only give us more information, but also show respect for others. Although it's only a trivial matter, it shows your humility, so it's best not to talk before listening to other people's ideas. At the same time, Sister Lexus also gave us some suggestions on how to overcome interrupting others. For example, slow down your speech. When you want to interrupt, remind yourself to "slow down, slow down" and deliberately pause for a while. When the topic you want to interrupt is actually over, you naturally don't want to interrupt. Or think first, then express, listen to it all, and then think carefully. A thoughtful expression is more logical and persuasive.
? Sit still and always think about yourself. Don't gossip about others. Don't speak ill of others behind their backs. After class, friends form a circle in the classroom to discuss an absent classmate. Such discussions are often heated, including the classmate's hair, grades, what he has done recently, and even his quirks, shortcomings, defects and so on. What kind of people like to speak ill of others behind their backs? One is that people who think they are great, but actually have no talent, lack self-confidence, and in order to get attention, they raise themselves by belittling others. There is another kind of person who likes to gossip about others. If he doesn't talk for a day, he will feel uncomfortable all over, and his heart will be empty and bored. It seems a pleasure for him to gossip about others. In life, we will meet all kinds of people and won't speak ill of others behind their backs. This is the greatest achievement of being a man. Tolerance, sincerity and kindness will make us quickly integrate into the team. At the same time, when you meet others talking about yourself, you should learn to "turn a deaf ear".
Respond in time and don't let other people's inquiries float in the air. Many children often play with toys or read picture books when they are about to eat, even if they hear their parents make you sweat, they pretend not to hear them at all. Language is used for communication. When people talk to you, you cut off the communication channels. For the questioner, just like his question floating in the air, it makes others embarrassed and may be misunderstood.
The book also talks about many details, which may be ignored in our daily life. She carefully solved the children's doubts bit by bit, just like a trickle that moistened our hearts.