Because there are many people who know me, parents of preschool children often call or come home directly and ask me to recommend some "good" kindergartens to them. I asked them, "What do you think?" {We also said bluntly: "The standard of a good kindergarten is to be able to learn foreign languages, literacy and arithmetic." I asked again: "What is the reason for choosing such a' good' kindergarten?" They said, "The main thing is to let children study in advance, so that they will have greater advantages in entering primary school in the future." I can understand what these parents think, but I don't support it. Because these parents' mentality is wrong, there is a serious deviation in their understanding of the tasks and goals of preschool education, and their thoughts have entered a misunderstanding. "Pre-school education", referred to as "pre-school education", is the task of preparing children for school, but it is not the only task, just for the vital interests of children. It should be said that the fundamental and long-term task and purpose of preschool education is to lay the foundation for the healthy growth and development of children throughout their lives. I found that many parents of preschool children have a serious idea of quick success and instant benefit in their children's education, and regard preschool education as a "preschool class" to prepare their children for school. I am worried about the stubborn attitude of some parents of preschool children, and I am anxious for fear that their quick success and instant benefit will ruin their children's future and happiness. The loss of a happy childhood that should have belonged to children has caused irreparable regret in life. Just when I was anxious about this, I saw a letter written by a parent of preschool children to a preschool education magazine, which I recommended to parents. The title of this letter is "Please don't do experiments on my children". The letter said: "My child was sent to the early education park at 18 months (one and a half weeks). At first, I felt very good when I listened to the introduction of the person in charge of the kindergarten: there are foreign teachers, male teachers and those fashionable parenting concepts: more importantly, only they are willing to accept such a small child. " However, after the children spent two months in the early education park, they gradually adapted to the life in the kindergarten, and the basic students were able to abide by the teaching order in the kindergarten. Kindergarten teaches children: besides foreign languages and mathematics, there is also literacy. I immediately protested to the kindergarten. "Babies learn a foreign language. I don't agree. When a two-month-old child is learning his mother tongue, it is difficult for him to adapt to English and Mandarin. But the foreign language teacher in this kindergarten is very resourceful. The children feel very happy throughout the class, so let's let nature take its course. " However, counting is different. 20-month-old children have no concept of numbers. Because it is a mixed-age class, older children can count several times. Young children can't count at all Therefore, even if there are so few candies that don't get rewards, he is frustrated. My children are now nervous when they hear the counting: "What's worse, the head of literacy teaching in kindergarten has shown me their teaching achievements many times: a boy under 3 years old has learned more than 2,000 words. After I refused many times, the head also came up with many fashionable theories to warn me and say me. This will hurt a little genius. " I don't know whether the early education park is doing this for early education experiments or other commercial purposes, but I want to tell the early education park: I hope that your teaching and conservation work can really follow the laws of children's physical and mental development, so that children can have a happy childhood. Don't do experiments with my children, let alone use my children as signs. "I was very happy and excited after receiving this letter. From this letter. I found that not all parents of preschool children are stubborn, but there are clear-headed parents. This also shows that with the passage of time