Going to kindergarten is a key step for children to leave home and go to society. When children enter kindergarten, they need to change their previous living habits. You can't do whatever you want like at home, you must obey the teacher, you can't monopolize toys, and your lifestyle such as sleeping, eating and defecating has changed. If parents can skillfully use this change to inspire and stimulate their children's adaptability to the environment, they can improve their psychology and actions. On the contrary, if parents ignore this change, especially the children who are arrogant and dependent at home, they will encounter many difficulties in going to kindergarten. There are many reasons why children don't want to go to kindergarten. Parents should carefully observe and analyze and find out the main reasons so as to help their children change.

1. Children should not be too young to enter kindergarten. Generally, it is more appropriate to enter kindergarten at the age of 3, because at this time, children can take care of themselves and have psychological needs to like children. After that, parents should make necessary preparations for their children to enter kindergarten, such as cultivating their children's good qualities of being polite and reasonable; Willing to share toys and food with others; You can play with children; Be able to urinate by yourself; Learn to dress yourself and wash your hands before and after meals; Learn to obey and control your behavior within the specified time. In short, parents can simulate the environmental requirements of kindergartens and carry out appropriate training at home, so that children will not feel strange and at a loss because of the sudden changes in the environment after entering the park.

2. Always tell your child: "Kindergarten is an interesting place" instead of scaring him with "If you don't listen, I'll send you to kindergarten". This will leave a terrible impression on children's young minds, thinking that kindergarten is a terrible and unfree place. When he really wants to go to kindergarten, he will have fear.

3. When sending children to kindergarten every morning, the children are always crying, so parents will find out the reasons carefully. What is the problem and what psychology leads children to refuse to go to kindergarten? Generally speaking, children will show unwilling words and deeds when they start kindergarten. After two weeks or a month, they will get used to it and show indifference. If, after more than half a year, parents send their children to kindergarten, the children still cry as if they had just entered kindergarten, parents should find ways to cooperate with the teacher to formulate a "plan" to correct their children's behavior.

When children are crying and don't want to go to kindergarten, don't simply reprimand, threaten or cheat, but ask the teacher about the situation and see where the problem lies. If children are too attached to their parents and don't want to go, they will always say "stomachache" or pester them to go every time they are sent to kindergarten. In view of this situation, parents should strengthen the cultivation of their children's independent living ability and make them realize that "parting is also love". For example, they can let their children stay with relatives for a few days for a change, which is good for cultivating their adaptability to life.

5. When the child comes home from kindergarten, praise his performance in kindergarten in time. Some children do well in kindergarten and get along well with teachers and children, but when they get home, they change, act noisy, make excuses and never go to kindergarten again the next day. For such a child, parents should cooperate with the kindergarten teacher to make a "chart" for him. Every time he can go to kindergarten on time and abide by the rules of kindergarten life and eating, he must put a "little red star" on his "chart" and reward him if he accumulates three little red stars.