My niece, who graduated from a famous university, quit her job when she was pregnant and stayed at home to protect her baby. I've been around the baby since I gave birth. It is said that my grandparents and grandparents are retired and can help look after them. But she doesn't want to talk about it. It's better to take care of the children by herself and cultivate them well. When she is over one year old, she will give her children an early education class and take them to class. I also signed up for a parenting course online, and I am very busy every day. Old people on both sides just help cook and help in life. However, in education, she is hands-on. Sometimes when it comes to the second child, she says that this one has exhausted me. I just need to train one, and I will never want it again. I feel that young people nowadays are really tired of raising a child. It's hard to have a second child, let alone a third child, and you can't even think about it!
The third child is a question of financial freedom, which ordinary people should not ask. Many people in the entertainment circle have triplets.
At this time, I have to say that money can solve 80% of troubles in life. Yes, it is almost impossible to go out to work after having three children, but as the wife of a rich man, people don't need women to work to support their families.
I know a sister, born after 90. While her classmates were preparing for the college entrance examination, she was hooking up with a rich man. She was pregnant with the rich man's child when her classmates went to college. During all kinds of entanglements, will it be a son? If it is a daughter, she will basically be finished in the future. When the rich man learned that she was pregnant, he took her to Hong Kong for examination as soon as possible, and it turned out to be a son.
The rich man has done a lot of business. I don't know how much he is worth. He had only two daughters at home before, and it was always his regret not to have a son. When he was in his early fifties, a son suddenly appeared, which made him very happy. This sister instantly realized that a mother is more expensive than a child.
The child was born in a maternity hospital with a monthly center of 70,000 to 80,000. After giving birth to the baby, she did a full set of postpartum rehabilitation and recovered as before. After the full moon, when they left the center of the month, they dug up the moon with their children and went with them. As a result, more than a year later, I was pregnant with my second son, and not long after giving birth to my second son, I was pregnant with my third daughter. Now the third daughter has successfully unloaded the goods, and each of the three children has a parenting sister-in-law. In addition, the family also invited Filipino maids to do housework and cook. This woman plays with her children every day, then dresses herself up beautifully, falls in love with her man, and is coaxed into submission by him.
What I know at present is that her man bought her two houses in our city, one is the school district of one of the best middle schools, and the other is the river view room. Thailand also bought a holiday home. What other assets are unclear.
Nearly ten years have passed, and her classmates should have all graduated, got their own jobs, got married and had children. People like her should be so unique.
The third child just doesn't want to go to work in the future, because the child still needs to be taken care of.
/kloc-you can't go out to work until 0/0 years later. Unless the elderly are strong, at least wait until the children go to college. Taking care of children full-time is much more tiring than going to work.
A woman's stomach is not a plastic bag, so she wants to put some in it. Even if she is in good health, it is a great loss to put three children in. Even if you don't have to work to support your family, it's hard to keep a man from changing his mind; How can a man spend other people's money to make money freely even if he doesn't change his mind? Besides, human life is limited. Why waste their limited lives on endless parenting? When the second child was released, my mother asked us if we had any ideas. He said to me: whoever lets you have another child will harm you. [Covering your face] Giving birth to three children is not only to support three lives, but also to support each child for 20 years. Of course, the heart can be ignored. [Picking nose]
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