Parenting experience sharing

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. Environment and habits

1, the environment is very important, you have to do it right.

2. Children don't need to be too smart and too sharp, which is not a good thing; The key is to cultivate good habits.

3, don't easily form a bad habit, so you will find that the time to correct a bad habit will be twice or three times that of forming a habit; Don't introduce new bad habits to children because of short-term interests. For example, because children don't eat, turn on the TV for children to watch, so as to achieve the purpose of feeding more.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. Respect and protect

4. Respect children and get used to empathy.

5. Pay attention to protecting children's attention and interest.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. Educational skills

6, educate children to pay attention to skills, step by step, don't eat fat, step by step; Understand the characteristics of children now, and don't encourage them.

7. Many methods of "early education" in society, when you don't know how to do it, don't do it, do something different; I believe that it is better to be frugal than to be extravagant.

8. Children are children of society. Don't think too much of yourself as the savior of your child.

9. Don't dwell too much on the reasons and theoretical basis of your own parenting details. Just do it, fait accompli, not so much attention.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. Talk to children

10, to tell the truth, when you find that some truth is not necessarily effective, then pay attention to your speaking skills, and you'd rather say half, say some diplomatic words, and don't tell lies;

1 1. Say what the child can understand. A mother who is used to reasoning should be concise and avoid being like Tang Priest.

12, prescient, knowing that doing so may cause children's strong resistance and may make them compromise, then don't interfere with children, otherwise the final result will only be worse than better.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About diet

13, pay attention to the proportion is more balanced, not too fine; /kloc-before the age of 0/year, children should ensure the amount of milk; Pay attention to three meals after one year old; If you can't balance all kinds of diets in one day, it's ok to mix all kinds of diets in one week, and children won't starve themselves to death.

14, eat in the dining chair, please leave if you don't eat.

15, don't worry too much when going out to play can't be as secure as eating at home. Pay a little attention within your ability, such as choosing a clean restaurant; Others, such as whether there is monosodium glutamate in the dish and whether the dish is green food, don't worry too much.

16, calcium supplementation or something, be conscious and not lacking; Get more sunshine.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About dressing and getting sick

17, don't pay attention to clothes, don't bother, just wear as much as your mother, one less is better than one more. Children exercise a lot, and it is easier to catch a cold when the wind blows, and it is more difficult to get better. The child has a runny nose, so put on some clothes. Judge hot and cold, touch the child's back neck;

18, pay attention to strengthening cold training. 19, don't give the child a regular time, take small medicine at every turn.

20. In the cold season, give your child some vc from time to time, or eat some fruit rich in vc every day. When the cold symptoms are mild, if it is just a runny nose, you don't need to take medicine at first, you can wash it more; Most colds are viral, and viruses have no specific drugs. /kloc-just take the medicine for 0/4 days, and don't take the medicine for 2 weeks. Many times it is the psychological comfort of adults themselves. If you go to the hospital with a cold and fever, try to ask for a blood test. Is it possible for a person not to get sick? Impossible; Therefore, don't panic when your child has a cold or a minor illness. Dialectically speaking, a cold is equivalent to an injection. There is no need to pay too much attention to this macro-inevitable thing.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About play and experience

2 1, try to ensure that one parent can play with the child for a certain time every day.

22. Gamification of life, dance academy; Try to make children laugh, and laugh several times a day.

23, playing is not afraid of dirty, let the children play, climb, and not break the blood; Don't interfere with children's behavior too much without affecting their own safety and the interests of others; Not all dangerous things are forbidden to children; Within the controllable range, teach children where the danger is and how to avoid it.

24. Give children as many opportunities as possible to experience themselves, and don't directly tell the results; Let him grope, bump and fail;

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About love and responsibility

25. Teach children to learn to wait;

26. Teach children to be responsible for their actions;

27. Teach children that giving and returning are two-way, and learn to be grateful.

28. Try to sleep with your child while sleeping.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About competition

29. The most important thing is that I only need a child with a score of 70, so I only need to be a mother with a score of 70; Don't be hard on yourself, just get by. After all, it is the first time to be a mother.

30. I can refuse to accept teaching my children to face failure, but I can't afford to lose. I can choose to give up or attack again, but I can't cry in front of my opponent.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About fighting

3 1, if the child attacks, learn to judge the situation, sue once first, and then the basic principle is, fight if you can, and flee if you can't; In kindergarten, you can shout loudly to attract others' attention.

32, don't hit people first, no matter who starts first, can't cry first.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About financial management

33. Let children have the right to decide their own affairs;

34. It is planned to introduce a weekly allowance mechanism for children after they are three years old-let them learn to do what they want to do most with limited money, learn to open up sources, and learn to cut costs.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About alternative experiences

35. I often take my children hiking and go to the suburbs; Not afraid of wind and rain.

36. Try going to the countryside once a year to find a different feeling.

■ Love parents and share parenting experience. About praise

37. Praise is the sunshine and rain every day, but it can't be flooded, lest children rely too much on praise and lose their self-evaluation ability.

38. Praise should not be empty. You can't always say "you are so smart, you are great". Praise your child's concrete progress instead of telling him: you are the best.