Fathers, don't use "busy work" as an excuse. Please give your baby more time, love and joy.

NO. 1 Don't lose your temper with children under 2 years old.

Before the age of 2, children basically do not have the ability of self-cognition. In layman's terms, the baby will not be deliberately bad at this time. They cry, and most of them need help. But in reality, many dads don't understand their children's inner world. When their children are not satisfied, they will cry even more. In dad's view, they will become "so bad-tempered, no matter what they do now or in the future", so they will be angry with their children.

In fact, the child didn't mean to make you angry. Most of the time, you don't know him. Therefore, before the age of 2, you can love your children without reservation. Don't lose your temper with children easily. You might as well put yourself in the children's shoes and think about what they really need.

Parents can make some rules at home when their children are two and a half to three years old. When the baby is too headstrong, parents can show their position and strict attitude in a cold way, because at this time, the baby's self-awareness begins to develop, and if it is not restrained, it will grow his headstrong.

NO.2 set aside an hour or two to accompany the children every day.

How much time do you spend with your children every day? I believe that a father is like this: he leaves in the baby's sleep in the morning and comes back in the baby's sleep at night, and he has no chance to talk to his child for a day.

As the first economic pillar of the family, dad almost runs outside. However, aren't you working so hard for your children? The world of children is childlike. In the baby's eyes, he won't understand how much money his father earns outside every day and how hard it is, but whether his father kissed me, gave me a big hug and played games with me.

So some dads are really having a hard time, working hard for their children outside, but the children are not around you. Therefore, no matter how busy fathers are at work, please spare an hour or two every day to accompany their babies, be their first playmates and give you a happy childhood, which is hard to buy.

Give the children a big hug and love

Father's Day is coming. Can you tell Dad loudly, "Dad, I love you"? I believe many parents can't say it. Why is this? Because they didn't get this experience when they were young.

These expressions are mutual. If dads want to tell you loudly "Dad, I love you" when their children grow up, you might as well give your baby a big hug and say your love loudly from now on.

Of course, some male chauvinist fathers suddenly become as childish as children, which seems a bit embarrassing. In fact, when facing children, you are a child. When the baby is 1.5 years old and 2 years old, his imitation ability is quite strong. If you have childlike innocence, then children will become more lively. If you are always serious, then this child is probably serious!

NO.4 don't force your child to study, give him more encouragement if he fails.

Dad's personality and way of doing things have a great influence on children. What dad has to do is to enrich the child's experience as much as possible, take him out to socialize more, and let him learn the truth of dealing with people.

In the process of children's learning, if he doesn't want to, don't be forced. Once forced, the learning effect will be discounted. When the baby can crawl and walk, it is inevitable to bump. Parents should remember to arrange everything, don't exaggerate the baby's setbacks, encourage him to get up by himself, and then affirm him.

It doesn't matter if you fail once or twice. Try a few more times and you will succeed. Let him know this truth from an early age. In this respect, fathers should create more independent opportunities for their children and support and encourage them to go their own way.

NO.5 enriches the child's experience and encourages him to express.

Dad should pay attention to multi-sensory experience and expressive force when choosing early education courses or doing early education himself. What is a multi-sensory experience? Is to fully mobilize children's five senses to understand the world. Children's learning must be integrated into daily life and enrich their own experiences in order to learn happily.

Give a simple example, let the baby know an apple, and don't teach him many cards on the market. You can give him an apple directly, let him see if it is red or green, feel if it is round, let him take a bite and tell him it is sweet.

In addition, before 1 year and a half, the baby's learning is like a sponge absorbing water, and whatever is given to him is absorbed. However, after 1 year-and-a-half, babies should be encouraged to express themselves actively in their own language or behavior. Expression is very important. If children are unwilling to express themselves, it will be quite unfavorable for their future growth.