As we all know, many children are impatient now, and they lose their temper easily. A child's endurance is actually inversely proportional to his age, but the trait of "patience" must be cultivated from an early age. So parents' family education is very important. The content of this paper is that patience should be cultivated from an early age.

Patience should be cultivated from an early age. The importance of family education has been accepted by more and more families. Everyone's patience is limited, which mainly depends on the influence of your family environment. In order to make children have good patience, parents should start training their babies as soon as possible. Parents need to be firm when training their children, and can't stop training because of the baby's grievances. Let every baby have good patience.

Early education experts say that children's endurance is actually inversely proportional to their age, but the trait of "patience" must be cultivated from an early age.

Method 1: communication skills

If parents meet acquaintances on the road and need to talk a few words, children can cultivate tacit understanding with their parents in advance if they want to get attention at this time. For example, let the child put his hand on his parents' hand, and the parents hold his hand and tell him: I know your requirements and I will meet you as soon as possible. This way, you can communicate with your children without interrupting the conversation with others.

Tip: It is difficult for 3-4-year-old children to understand how long "from now on 10 minutes" is. Some children need to relate what they know during training. For example, you can say to your child, "It takes 10 minutes to braid your Barbie doll and put on a skirt. Mom will tell you a story." In this way, children will gradually understand the concept of time.

Method 2: Let the children wait.

Jia Jia usually can't wait to get something, such as watching cartoons, cutting the watermelon she just bought or telling another story. Jiajia's mother will tell her that she can get it, but it will take some time. Give Jia Jia time to experience and compare, and let her know what "waiting" is. During this time, you can sing a short song to your child or count from 1 to 10. Let children understand that "waiting" is only a short time.

Tip: You can also do something while your child is waiting. For example, mom answers the phone and tells the child to be quiet 1 minute. If the child can wait quietly for 1 minute, the mother should praise him like this: "You are so patient that you can play by yourself while the mother is talking." If the child can't listen, then you can ignore him for the next 1 minute and explain the reason to him. To do this, parents need to harden their hearts, otherwise the training will be in vain.

Method 3: divert attention

When parents are about to have a heart-to-heart talk with friends, they might as well give their children a little thing that he has never seen or is not allowed to play with, so as to divert his attention. When the child knows what it is, or what he can do with it, you end the conversation.

Tip: If a parent gives a 3-4 year old child a toy, it means that the parent is responsible for his own behavior, which is not conducive to cultivating the child's patience. Let children draw a picture while waiting, or read a book by themselves, and do something that children are usually interested in, so that children can learn how to kill time by themselves.

Parents can cultivate their children's patience through the methods mentioned above. In training, children will inevitably be influenced by emotions and even complain to their parents. But for the baby's long-term interests, parents can't relax. With the guidance of these theories and correct practical activities, children's future will be beautiful. As a parent, have you taken any action?

Patience should be cultivated from an early age, and parents should set an example.

Parents should first learn to wait patiently, so that children can learn patience. Parents are impatient, and children may have emotional problems such as timidity or being bullied when they grow up.

Don't do everything instead.

For impatient children, parents often love to do everything, so that children don't like it, so parents do it for their children, which makes them lose their curiosity and patience.

3. Let children solve problems independently.

No matter who likes difficult problems and laborious things, tell your child that the answer is wrong when you see that the child is slow or can't do it. Children should be trained to solve problems independently.

4. The process is more important than the result.

It is impossible for a toddler to run, and it is impossible for a beginner to play music at once. Children must climb first and walk first before they can learn to run; Learning piano requires a process of getting familiar with the keys again and again. Even if the child is in a hurry, parents should not worry. They should hold the attitude of trusting their children and wait patiently.

5. Don't expect too much from your child.

Children are not born and exist to satisfy their parents' desires. Parents should let their children do what they like and give them attention and encouragement.

6. Insist on regular exercise.

Only with a healthy body can we have a healthy mind. Exercise has unparalleled effect. Let children set feasible goals and do a certain amount of exercise every day, and children will gradually have the ability of self-adjustment.

7. Play with educational toys

Let children play with some toys that have the function of developing intelligence, such as building blocks. Small pieces of wood are piled together to form different shapes, which exercises the child's patience in the process. In addition, paper-cutting is also a good way to cultivate children's patience. Cut carefully along the drawn line, which naturally exercises the child's patience.

8. Play more team games.

Compared with playing alone, playing more group games can make children form the habit of obeying the rules, and exercise their patience and spirit of unity and cooperation while waiting for the game.

9. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude

Seeing other people's children learn piano, they also send their own children to piano lessons; Seeing other people's children learning go, I also sent my own children to go classes. This will only make children feel bored. When children are really interested in some kind of learning, create opportunities for them to give full play to their potential.

10, starting with a simple textbook.

For impatient children, the initial contact with difficult textbooks will make them lose interest in learning. If you start with a simple textbook and then slightly increase the difficulty when the child can understand it well, the patience of the child will gradually improve in the process of completing the learning task independently.

1 1, state your goal.

Set goals for children within your power and help them finally achieve them. At this time, it is best for children to repeat their goals with their mouths, because in this way, they are implying that they must stick to their commitments and thus have a strong will.