Yin Jianli mentioned seven elements of education in his book, namely:
1. Improve the quality of love.
2. Make learning easy.
3. Lifelong moral education.
4. Cultivate good study habits.
5. The wisdom that parents should have.
6. Small things are big things.
7. Get out of the misleading education.
The biggest thought that this book brings me is how to pay attention to the growth of children. I learned what I think is valuable from the book, which can be summarized as three points:
Learn these three tricks first, and the slag will counterattack in minutes!
1. Learning methods-correct guidance
2. Study habits-stick to the correct methods
3. Learning attitude-the cultivation of autonomous learning
Learning comes with the beginning of a child's life. From their instinctive learning to formal learning in school, no child is destined to be a scum and a bully!
After reading this book, my first thought is Dabao learning English. From her experience, I found that learning should be a happy thing to accompany my life, and if I want happiness to run through, I must do two things-happy learning and happy learning. At this time, learning methods, learning habits and learning attitudes are particularly important.
My family Dabao began to contact English when she was 3 years old. When she first learned English, she loved her English school very much because of the variety of teaching forms, and because she had not attended early education classes and received formal education. Everyone should tell everyone about her school and her English teacher. Except for fear of infecting other children because of illness, she never asks for leave and is full of enthusiasm.
However, the good times did not last long. After a period of time, I found that her attention in class decreased, the effect of class was not ideal, and her attitude was not as positive as before. After careful analysis, I found the crux: because I have been stocking her, I neglected to guide and check her learning methods, habits and attitudes. Finally, her learning effect was low and problems broke out one after another.
After discovering the problem, I began to insist on parent-child reading for 15 minutes every day to guide the child to form correct learning methods and help her cultivate good habits of adhering to these methods. With her continuous achievements in learning, she gradually realized the fun of learning. When she studied English, she became that energetic little girl again.
If I can finish reading this book earlier, the little girl's English study will be more relaxed and happy!
Second, the child's growth stage, is the result really the most important?
The most important thing for children's growth is "three concerns":
1. Pay attention to happiness education-goal
2. Pay attention to moral cultivation-direction
3. Attach importance to scientific means of education
In a training, a well-known middle school principal asked the people present to make such an evaluation form:
All the people present put the middle school grades at the bottom. ...
We often say that children are like a blank sheet of paper. What color we give him, he will become! If you give him straight A grades, but neglect to give him excellent character, healthy body and mind, and the ability to study happily, you may delay his life, because it is very likely that he will not even find a confidant in the future.
Third, please give your child quality love:
In the annual drama "Do you know? There is a saying that many protagonists in the play have mentioned: "The beloved son of parents has far-reaching influence"!
The first lady has a far-reaching plan to take Rulan to heaven and raise a simple and innocent little woman who can't stand the wind and rain.
Lin Xiaoniang has a far-reaching influence, teaching Moran that the world is sinister, putting personal interests first everywhere, and deliberately ruining a good chess game.
Ming Lan's mother had a far-reaching influence, so she let Ming Lan hide other people's faults from an early age and devoted herself to cultivating her in the name of an old lady who knows books, manners and righteousness. Although she was the first person to get a box lunch, she always took action.
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In fact, the truth of education has never changed. The quality of love given by parents determines how far and how wide children can go in the future!
So, how can we give children high-quality love?
First: let children have a pure heart!
A kind child, an open-minded child, a child who knows how to be grateful and know that suffering is a blessing, her life is doomed to be a big loss!
Second: Let children have a brave heart!
This brave heart is a heart that dares to face and correct its own mistakes and shortcomings; It is a heart that dares to face up to life difficulties and unpleasant sunshine, and it is a heart that dares to challenge itself and constantly pursue Excellence!
Third: Let children have a happy heart!
In the years when we accompany our children to grow up, the most important thing is to teach them: learn to be happy! Let them be full of happiness in their long life and learn to gain: happiness in life, happiness in study, happiness in work and happiness in family. Isn't this a compulsory course for us adults?
Parents' beloved son is far-reaching, so it is forbidden to replace their long-term and inner perfection with their children's temporary and superficial integrity. True high-quality love is the best way to help children achieve themselves!
Postscript:
Bacon put forward in On Learning: "When reading, don't deliberately question the author, don't believe everything in the book, and don't just look for chapters and sentences, but think carefully." His reading view has always been my reading view when I was studying: I don't read for refutation, I don't blindly follow for faith; Don't talk; We should aim at being able to weigh and check things.
Although I don't agree with the author in many places in the book "A good mother is better than a good teacher", it is beneficial to open the book. As long as we have a dialectical heart, we can always gain something.
Finally, I sincerely thank those book lovers who accompanied me through this book. My opinion is limited by many factors, such as personal life and vision. If there is anything wrong, please ask me. If you can think and harvest like me, that is the happiest thing.
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