By the age of 2, the baby will begin to like to play with other children. Like learning other skills, babies need to keep trying and making mistakes when developing social skills. At first, the baby may not want to share his toys with others, but as he learns to care about others, he will become a better playmate. By the time I was 3 years old, I was already good at making friends!
If at the age of baby 1 year, no matter how hard you try, Ta is still unwilling to get in touch with people other than parents or even play with you, you should take the baby to a doctor for consultation.
Babies (1 ~ 3 years old) may be unfriendly to other children, especially when playing with toys. Maybe even become a little devil. When a baby has teeth, he may bite other children to test what he can do with his teeth.
If the baby is a little too aggressive, he will only bite, hit and push others when he is with other children. Mom and dad may need to consult a pediatrician about this. This behavior often comes from fear or insecurity. Although all children will be unfriendly at times, it is not normal to be so aggressive all the time.
The baby's growth can't be separated from the company and patience of mom and dad. Every baby is the simplest angel given by God, and needs to be watered and cared for by mom and dad with love.
Baby socialization needs to pay attention to three points:
First, talk to children and tell stories. Good language skills are social tools.
When interacting with people, you must speak, so good language skills can add points to your baby's social interaction. But each child's physical and mental development speed and level are different, and some babies speak earlier and more clearly; Some babies talk late and don't know. Some differences between children are normal. Mothers can talk to their children more or tell them more stories. After that, you can have a simple discussion with your child, such as asking who your child likes best. Why? It is more interesting to guide children to talk. But mom can't be lazy, and it's best not to tell stories with story machine or early education machine.
Second, guide children to express their emotions appropriately. No one likes to play with friends who always lose their temper.
There is a child in our community who is very fierce. She will hit anyone who comes near her, and she is very grumpy. I often see her yelling and crying and beating her parents. She is famous for her bad temper in the community. Many parents will tell their children to stay away from her, and even rush to tell them: "That child has a bad temper and is not easy to provoke. Let your children stay away."
90% of babies can't control their emotions well, which is normal and related to the baby's imperfect brain development. However, losing your temper and temper will become a stumbling block in your baby's social life, and you need your mother to guide your baby to get rid of it. The gentlest and most acceptable way for children is picture book guidance, which helps children to know emotions, understand emotions and learn some appropriate emotional expressions. There are many emotional picture books that are very good.
Third, don't be too real, and introverted/extroverted babies are just as likable.
I often hear some mothers say, "I am introverted and often suffer losses in social activities." I don't want my children to follow me in the future, so I have to make ta outgoing. " ...
Some parents will have the misunderstanding that "introverted children are not good at making friends, while extroverted children are more popular". It seems that cheerful babies who love to call people, talk and laugh are more attractive, but quiet, introverted and relatively well-behaved introverted babies will also be favored by many partners and elders. There is no good or bad personality, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and there is no need to compete with the baby's personality. What kind of personality is ta? If you find something lovely in ta's personality, carry it forward and don't force change.
After four or three years old, let ta experience the real "society" in kindergarten.
Psychologists found that underage monkeys often play and chase in cages, so he separated some little monkeys into other cages and prevented them from playing. As a result, these monkeys who lost the opportunity to play games became dementia when they grew up. The same is true of human beings. Good peer communication is conducive to the healthy growth of children.
Kindergarten is the first small group of children who leave home and enter the society. Only when children play with their peers can they be completely in an equal and independent position, attract each other, imitate each other, have competitive and antagonistic exchanges, and enrich their social experience and communication skills. Therefore, we must send school-age children (about 3 years old) to kindergarten, enter the first "social group" of ta, and experience the real "socialization".