The children have been studying hard at school for a week. Every weekend and holiday, major training institutions become overcrowded, and students enter various institutions under the arrangement of their parents. The reason why parents don't let their children have a holiday is because children have their own pursuits and helplessness. Specifically, there are several reasons:
After all, a child's parents seldom take care of their children full-time, and not every family can take care of their children with the help of grandparents. If parents are taken care of, they will feel uncomfortable. Children have holidays, especially in winter and summer vacations, and taking care of children has become an extra burden for many parents. Sending children to professional institutions for custody and training courses can not only urge children to complete their homework and learn knowledge and skills, but also solve the problem of unattended children. "Win at the starting line" through remedial classes: Many parents think that holidays, winter and summer vacations are important periods for children to widen the gap. If children don't make up lessons during holidays and learn the knowledge of the next semester in advance, the new semester may distance themselves from other children. Under the background of this "theater effect", many parents send their children to training classes, hoping that their children can learn comprehensively. Check and fill the gaps through training courses: Some children have gaps in some homework, and parents themselves are limited by time and experience. They hope to send their children to training courses to check and fill the gaps and eliminate their weaknesses in learning. Therefore, "make up lessons" has become an urgent need of these families.
Let children learn skills and exercise: children usually have a heavy learning burden, lack of exercise, and relatively abundant holidays. Parents send their children to learn a sport, which can not only keep fit, but also master a sports skill. Some children learn certain talents, such as painting, calligraphy and musical instruments. And it is difficult to guarantee that they can practice in class every day. In case of holidays, I usually have more class time than usual, and often go in and out of training places.
Is it necessary for children to attend training classes? As can be seen from the previous analysis, parents send their children to various training courses with their own goals and pursuits, as well as their own helplessness. There is no need for children to participate in various training courses, nor can they generalize, simply deny or affirm.
1. For those families who have difficulty in taking care of their children, it is very necessary to let their children attend training classes to alleviate their parents' worries.
2. Some children didn't do well in the final exam last semester, and there were weak links in their studies. If family economic conditions permit, it is also a normal choice to send children to training classes to make up for their lack of study.
It is certainly beneficial to send children to learn talents and exercise. It's just that parents need to abandon utilitarianism and don't care too much about exam results.
4. Let children learn one step earlier than others, learn ahead of time, encourage young people, and spend money and effort. It may be better than other children for a while, but it does not conform to the law of children's learning and growth, and it will lose its effect sooner or later.