There is a saying that it is easy to have children, but difficult to take care of them. According to the previous era, people would rather adopt a child than give birth by themselves, that is, it is very hard to conceive in October.

Then you will say that this is not a contradiction? It is easier to have children than to have children, and it is difficult to have children in 10 months.

My opinion is that both are difficult. All the hard work is not easy, especially being a mother. It is the mother who takes care of the baby and gives birth to the baby alone.

The most difficult thing is:

The first three months are the hardest, and you will experience morning sickness. It depends, of course. Some people don't, and some people do.

After the first three months, I had difficulty walking, going upstairs and downstairs and exercising irregularly, forcing myself to drink nutritious soup that I didn't like. If I drink too much, I feel tired.

In labor, the pain is almost worse than death, so it's very hard, either getting a knife or going through 81 difficulties to welcome the birth of a newborn.

For example, the pain of pregnant women giving birth will alarm the inpatient department of the hospital. Don't you think this is pain? So it is very difficult to have children and have children.

The hardship of taking care of children is reflected in the fact that people with children need to take care of their children 24 hours a day and make arrangements or plans for their daily lives.

Taking care of children, sometimes it is a chicken flying a dog to jump, and a chicken flying an egg to beat. For example, buy clothes for children, food, toys, school supplies, help children with their homework, and communicate harmoniously with doctors, teachers and neighbors.

There are also enlightenment education, early education, accompanying children to study, making exquisite complementary food for children, and cultivating children's concentration and logical thinking ability ... it is not difficult, but it is quite difficult to score above 90. Here is a lecture.

Children work harder when they are sick, and they really stay up all night when they have a fever. The hard work of taking care of children is reflected in lack of energy and children are full of energy. Sometimes they will be very naughty and throw their toys everywhere.

Many parents say it is too difficult to take care of children. But people who don't have children also find it difficult. But it's really hard. The problem now is that children eat, children are disobedient and children are sick.

If you think it is not difficult, you can give birth to a child and try again, so that you can realize the bitterness and know that it is not easy to raise and have a child. If it is more difficult, I think the experience of children's growth may be longer measured by time, so it will be more difficult and harder to raise children than to have children. In fact, both are very hard.

For example, a child pours noodles on the coffee table for a while, then empties all the garbage in the trash can, and then wets all the water in the toilet ... Don't you think it's difficult to take care of children? It's also hard. It's hard.