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All babies with good visual development have good language development. This is because two aspects promote language learning. First, listening produces a sense of language. Second, babies with high eyesight can keenly see the subtle differences in mouth shapes when adults speak. Plus language gestures, expressions, gestures, etc. Infants and young children have strong imitation ability and quickly master their mother tongue.

In order to let my daughter master this language as soon as possible, I must develop its visual image as soon as possible. Shortly after the baby was born, I put some soybeans in the bottle and shook them to let her observe the changes.

Of course, I also made other attempts, such as: draw the curtains during the day to see how she reacts; Hold her at night and watch our backs on the wall under the electric light; Or do some hand shadow games to exercise her observation ability; Later, when she grew up, she shook things around her eyes, and her eyes and head would change positions with things. By training the sensitivity of her eyes, she will be able to observe our adult mouths more easily and remember them more easily. Tell stories, listen to nursery rhymes and have more parent-child interaction.

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I found that grasping children's visual sensitive period can really make children learn to speak earlier. If you have a baby, try it!

Speaking of hearing sensitive period, I remembered the time when I took my daughter for the second hearing screening. Because after two or three months of training, her hearing is particularly sensitive. As long as her ear is touched or she hears something, she will wake up. So this makes my wife and I very unhappy. My wife and I took turns holding her and went to have a hearing screening while sleeping. The stethoscope was put in her ear and she woke up at once. I continued to coax her, then went to sleep and brought her in. She woke up again. Because it's like this all day, I can't do hearing screening from 8 am to 4 pm, so I have to go home and wait for the next day.

When the next day passed, we didn't let the child drink milk in the morning, let her be hungry, and then breast-feed her when she had a hearing screening. Because she was too hungry, she didn't care what was in her ears, so she successfully completed the hearing screening.

As for how to cultivate children's hearing, what I do is to let her listen to all kinds of voices as much as possible, talk to her in her mother's voice, take her out to play, and observe how friends around me play. ...

Because I have read some relatively light materials before, I know something about the sensitive period of oral taste. When the child wants to put something in her mouth, I won't deliberately stop her. So I was scared to death by him this afternoon.

This afternoon, my grandmother picked pomegranate and wormwood to give her a bath. After washing the fresh wormwood, the child took a piece to play with. Her grandmother said that if she wanted to play, let her play. I think it should be nothing. She can still taste absinthe and smell it. But she ate all the stems of wormwood, and because it was too small to swallow, wormwood got stuck in her throat, and she couldn't eat if she wanted to, and she couldn't spit if she wanted to. I quickly patted her on the back, patted her cervical vertebra, and patted his thoracic vertebra, and then she vomited something, and together with the milk, I smelled of smelly milk all over.

This incident makes me feel that as long as there are some dangerous things, I still try to keep my children away.

Children will enter the sensitive period of their hands at seven or eight months, and my daughter will start the sensitive period at about seven months. I grabbed something to play with. So as long as it is not dangerous, I try my best to satisfy him, including biscuit boxes, candy, baby bottles and so on.

In order to exercise her flexibility, I'm going to make a drum set myself.

My child because at the beginning, her grandmother taught her to walk with a walker. I couldn't climb at that time, so I won't climb for more than nine months now. Another reason is that her grandmother always thinks that children need hugs, so she often hugs her. I have been entangled in this matter, hiding the walker, and her grandmother found it again. I don't know what to do.

If the walker is used too early, the baby will skip the natural growth and development law of crawling. So my daughter, now more than nine months old, always wants to stand up. When I put her on my leg, she will kick my leg hard, which hurts me very much. Sometimes holding her, she still likes adults to put her down and stand and hold the table step by step.

Maybe she experienced the fun of walking, but skipped the crawling stage and didn't want to climb. What heartbreaking pain!

Children in the sensitive period of walking especially like going up and down stairs, like the space with slopes, like the slopes on the road, like slides, like the elevators with slopes in shopping malls and supermarkets and so on. Where there is injustice, they go. As parents, we should not reprimand our children, but appreciate their behavior and give them necessary guidance.

Montessori believes that children enter the language explosion period after the age of two. I think of Han Han (the daughter of my third aunt), who entered the language explosion period when she was in kindergarten and chattered endlessly every day. Ever since she got up in the morning, she would say anything she saw, such as "Dad's dad, mom's mom, TV's electricity, grandma's milk, grandpa's grandpa, BMW's treasure, playing with toys ..." At that time, she was a little unbearable. She was really a chatterbox. During that time, thanks to her father's guidance, she mastered the language well.

When children are two years old or even younger, they will begin to sprout self-awareness. Also known as the terrible two. I am afraid of the coming of that period, because this time is the first rebellious period of children. They will be reluctant to share their toys with others and will not let others read their books. In fact, my daughter has a sense of self since she was very young. For example, when she was more than three months old, one night after feeding, I secretly took out her pillow and put another soft pillow, and she cried. I put the original pillow down, she stopped crying, and she slept again. I think this is also a manifestation of self-awareness. It seems to say, "I don't want that pillow!" " "When she was more than six months old, her self-awareness was stronger. If someone else goes to get her toys, she will get them back. Sometimes because my cousin is too far away from her with her toy, she will cry and coquetry, and then signal adults to take that toy back.

The development of spatial sensitive period lasts from 0 to 6 years old. When children enter the space sensitive period, they often show many strange behaviors, such as: constantly throwing things, being particularly interested in the hole in the manhole cover, constantly looking for things to stuff into it, and like to climb the windowsill, climb the table, climb the stairs, climb the railing, jack, cover and pile up wood. ...

During the space sensitive period, I remember I jumped down a two-meter-high staircase when I was about six years old. I was particularly impressed that time. I am in the first grade of primary school. At that time, my foot was injured after jumping. I don't remember exactly how much it hurts. All I know is that I was seriously injured and asked for a month off, so I didn't go to school. I was injured at that time. At first, I went to the clinic in the town for intravenous drip for many days. Then when I go home, my mother will cook Chinese medicine for me every day and apply some herbs to my ankles and knees. From then on, I never dared to jump at the height of the stairs. A fall into the pit, a gain in your wit.

My daughter is also in a space sensitive period now. Every time she likes to be held high by others, or gently shake her ass. Every time I hold her hand, it's so sour! Sorry, my hand!

The two most important characteristics of the sensitive period of order are homing and repetition. Speaking of "repeat reading", I think of when Han Han was at my grandmother's house. Sometimes I play games with her, and she never tires of it. Repeat! Repeat! Repeat! For example, I asked her to play with puzzles, and after the first teaching, she asked me to play with her! Play with her again! Sometimes tell her a story, and when I'm finished, she will ask it again. I feel bored and tired. She can only stop her current activity by diverting her attention. ...

We can use a sense of order to cultivate children's orderliness. For example, when eating, the mother can let the elders sit down first, and then let the children sit down. If they are used to this order, they can learn the good habit of "elders come first, younger generations come later" during this period. This is also the order when it is in full bloom, and children will also establish a generational order from their hearts.

Pay attention to the sensitive period of small things, usually around kindergarten, they will be very sensitive to small things, such as a stone the size of mung beans, a thin short line, a piece of paper covered with small pieces of paper and hair, and ants. ...

My daughter entered this sensitive period of paying attention to small things in advance. Every morning, she will find several cassia seeds leaking from the pillow, then stare at it, pinch cassia seeds with her thumb and forefinger at her fingertips, and observe carefully. Sometimes he pulls my hair and puts a hair on her palm to play with.

In order to provide her with some gadgets, her grandmother sometimes gives her some pieces of paper to play with (sometimes gives him a calendar, sometimes gives him a piece of paper). But when playing with small pieces of paper for her, adults usually watch. Sometimes tearing a piece of paper for her can not only exercise the fine movements of her fingers, but also exercise her ability to pay attention to details.

The sensitive period of imitation begins at the age of 0, from language imitation, personal temperament imitation to style imitation. Children imitate from the people around them, so I care more about some of grandma's languages. Sometimes I call my wife when I say some swearing words. She said the child was too young to understand, and I said she would learn. Don't say those words. So, she tried not to swear.

Of course, I also have some bad habits to change, and I don't want my daughter to imitate them. I want to get rid of bad habits for my daughter!

(concentrated in 3-4 years old)

Stubborn and sensitive children often go against their parents, don't wash their hands, and even have violence.

What if the child doesn't want to wash his hands? This paper puts forward two methods.

1. Give the child a beautiful spoon and say, "It doesn't matter if you don't wash your hands. Just use this small spoon to eat, so that the worms on your hands will not be eaten in your stomach. "

2. Pretend to be in no hurry and don't care: "Well, you don't want to wash it." Then the mother washed her hands and watched the child's reaction.

To solve children's chronic diseases, we must understand, be flexible and succeed.

Everyone has a love of beauty. The beauty here is not only the pursuit of food, but also the pursuit of its own image and environment. In the sensitive period of pursuit, most children (especially girls) will turn to become makeup artists. They will be infatuated with their mother's cosmetics, such as lipstick, lip gloss and eye shadow. No matter whether those cosmetics are beautiful or ugly on their children's faces, parents should give their children freedom, let them pursue perfection in their hearts and ensure their smooth development during the sensitive period.

For younger children, we can design some parent-child games, such as giving each costume some names that children are interested in, such as beautiful princess costume, superman costume, magic warrior costume and so on. Parents help their children choose and match, and tell them some dressing principles, such as wearing skirts in winter will make them sick.

Montessori's three-stage learning method can help your baby identify colors quickly. For example, if you make a set of pieces of paper, the quality and size of the paper are the same, only the colors are different. You make the corresponding words: red, yellow, blue and so on. The first step, you name it first: point to the red paper and tell the baby: red; The second step, you identify: "Where is Baby Red?" Let the baby find red. In the third step, you point to the red paper and ask the baby, "What color is this?" After three steps, the baby can easily master the color.

Shortly after my daughter was born, I'm going to buy colorful balloons to hang by the bed and teach the baby colors. But my grandmother didn't agree, for fear that the balloon explosion would scare the baby. So, I changed my clothes. My daughter has many clothes and many colors. Choose two or three colors to hang on the bed and see which color she pays more attention to. Whenever she looks at clothes, I will tell her what color they are. Change to other colors after a few days. ...

Interpersonal skills are not innate and need constant training and exercise. Therefore, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's communication skills from the time they are born. Parents should create more environments and guide their children to be good at interacting with friends step by step.

1. Invite colleagues and neighbors' children to play at home. Parents will guide them and teach them some common interpersonal strategies, such as inviting children to play with toys, playing cooperative games with children, and learning to say "thank you" and "sorry". Don't patronize yourself when playing, but also take care of your peers' emotions.

2. Take children to crowded places, encourage and guide children to say hello to strange children, and take the initiative to say hello to uncles and aunts.

Parents must welcome their children when they visit.

The sensitive period of children's marriage usually appears around the age of four, and I think of the "flower thief" next door. A boy over three years old is good at picking up girls, which makes me feel ashamed. Last summer vacation, the daughter of Sangu family came for a holiday. Every time I don't see grandma, she gets up early in the morning and cries loudly. The little boy next door came into the room, hugged her and kissed her face, and she stopped crying. Shame ... what surprised me even more was his view on marriage: "It's really hard to have no wife!" " This sentence actually comes from a three-year-old child! How precocious! And the skill of picking up girls is also perfect!

Due to the influence of traditional ideas, China people seldom educate their children about sex. When a child asks, "Mom/Dad, where am I from?" Mom and dad always say "you jumped out of the stone" or "you were picked up by mom and dad under the carambola tree." That's how my parents turned me down. I was a little sad when I heard this before. It dawned on me that my mother gave birth to me. Later, when I was in junior high school, I tore up that page of the book because I was shy and didn't listen to the class of physiological organs. Some boys also deliberately asked me some unique organs for men and women. They laughed when I said I didn't know. I have never been laughed at, so I was impressed that time.

If my child asks in the future, where did she come from? I will read relevant books in advance and then teach her.

1. You can tell her how she came by telling a story.

little angel

Mother has a small seed in her belly, which is called "egg". The little egg is growing up. Dad thought the little egg was too lonely, so he gave his mother a small seed called sperm. The little egg met the little sperm and was very happy. They decided to live together. So they started looking for home, looking and looking, and finally found a warm place in their mother's stomach-the uterus. They settled down in the womb and grew up happily. Later, they grew up and became little angels with eyes, mouths, feet and small hands. The little angel sucks nutrition from her mother through a straw every day. Dad is also particularly concerned about this little angel, and lets her listen to music and tell stories with her mother every day.

In this way, the little angel lived happily in her mother's belly for ten months. Suddenly one day, she found that the space in her mother's stomach was too small, so she ran out of her mother's stomach to find us. You are an angel who ran out of mom's belly.

2. Buy a pop-up book. This flip book teaches children about gender and how she came from. It's good.

The sensitive period of identity confirmation means that at the age of 3 to 5, children will be infatuated with one or several idols. During this sensitive period, children will imitate these idols wholeheartedly. Parents should understand cooperation and use idols to correct their children's bad habits.

My daughter has been listening to music since she was born, and her grasp of music rhythm is much better than that of her peers. When the music starts, she will dance and twist her ass. I also listen to music for her every day when I am free. At present, I listen to the enlightenment of Chinese studies and children's songs, as well as English enlightenment.

As for painting, there is no introduction method in the book. I plan to buy a big blackboard wall when my child is over one year old, so that she can doodle enough. Of course, when I am older, I will buy books such as painting and coloring.

In the sensitive period of social norms, children often learn to act like adults. One is influenced by curiosity, and the other is influenced by self-awareness. As parents, we should respect children's rights and allow them to play games with winning and losing rules.

I remember when I was six years old, I began to imitate my mother to wash dishes. My mother taught me when she saw that I was interested. The more you wash, the more interested you are. I wash dishes every day. Later, I learned that the dishes I washed were basically unclean, and my mother secretly washed them again. Perhaps this is also the performance of the sensitive period of social rules!

Children's sensitive reading period is divided into two stages: the first stage is the reading stage of others, that is, at the age of three, because children are still illiterate and have not mastered the language skillfully, they often ask adults to read to them; The second stage is reading by yourself, that is, at the age of five or six, children of this age know certain words and can already read simple picture books. However, the reading sensitive period will not come automatically, and it needs some stimulation.

Therefore, from the child's more than 6 months old, I will take her to the study to read books every night. At present, I mainly show her cloth books Buka, early education cards, an English enlightenment "My earliest goose" and an enlightenment picture book. Now 9m+, she can turn over the books by herself, and she can concentrate on reading for 2 minutes at most.

By the end of this year, children should have almost learned to walk, and then they plan to decorate a book wall of their own. Make the study more exquisite and make her willing to learn.

Mechanical training is not recommended for children who are sensitive to mathematics. I hope children can learn in games. I thought it was great to see Lihua's colleague teaching his son numbers in a circle of friends before. She put the children's socks on the bed in pairs, keeping the distance between each pair of socks about 10 cm, and let the children jump on the socks side by side, counting each pair of socks.

Of course, there are other ways to teach children numbers. My children have been holding her up and down the stairs since childhood. Sometimes I consciously count the stairs, take a step and read a number. When children grow up to five or six years old, in fact, the tile floor at home is also a good material to teach children to count. You can let your child jump into the grid inside the tile while counting. There are many other methods, so I won't list them one by one.

I took time to watch Montessori Enlightenment, which said that children are too young to be taught to count steps. Honey, don't imitate them! Wait until the child's sensitive period comes before teaching!

I taught my children numbers at such a young age, but I didn't let them learn them. I just hope to develop her potential as soon as possible.

It is mentioned in the book that children are interested in nature, biology and everything outside when they are five or six years old. My daughter has been exposed to nature and animals every day since more than three months, so she entered the natural sensitive period ahead of time and was particularly interested in things outside. What she likes best is that the hens at home play and peck eggs. She won't feel tired after watching them all day. I think nature is one of the ways to develop intelligence.

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1.P47

Walking frees children from the state of being free and needing help, and life begins to be dominated by themselves. This is the second life of children.

2.P64

When the child is unhappy, he will say "smelly mother", and the mother can reply to him: "Not smelly mother, but fragrant mother, as fragrant as you."

3.P99

"Order" is not only to put things in proper places, but also to observe the laws of life, understand the temporal and spatial relationship between things, classify objects and find out the relationship between them.

4.p 145

It can be seen that when children express their memories, there will be memory dislocation or subjective will instead of facts. Parents should not judge that the child is lying at once, but let the child think again, or provide some memory clues to let the child gradually distinguish the truth and avoid disputes with parents. At the same time, it is also conducive to protecting children's willingness to express in words.

5 P 148

The aesthetic sensitive period is a spiral development, from demanding perfection and completeness of food, to demanding perfection and completeness of things used, to demanding perfection and completeness of self-image, and finally pursuing perfection of environment, inner temperament and artistic quality.

6. The sensitive period of children is also called the critical period of study or education. Once the sensitive period of children's development is missed, there will be more or less regrets, which are difficult to make up for in the future growth of children. Even if it can be made up, it needs more energy and time.

Parents should also create a good reading environment for their children. First, there must be desks and stools that meet the age characteristics of children; Second, the light should be sufficient; Third, be quiet. When parents are watching TV in the living room, don't let their children study. Fourth, there must be books suitable for children to read; Fifth, there should be a place suitable for children to put books. ...