The teachers hope that all the children will put on their favorite clothes next Monday. So the wife took out the clothes of the former prince, and the two children fell in love with this suit at once, and they clamored to wear the clothes of the prince as soon as they came in the morning.
Taking this opportunity, we also began to educate them.
Me: "Being a prince is more than just putting on clothes. What qualities do you need? "
Bao Xiao: "Be brave like Altman."
Dabao: "Be competent."
Bao Xiao: "Help others."
Dabao: "Wisdom."
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Me: "You speak very well! We should have good conduct, such as upholding justice and not bullying the weak. You two mustn't fight in the future. "
Wife: "what the prince wants to know about chess, calligraphy and painting, Dabao, are you going to start practicing Go?"
So both children began to study and began their "prince's journey".
Now parents have worked hard for their children's education. Prenatal education begins before birth; Start early education classes after birth; Go to kindergarten and start buying school districts; Primary schools began to attend various cram schools. ......
In this process, various situations will also occur. At first, children will obey the arrangement, and gradually they will have rebellious psychology and even open confrontation.
Nowadays, parents should be wise parents, learn to guide the situation according to the situation, and can start from several aspects.
First, we should have empathy, look at the world from the child's point of view, learn parenting knowledge, understand the psychological state of children at each stage, and educate children scientifically.
Second, make friends with children and treat them as an independent individual equally, not as their own private property. Usually play with children, interact with them, listen to their stories, and gradually gain their trust. Growing up with children.
Third, encourage and praise more. Everyone likes to be praised, especially adults and children. We should see the good side of children more. Through constant praise, children will constantly show their good side, thus developing good work habits. Ignore its bad side, and children will gradually get rid of bad habits or behaviors.
Fourth, lead by example, parents are the best teachers for children, and children unconsciously imitate their parents. The best way to make a child what he wants is to be that person.
Fifth, don't force children to do things, start from their interests, educate and influence them in the process of playing games, and let them learn and grow in a happy state.