These days, a * * * packed 20 boxes of clothes, bedding and daily necessities. Donated two big bags of clothes and threw away dozens of unnecessary things. At this moment, the home is extremely spacious, clean and refreshing, and it does not affect the operation of daily life at all.
I can't help thinking, how silly! It's not worth the loss, because I don't want to throw things around these years and pile up so many unnecessary things in cabinets and corners of rooms! It has seriously affected the quality of life and wasted a lot of space, time and energy.
In fact, there are not many things that each of us really needs. Three or four sets of clothes a quarter is enough, and four pairs of shoes, sports shoes, work shoes, slippers and casual shoes are enough. One goes to work, one goes shopping, and three take the baby out. Three meals a day is enough, and two beds are safe to sleep in. Only by getting rid of the desire and dependence on material can the body and mind be more free.
My sister-in-law said that she was deeply inspired by seeing my touch with her own eyes. She should think twice before buying anything in the future: first ask herself, can I live without buying this thing? Can the existing things be replaced? If there was a substitute, you would never buy it. I also made up my mind to stop hoarding things after I arrived in Guangzhou, break up scientifically, and create a refreshing, clean and warm home environment.
It happened that in the process of sorting out, I found an article extracted from a notebook, "An Attempt to Apply 5S Management to Family Life", which has strong guidance and operability. Combined with the experience of moving and file management, the following records are summarized for future use.
The so-called 5S means sorting (Seiri), correcting (Seiton), cleaning (Seiso), cleaning (Seiketsu) and self-cultivation (Shitsuke). Because Japanese romanization begins with S, it is referred to as 5S management for short. 5s site management method is a modern enterprise management mode. When it is applied to family management, it can also get good results and create a clean, orderly and warm family atmosphere.
Distinguishing between necessary and unnecessary items, decisively disposing of unnecessary items, and keeping necessary items by category are the first steps of 5S. The purpose is to make full use of space; Prevent misuse and confusion; Create a clean and orderly environment and improve the quality of life.
Specific suggestions:
(1) Classification and label of certificates.
1. Household registration book, marriage certificate, house certificate, deed certificate, passbook bank card, insurance policy and passport. Put it in a safe place. If there is an account password, write it down separately and put it separately.
2. Diploma category: diploma, degree certificate, professional title certificate, vocational skill certificate and award-winning certificate.
3. Charge documents: electric invoices and warranty certificates, gas, water and electricity charge cards, network, television, property, tuition and other charge cards (only in the last year).
Commodity vouchers exceeding the daily purchases and consumption in 200 yuan shall be accounted for separately and cleaned up once a year.
(2) Drawers, wardrobes and closets
1. All unused items within one year shall be cleaned up; Back-dated newspapers and magazines should also be disposed of.
This time, I cruelly disposed of all the readers' magazines, my college class notes, Dandan's previous homework textbooks, and notebooks that I didn't use up before and no longer wanted to use. I also disposed of some clothes that I haven't worn for a year or two. The sweater my mother gave me is very memorable. I don't want to donate it. )
2. After reading the book, only those published by famous publishing houses are left, and the rest are disposed of. I went to Guangzhou this time to get rid of college textbooks, so I won't read them again anyway. )
3. Choose storage boxes for different kinds of small jewelry and small items and label them. Classification suggestion: a hat, two scarves, gloves, three belts, four handbags, five pieces of jewelry, six ties, seven pairs of underwear, eight pairs of socks, nine letters, ten photo albums, eleven stamps, commemorative coins and twelve others.
(3) Only necessary items are reserved in places such as the desktop.
(4) Follow the three shopping principles of need, suitability and liking, and at the same time, think twice before you act, and don't hoard things. If the gifts given by others are unnecessary, inappropriate or disliked, they should be disposed of in time to streamline the living items.
It is the basis of improving efficiency to put the selected necessities in order according to the specified position and method, and clearly mark them. The purpose is to scientifically store daily necessities, which is clear at a glance and convenient to take; Reduce the time to find things; The home environment is orderly; Eliminate excessive backlog.
Main principles: ① Items should be placed in a fixed place and area, which is convenient for searching and eliminates the errors caused by mixing; (2) Articles should be placed in a scientific and reasonable place. For example, according to the frequency of use, things that are often used should be put closer, and things that are used occasionally or infrequently should be put farther away.
Specific suggestions:
1. Common shoes (two pairs for each person on the shoe rack and the rest in the shoe cabinet), keys, bags, umbrellas, raincoats, shopping bags, baby carriages, etc. You can put it in the garden. Don't pile up cartons and plastic bags, and don't put other sundries.
2. Don't put rubbish under the table and cupboard.
3. Balcony is a leisure place, not a garbage storage place.
4. Kitchen utensils and tableware are enough, and the surplus can be disposed of or put in the cupboard.
One water cup is enough for one person, and the rest are disposed of.
6. Students' supplies and utensils are collected separately.
7. Don't have more than ten toys. Throw them away when you're done, or let the children make a choice to buy a new toy and throw away an old one.
8. Prepare a toolbox, and place pliers, screwdrivers, etc. I already have one set at home, and other tools such as a screwdriver can be disposed of. )
9. Prepare a medicine chest or a drawer dedicated to medicine. Throw away the expired, wet and unmarked ones. The medicine box should not be placed out of the reach of children.
10.CD and DVD shall be placed in a unified way. The remote control is placed next to the TV cabinet, and the mobile phone charger is placed next to the fixed power supply. (Glasses should also be placed in a fixed position)
1 1. Electrical patch panels should be placed regularly, and excess wires should be tied with ropes.
Clean up the dirt in the house and throw away the garbage in time. Regularly clean and wipe all the places, appliances and supplies in the home. The purpose is to keep the room clean and bright. It can also effectively maintain furniture.
Specific suggestions:
1. Every family member should clean their own things and don't rely on others.
2. Clean the furniture regularly. It is recommended to have a general cleaning at a fixed time every week (weekend).
3. Clean the living room, living room, dining room, kitchen, bathroom, balcony and garden in a planned way, and focus on cleaning one or two places every week.
Maintain the results of the above 3S, and form systems and habits. Every family member should check and confirm at any time, and correct the bad phenomenon in time once it is found. Keep the family environment in good condition. The purpose is to seriously maintain and adhere to the effect of sorting, rectifying and cleaning, so as to keep the family environment in the best state and make members feel at ease and comfortable.
Specific suggestions:
1. Not only should it be neat, but it should also be clean and hygienic to ensure the health of every member.
2. Not only articles should be clean, but also people themselves should be clean, such as clothes should be clean, utensils should be neat, and hair should be cut, shaved, trimmed and washed in time; Wash the changed clothes in time (underwear and socks are washed by hand, and the rest clothes are washed in different colors by washing machine).
We should not only be clean physically, but also be clean mentally, be polite and respect others. Speak modestly, don't lose your temper, and don't talk loudly.
Literacy is to let every family member develop good habits such as following the rules, being proactive and working as a team.
We all know that family atmosphere has a great influence on a person. Parents are the first mentors in our lives, and the future growth of children depends largely on the influence of family environment. Therefore, a family's literacy is an indispensable part of the family spiritual world. This requires everyone to operate according to the family style, act according to the family rules, form good habits, and let each member become an educated person. The purpose is to cultivate children's good habits, improve their comprehensive quality, and let them grow up healthily and comprehensively.
Specific suggestions:
1. Have ideals, beliefs, determination and confidence in parenting. Early education is the best way to let nature take its course, tap its potential and promote development. I am convinced that pine, cypress, fir and bamboo are all useful.
2. Be open-minded and eager to learn, be diligent in reflection, and constantly improve your character cultivation.
3. Have a sense of cooperation and communication, let children participate in housework as soon as possible, be good at coordinating the relationship between family members, and make the family harmonious and United.
4. We should have the idea that it is never too old to learn, grow up with our children, constantly learn new knowledge and accept new ideas. It is suggested that the family reading time should be set at 8:00- 10 every night, and a family reading sharing meeting should be held once a week or once a month.
To love life, every family member should cultivate one or two hobbies. The whole family travels once or twice a year to broaden their horizons.
6. Always chat with children after meals, take them out for a walk, go to nature, observe, discover, ask questions, discuss and collect specimens.
7. Have a work and rest system and a regular life, give children an environment and time to live independently, and guide children to watch TV and play with tablets in a planned way.
8. There must be principles, and things that children are not allowed to do are not allowed at the beginning.