Hand index. What other aspects have we not considered in parenting? It's too early to start early education. Insurance should really be brought, and feelings are even more irrelevant ... After talking for a long time, we are all thinking about our children's hardware facilities. Is there anything wrong with the software? Yes, it is language.
With the rapid development of society, many fields that have formed a system abroad are inevitably ignored in China. When we were young, we were all brought up extensively, and our parents didn't participate much except eating, drinking and wearing. But we still grow up healthily and have no language problems. Why? We'll talk about the reason later. Speak the language first.
Language is an important tool for our social communication and information transmission. From the moment it was invented, language has its own social attributes, and we can't live without it at any time. Infants and young children are really fragile, and many factors in the process of growing up may hinder the development of children. Among them, the most common situation is language barrier.
Just last week, a parent came to our organization with his children. According to my mother, the child is less than 4 years old this year. He just went to kindergarten and spoke late, about 26 months old. After that, the children seldom talk. At first, they just pointed and screamed, then they learned a few words and used them again and again.
Children won't say a whole sentence before entering kindergarten. Parents think that spending all day with their children can improve their speaking ability! I started fighting with other children the day after I entered school, but I can't tell you why because of the language problem. Only after watching the surveillance video did the school know that other little boys were bullying the children in partnership, but the reason turned out to be that the children could not speak.
Wouldn't you be sad if this happened to you? If it were me, maybe I wouldn't let this happen. The child's condition is a typical language development retardation, and the child's symptoms are late speech, small vocabulary and poor grammatical function. In the early stage of language retardation, that is, before the child is 3 years old, parents will start to take action, and hospitals and correction institutions will always choose one to visit.
Whether due to pathological factors or language environment factors, children's language retardation belongs to a more serious category, which requires timely human intervention, that is, language correction. There is evidence that there is a time difference of seven months from the first discovery of language retardation to the first visit, and the correction of language retardation is the chief culprit of serious language retardation.
In addition, parents should re-examine their parenting style: is the child's food too soft and rotten? Do children often hold mobile phones and computers? Do parents rarely communicate with their children and entrust their children to the elderly? Do parents seldom take their children out for fear that they will bump into them?
I remember my childhood clearly. At that time, my parents raised me in a barbaric way, but it actually helped and promoted the development of my children. When I am picky about food, my mother won't cook it for me again. Because of hunger, I can only swallow it with tears in my eyes; Every day after school, I always run and play with my friends in the same community for the first time; At that time, there was no mobile phone computer, and my father often played chess with me ... I think this generation grew up like this after 8090.
Of course, it is a good thing to have a scientific concept and way of parenting, but it is also wrong to act according to the so-called "parenting classics" at every step. Every child's situation is different. Parents should adopt a way suitable for their children and don't give time, because time is always on the side of language development retardation.