Taking care of the baby is a technical job, especially for novice parents.
From eating and drinking, food, clothing, housing and transportation to growth and development, every item is related to the joys and sorrows of mothers.
Raising children can really change a person. Then, raising children together by a couple should make life change dramatically.
Parents have a great influence on their babies. Although the baby is still young, it also has the ability to observe words and feelings. When adults quarrel loudly, it will make the baby feel very scared, produce anxiety, sadness, helplessness and other emotions, and also make the baby feel insecure.
What is the reason why more and more couples and young parents have to bear the social pressure themselves, no matter how tired they are? Many "experienced mothers" said that taking care of children is much more tiring than going to work, but being a full-time mother will undoubtedly reduce family income and it is difficult to balance.
Many treasure moms say that before the child is 3 years old, the elderly will help look after the child during the day and wait until after work. When the child reaches the age of kindergarten, he will be fully responsible for taking care of the child and will not let the elderly spend time looking after the child.
I would rather be poor than have a child without a mother. It is more reliable to take care of the baby by myself.
Don't play with your mobile phone when you are with your children, even if you just look at it from time to time. But once she sees you secretly staring at the phone screen instead of smiling at her, she will be curious about the phone honey, and then she will crash like you from time to time.
Listen to the reasonable advice of the old man.
Although various parenting forums or comments abound now, we can see the old parenting styles of parents, grandparents and relatives. But they shouldn't be killed by a stick. After all, the elderly have had experience in raising children, and sometimes their suggestions are reasonable or can be followed. After all, the experience of your elders will help you reduce a great burden.
Some parents think babies don't know anything, so they can ignore what they say. But what they don't know is that when adults talk loudly or quarrel, they will make the baby feel particularly scared and insecure. Although the baby is still young, he also has the ability to observe words and feelings, and can feel the seriousness of things from his parents' expressions. When watching TV with your baby, parents should also try to avoid war movies and horror movies, and don't make a scene.
Novice fathers need to pay attention to the temperature difference when taking care of their children. If the weather is cold, he needs to add clothes to his children in time. When the weather is hot, he should also take off some clothes in time to prevent the child from getting sick.
Bathe your baby: It is best for newborns to take a bath once a day in winter and twice a day in summer. Dad tries to take part in the bath, which is an important moment for dad and baby to establish close relationship.
Taking your baby for an outing: Taking your baby out with your parents is a very good way of early education, which not only broadens your baby's horizons, but also helps to enhance the parent-child relationship.
Play games with your baby: Dad's play is also very important. If dad has time, he must play games with the baby. In this process, your baby can learn more with his company.