At that time, my husband and I got married, and his family didn't have much money to take out. I think as long as we work together, life will always get better, and I don't have too many complaints about it.

Life after marriage is as peaceful as I imagined. We both worked hard to make money, and slowly began to have some savings, so we bought a two-bedroom apartment with a loan and had our own children, and felt that life was slowly developing in a good direction.

Life was dull, but it was also very interesting. Looking at the growing children and more and more savings, I feel that my life is moving towards my goal.

It's just that many things are beyond our imagination. Cold air came two days ago, and my mother-in-law suddenly fell down when she went out. She was diagnosed with a cerebral infarction after being taken to the hospital. The doctor told us that the situation was critical and needed immediate surgery, so he didn't say anything else at that time and was immediately sent to the operating room.

Although the mother-in-law has her own medical insurance, the treatment fee is still a big expense, because many expenses during and after the operation need to be paid at her own expense, and the self-funded part is almost 50%.

In addition, the doctor also told us that now that my mother-in-law is old, if she wants to recover better in the future, it is best to use imported medicine, which has a better effect. All these need to be paid by herself.

Husband ranks third in the family, with a brother and a sister on it. My sister divorced her husband very early because of her unhappy marriage. A brother's family is complete, but his brother is a hen-pecked wife, and everything at home is decided by his eldest sister-in-law.

Later, my father-in-law discussed with us that my sister was alone now, and her economic conditions were not good. My husband and her brother shared her mother-in-law's medical expenses, and I had no problem.

I have to have surgery when I am in the hospital, so the deposit will be paid more, a ***5W, which my husband and his brother agreed to be 2.5W. Who knows that at this time, the eldest sister-in-law changed her mind and said that she had no money at home and could not come up with 2.5W

Then the eldest sister-in-law said, well, let the eldest brother borrow it and bring it when he has money. At this time, my eldest brother also called my father-in-law and said that he would borrow money and take it with him when he got it. Then he called and said that it was not easy to borrow money now, so he asked my father-in-law to borrow it first and then returned it to him.

When I saw their operation, I knew it was not good. Eldest brother and sister-in-law didn't even want to pay the money. I was angry at that time, saying that we borrowed it from my father-in-law and promised to pay it back.

Sister-in-law was unhappy at that time and said that we had gone back on our word. Obviously, we agreed to take out the 2.5W one at that time, but now we have gone back on our word.

When I heard what my sister-in-law said, I immediately made a tit for tat: You promised 2.5W at that time, and now you say you have no money. What do you say to borrow it from your father-in-law? Will you repay the money you borrowed from your father-in-law?

Sister-in-law insists that they have no money now. I said you could say you have no money. You can type out the running water of your bank card and see if there is any money!

When I said this, my sister-in-law got angry at that time and said that I didn't trust her. What right did I have to check her family's accounts? I said I'm not interested in checking your account, just take out my mother-in-law's medical expenses!

Sister-in-law saw that my attitude was firm, and then she simply said that she had no money to take it out anyway. Now their own lives are difficult, do we love them or not?

Later, eldest brother also came and told us that he would go back to work as a sister-in-law, but eldest brother was weak by nature and could not get a sister-in-law, as everyone knows.

Sure enough, the eldest brother called her husband at night and said that her parents-in-law had a pension anyway, so it was better for them to take the money and go out to work by themselves. Now that everyone has to raise children, the economy is really not well off.

But the problem is that we have paid 2.5W to the hospital and the operation has been finished. The hospital is now urging the cost, and obviously the cost of follow-up treatment is also quite high, which is difficult to achieve only by my father-in-law's estimation.

Now I don't want to pay the 2.5W hospitalization deposit, so I'll let her pay the follow-up treatment expenses in the future. Forget it, and I won't care about the appointment.

Actually, we don't have a good relationship with our sister-in-law's family. Since we got married, the two families haven't had much contact, and now it's all because of my mother-in-law's medical expenses.

In fact, my in-laws are better for my eldest brother's family because my eldest sister-in-law is a powerful person. In order to make her treat my eldest brother better, my parents-in-law gave my eldest brother various subsidies.

Since the eldest brother and children were 4 months old, the in-laws have helped to take the eldest sister-in-law to work. In fact, during the period of eldest sister-in-law's confinement, her in-laws have been taking care of them with all their heart.

In recent years, my in-laws have also secretly subsidized my eldest brother's family a lot of money. These big sisters didn't say anything, but they thought it was right for their in-laws to subsidize their sons, and said they would subsidize us more.

God knows my daughter 1 was sent to an early education class when she was half a year old. Because my parents-in-law took the children just to let them watch TV, I thought it was bad for their eyesight, so I didn't let my parents-in-law continue to take them. I brought up the children myself.

Although I live with my in-laws, I also give living expenses. The only advantage is that we don't have to clean and cook. I am very grateful to my in-laws. After all, it helped us solve a lot of worries.

I'm willing to pay for my mother-in-law's treatment, but I think it's okay for me to pay if a bowl of water is flat, and my sister-in-law should pay the same share.

Elder sister divorced, poor economic conditions, we don't force her. After all, who has no problem? Sister-in-law's family economy is actually similar to ours, and I know she can come up with the money.

The problem now is that my in-laws have three children, and only my husband takes out the money. If it's really hard, I won't argue, but my sister-in-law obviously has enough financial ability, but she doesn't want to take out the money, which makes me very uncomfortable.

I have children. In fact, I can set an example for my children and let them know to be filial from an early age. But if I am the only one who takes out the money, my heart will be unbalanced. What should I do?