Even if you enter the classroom, you can't stop the children's "resistance". Many babies cried, and the standard lines in their mouths were "Mom" and "I want Mom".
In this crying, there will be some different children. They sat quietly in their chairs, without crying or making trouble, and looked at the crying children around them as if nothing had happened.
Children of the same age, on the one hand, cry with their parents' thighs, on the other hand, walk into the classroom freely, and the style of painting is really different.
The baby doesn't cry or make trouble in kindergarten, which is very free and easy, but it makes her parents a little lost.
3-year-old Qiang Qiang is the only child in the family and the apple of her grandparents' eye. Like children of the same age, Qiang Qiang has reached the age of kindergarten this year. Although the old man in the family was reluctant, he was sent to kindergarten at the insistence of his parents.
Qiang Qiang had never left his adult side before, so his parents thought he would cry and make a scene, and even his mother tried many ways to deal with the situation.
But what parents didn't expect was that after arriving at the kindergarten gate, Qiang Qiang naturally took the teacher's hand and followed the teacher in without looking back.
Such a move is in stark contrast to the child who is still crying next to his mother's pants, and it also surprises his parents, and even his mother is somewhat psychologically lost.
The reason why children cry when they just go to kindergarten is mainly the "psychological separation anxiety" caused by leaving their parents soon.
Children with strong separation anxiety will cry and pull their parents away, while children with weak separation anxiety will be less excited and even take the initiative to enter the park.
In this regard, senior kindergarten teachers have summed up: the children of these three families are often different from other children, and they will not cry when they go to kindergarten.
Children who don't cry in kindergartens often come from these families.
1) Families with separation consciousness
Those children who don't cry in kindergarten often have experience in preschool classes or other courses before.
The children in this family have long been used to being separated from their parents, and they have a sense of separation in their hearts. Knowing that they are only temporarily separated from their parents, their parents will pick them up after school, so naturally they won't cry.
2) A family that gives children enough inner security.
In normal life, parents will be responsible for accompanying their children. There is love between parents and close relationship with other family members. The whole family atmosphere is very good, which makes children full of love and feel more secure.
Children in this family will have enough courage to face unfamiliar environment in kindergarten, and they will not be so afraid of being separated from their parents.
3) Families that parents trust.
The trust between parents and children is often established when parents keep their promises. If parents always break their promises, they will gradually lose the trust of their children.
However, if parents keep their word and agree to pick up their children after school, then children will naturally believe that being separated from their parents will not collapse and will not cry.
To alleviate children's anxiety about entering the park, mothers can do this.
Psychologist Lawrence Cohen said: Every child has an "attachment system", which will enable them to find close people to accompany them.
Therefore, children don't want to go to kindergarten. The problem is not kindergarten at all, but leaving close people and then resisting crying.
Faced with such a situation, first of all, don't beat and scold, which will only make children more disgusted and even regard the school as a "hostile target."
Then, you can convince your child with empathy. If after persuasion, the child still doesn't want to go, you can also let the child have a rest and adjust his mood. If the child is unwilling to go to school, be sure to give him a big hug after school, so that he can forget all his unhappiness.