During this time, my friends have been busy looking for early education classes.

Tu Tu, a two-year-old daughter, will go to kindergarten soon. Before that, her grandmother took care of her and spoiled her only granddaughter. Feeding when eating, helping when putting on clothes and shoes, and taking care when walking a few steps, so that my daughter can't do anything alone and is very dependent on others.

My friend fell out with her mother-in-law because of this, and the old man went back to his hometown in a rage. If a friend wants to go back, she will find an early education class to help her educate her children and cultivate their independence.

My daughter Tu Tu came back from her first early education class and brought back many interactive games. Friends of career women are busy on weekdays, and it is common to go home and work overtime until the early hours of the morning. How can they pay attention to children? Bored? Homework.

A friend immediately called the teacher and asked them, "Ten thousand dollars a month, can't the teacher educate the children alone?"? Must parents be required to participate in education? ?

My friend felt that the teacher's education level was sorry for the tuition, and immediately began to change to early education classes the next day.

I jokingly said to my friend:? It seems that your daughter will never go to school. Which school is not like this now. ?

Friends still can't accept: Does a child's success depend on the school? Why do parents have to participate? ?

Teaching and educating people sounds like a teacher's responsibility, but it's not!

Parents'? Absence? Is the biggest obstacle to education.

There are many parents who think like friends. They think that education is a matter for teachers and schools. Just send the children to school? Lose? Throw this away? Little trouble? Don't worry about it anymore.

In my opinion, in school, teachers will help take care of children, rules and disciplines will constrain children's behavior, and all bad behaviors will be educated by the school, so there is no need to intervene by themselves.

Therefore, whenever the teacher finds a problem with the child and contacts the parents to solve it together, the answer is always:

Sorry, teacher, I'm a little busy now, just handle it with full authority! ?

On the surface, parents seem to trust teachers; Actually, what about parents? Lazy? . Some parents are busy with work and go out early and come back late every day, so it is difficult for children to see him, let alone educate their children; Some parents can do nothing, and how to discipline their children is ineffective. They simply left it alone and handed it over to the school.

The so-called education, by? Teaching? And then what? Education? Consists of two words. Teaching led by teachers imparts knowledge; Education takes the family as the main activity center to raise children. It is impossible to rely on teachers, schools or families unilaterally. Only the cooperation of schools, families and society can achieve this educational cause.

As the parents of their children's first teachers, their influence on their children's character and conduct is far-reaching. Parents are generous and kind, and children will be friendly to others; Parents are honest and trustworthy, and children will abide by discipline; Parents will not give up easily when things happen, and children will persist in their attitude towards people, which will affect their character.

On the issue of educating children, parents who are afraid of trouble will leave their children at school in order to save trouble, and children will eventually lead to more trouble. ? Lazy? Parents who want to teach will think that their children can't teach well.

It is difficult for children to become talents only by teachers' education.

You can't do anything without a teacher, but a teacher is not omnipotent.

Many parents always say to their children:? Only you are stupid! Also teach people 90 points, you 60 points.

The same teacher, the same class, the same test paper, why is there such a gap of 30 points?

It's not a question of children's IQ, but a question of family education. Some children throw away their schoolbags as soon as they get home, watch TV and play games, and forget what they have learned; Some children do their homework carefully to consolidate what they have learned.

These two different learning behaviors mainly lie in parents' attitude towards learning. Therefore, instead of enviing how excellent other children are, we should try to change ourselves and create a good learning environment for our children.

Even some parents will ask the teacher:? You can have a baby. It's all up to the teacher. ? It is difficult for parents and children to become talents.

It is true that parents trust teachers. What they are most afraid of is pinning their children's future on their teachers, but they don't realize that teachers can do a lot besides imparting knowledge to their children.

Teachers with rich teaching experience can't guarantee children's good grades. But when parents try to put down their mobile phones and read books; Children will also learn to put aside fun and pick up books.

A pair of parents set an example and a good learning environment can make children love to study at home and study hard.

No matter how strict the teacher is, it can't help children develop self-discipline. Only by setting an example can parents influence their children subtly.

No matter how respected a teacher is, there is no guarantee that children will have good conduct. Only when parents keep their promises can children have a good character.

If a child's success depends only on the teacher, it is really a big mistake. What teachers can do is very limited, and the success of education depends more on parents.

Regardless of knowledge, every parent is the best teacher for children.

A good teacher can influence children for three or five years at most, but parents' conduct can influence children for a lifetime.

When it comes to children's education, there are always parents who give a hand and shirk:

I'm too busy at work to spend time with my children. ?

With my education, how can I teach children?

In fact, family education has nothing to do with external factors such as wealth and knowledge. The most important thing is whether parents are willing to invest time and energy. Do you realize that it is your responsibility to educate your children? Whether to strictly regulate your words and deeds and strive to present good conduct to children.

Behind an excellent child, there must be a caring parent. Dad will use his self-discipline and foresight to influence children, and mother will use her gentleness and kindness to teach children. Parents have a big pattern to make their children become better people in the future because of this self-confidence from home.

On the road of education, parents should be the last people who are absent and lazy. The child in the school is one of the teachers' many students, but the parents are only children.

As parents, we always feel that only a successful career can give our children a good material life. As we all know, educating children is the lifelong career of parents, and giving children a good character is more valuable than any wealth.

Family is a place to cultivate children's morality, habits, interests in life and happiness. Whether the family education is good or not is related to the child's life. Every parent should have such a firm belief that the growth of children is my responsibility.

Hands-on parents will not do the opposite.

It is easy to have children, difficult to raise them, and even more difficult to educate them.

Many parents rack their brains to let their children receive the best education. Buy a house and choose a school district; School, attending an aristocratic school; Cram school, choose the most expensive newspaper, for fear of delaying children's growth.

But in fact, they forget the most important point. Parents are the best teachers, and example is the best education.

Some netizens once said that if it weren't for my mother, maybe I wouldn't have achieved such brilliant results.

She said that although her mother only knew her name and simple Arabic numerals, she would accompany her to study as long as she was doing her homework. Even if she doesn't understand, she forces herself to read and write, only to study hard for her daughter.

Real family education is that parents do it themselves, work hard for the same goal with their children, and face hardships and challenges together.

Smart parents know how to do it themselves in their children's education. They know that children have grown up in just a few years, and there is not much time to accompany education. It would be a pity if they missed it.

It is better for parents to set an example than to choose a good teacher for their children; Parents should not choose a good school for their children in education, but should do it themselves.

When parents are absent from their children's education, with a responsible attitude towards their children's lives, children will live up to their parents' expectations and eventually grow into talents.

The teacher's seriousness and responsibility determine the child's talent and achievement; Parental upbringing is the upbringing of children.

So, what kind of person do you want your child to be? You must be such a person first. Parents exert the power of example, subtly influence their children and try their best to illuminate them.

If life is a school, parents must be indispensable teachers. Don't think that you have no responsibility to hand over your children to school, and you don't need to worry about anything.

Education should never be a one-man affair. Teachers and parents should go hand in hand. Parents cooperate with teachers, and teachers support parents. This is the best educational relationship.

Children are the hope of a family; Home hides a child's life. If children want to grow up, parents must first conform to the family style and make themselves better parents, so that children can become better children.

Instead of blaming the school for children's success. Teachers are only disseminators of knowledge, and parents are the founders of children's success.

In a word, educating children has never been a person's responsibility, nor is it a school's business. It needs the cooperation and efforts of many parties, and parents are the most indispensable part.