Two or three-year-old children have a bad temper and lose their temper easily. One day, they may say "no, no, no, no, no …" countless times. It seems that you must take all measures for yourself, and vice versa.
It is said that the child's two years old is "terrible two years old." The original little angel will suddenly become a little devil and lose his temper every day. Some children like to cry, some children like to lie on the ground and can't get up, and some children even hit people.
I once took Macey Bao to an early education class. After class, the children all play in the ocean ball pool in the center of early education.
A child's grandmother kept calling him and went home after class. For the first time, the child played alone, ignored his grandmother, and shouted countless times but didn't respond. Then grandma went straight into the ocean ball pool and took him away. The child came out of the swimming pool.
When the child came out of the pool, he lay on the ground crying and lost his temper. What's more frightening is that when his grandmother comes near him, he will punch and kick her.
A child crying like this must make his grandmother even angrier. Grandma picked up the child directly and left the early education center.
1. First of all, deal with your emotions, stay calm, and don't let your child worry when he cries.
Many parents lose their temper faster than their children. Usually, a "simple and rude" solution is adopted: make a hullabaloo about to children and make them stop crying. Work, even some grumpy parents will do it
In this way, some children may be too scared to cry, but most children over two years old may cry harder and longer.
Because at the beginning, the child cried because of a little thing or a little emotion. When parents make a hullabaloo about, children will feel that the sky is falling and they are completely helpless.
When children cry, parents should accompany them in a peaceful state.
I often see such a scene in public: when a child cries, parents will say, "If you cry again, mom will not want you." "If you don't listen, mom will leave." Some mothers also said that one party really left the child.
In fact, when children lose their temper and cry, we must tell ourselves in our hearts that it is normal for two or three-year-old children to cry like this, and we should give them some time to vent their emotions. By crying.
When my Macey Bao loses his temper and cries, he also likes to cry to express his unhappiness. When the child cries, I will kneel down, hold the child and tell the child: "Mom knows that you are unhappy, cry if you want, and mom will accompany you."
When I hugged Macey Bao, the child hugged me tightly even though he cried, but something magical happened. Such a hug is the switch to stop crying. When I held the child in my arms, the child immediately stopped crying and began to get tired of being held in my arms.
When Macey Bao stopped crying, I was sure that the child had really grown up and had many ideas of his own. When children are very young, they look forward to the word "grow up" and hope to become "little adults" When their mothers boast that they have grown up, children are usually very happy and show proud expressions.
The last step is also very important. When the child stops crying, we will have a chance to remember with him why he lost his temper now and what happened.
Only by figuring out what happened and letting the child lose his temper can we find a real solution. This process of finding a way must be carried out with children.
This is also a way to teach children how to deal with problems and change their emotions in the future, because no matter what happens, crying can only be a temporary emotional vent, and only by finding a real solution to the problem can it be realized.
I am a family education teacher, a senior obstetrician and a multi-platform parenting author. Follow me to bring you practical knowledge of motherhood and parenting. If you have any confusion or questions, please feel free to send me a private message, and I will reply in time. I hope some of my suggestions will make you as a parent suddenly enlightened and stop taking the road of parenting alone.