Parents are the best teachers in early education, and a sound personality is also an important aspect of children's development. Parents and family are the first teachers and places for babies to contact and receive education. The healthy growth of baby's body and mind is inseparable from the patient teaching of parents. Cultivating children will make them grow up better in the future. The following are the best teachers for early education, which parents share.
The best teacher for early education is parents 1. Now early education is a hot word and a fashion. Young parents, in particular, are afraid of falling behind in early education. But after careful study, I found that early education is like a bucket of increasingly thick paste, which makes people confused and gullible.
It seems that the word "early education" can't be found in China's education law and educational administrative regulations, and the standard formulation is "preschool education". Early education, how do you call it early? There is a saying that preschool education is from the age of 3 to 6, and early education is before the age of 3. In fact, to put it bluntly, this is the "sphere of influence" drawn by early education institutions in order to seize the market.
Even before the age of 3, the formulation of early education is unscientific, and the outstanding problem is what to "teach". The Outline of Education for Children Aged 0-3 formulated by the Shanghai Municipal Education Commission clearly requires: "Education is given priority, education is integrated, and the physical and mental health of infants and young children is the foundation of development." This sentence can be interpreted as: before the age of 3, parenting is the main thing; The contents and methods of infant education should be combined with the goal of raising, and it is not possible to teach more than raise, or even to teach instead of raising; All education should be based on respecting and satisfying the baby's physical and mental health, and it is forbidden to encourage others.
This year, the relevant departments of this city also issued the guiding outline of family education for 0-18 years old: "0-1 year old is mainly to establish parent-child relationship. In the process of caring for infants, parents' full physical contact, emotional expression, behavior and language stimulation will have a far-reaching impact on the growth of infants; After 1 year-old, with the development of sports ability and speech ability and the expansion of activities, the desire to pursue playmates began to appear, so there was a one-on-one playmate relationship. " This passage at least shows that the biggest "education" space for babies before the age of 3 should be at home. Their best teacher is not an outsider, but only their parents.
We might as well define "early education", that is, not "early education", but "early education", which is an education that allows babies to develop naturally and healthily. No matter how colorful early education is, it must be based on parent-child relationship. Because, just like the "body-to-skin contact and emotional expression" that babies are particularly eager for, even the best early education experts will be powerless or flawed.
The best teachers in early education are parents. Influenced by the narrow concept of early education, some young parents are keen on superstitious experts and parent-child games in a specific environment, and send their children to early education institutions for special training in a certain project. Scientific research shows that both the "primary school" supernormal education and the special education blindly following the trend not only violate the laws of children's physical and mental development, but also deviate from children's nature and interest, which not only makes it difficult to achieve results, but also may lay hidden dangers for children's long-term development.
In fact, the best classroom for early education is family, not nature. Parents are the best teachers. No matter which early education institution or early education expert can replace family and parents. Scientific early education is actually the influence of communication between parents and children all the time, and it is the edification and guidance of every environmental detail provided to children.
Experts say that games and happiness are the main components of early childhood education, and life is the best content. Instead of wandering around with their children in various long classes, parents should play educational and entertaining parent-child games in a targeted way, so that children can play in school and middle school, let nature take its course and guide them according to the situation. For example, knocking on the pot can cultivate children's sense of rhythm and hearing; If the child is curious about the toilet, you can explain the use relationship of several switches in the toilet, so that the child can know the little secret of "how to use the water tank of the toilet, it will be full". Through these games, children's observation ability can also be cultivated. More importantly, parent-child interaction strengthens communication with children and is conducive to cultivating children's sound minds.
Experts say, don't think that early education is to teach something difficult to understand. In fact, it is to teach children how to live in activities such as "playing with water" and "playing with rice". As practitioners, parents need scientific ideas, understanding and mastering the correct methods to improve the level of early education. You can do it well as long as you have the heart.