There are still few full-time wives in China, especially in first-tier cities with heavy economic burden and high cost of living. Basically, they are dual-employee families and need grandparents to take care of their children. Even if you go to kindergarten and primary school in the future, normal office workers can't pick up and drop off their children on time.
/kloc-Children under 0/year-old should be fed, early education should be given at the age of 2, kindergarten should be given at the age of 3, various interest classes should be taken at the age of 4, and the contents of preschool classes should be learned after the age of 5, which will have great contradictions with the elderly, so educating children or raising babies will become the contradiction of many families.
Therefore, before having children, we must be prepared to face these problems and contradictions, which is why many people will not have problems in the early days of love and marriage, but after having children, they find that they can't communicate with their husbands' parents, or their husbands are Ma Baonan and so on.