In this regard, foreign doctors have repeatedly suggested that children put down when they cry and pick them up when they don't cry. In this way, even the youngest child can understand that he can only be hugged when he doesn't cry, which is very smart. Put down the crying child and start training. Look at the clock Don't hug her, make her cry. Get ready to wait 10 minutes. You can set 5 minutes for the first time, and the interval will be longer.
PS: Training "children who don't cry" should exclude four situations: urine, illness, hunger and sleepiness. As long as it is determined that the baby is not crying for the above four reasons, parents can boldly make the child cry!
Trick 2: Let the baby sleep quietly and don't shake. The doctor said that a happy baby would sleep in bed and sing (not really singing, but babbling)! Babies spend most of their time in bed. Please remember that the bed will not move! Therefore, don't shake the baby when you pick it up, don't walk back and forth, and don't put the child to sleep like this. Just put it on the bed and let him sleep by himself. Again, the bed won't move. Mom and dad, you have no right to deprive your child of the right to enjoy happiness in bed.
It is also important to note that excited parents should not shake their children hard. The child's brain is still in a gelatinous jelly state in infancy, and it is easy to get hurt.
Trick 3: The baby's resistance is ten times stronger than yours. Mom and dad wear two, and the baby must never wear two and a half, only less than you, not more than you. In autumn and winter, it is often seen that children with fever in children's hospitals are wrapped in layers of cotton jackets, which makes them feel sorry. Children can't talk, and parents are afraid that their children will catch cold. They try their best to add clothes to their children, but they don't know that most of their illnesses are "covered".
Trick 4: refuse to abuse antibiotics! A cold and fever is a necessary process for children to grow up and strengthen their resistance. In foreign countries, only those terminally ill patients will be injected with antibiotics, while in China, if you go to a children's hospital casually, you will see rows of intravenous drip, and children beaten by thugs will be given intravenous drip with the help of the whole family. Not to mention spending money, what is even more frightening is that the antibodies in children can't develop, and minor illnesses and disasters are all intravenous drip. In the long run, children will become dependent on drugs and antibiotics, and even have more serious drug resistance. Trick 5: There are no mothers who don't have enough milk, only mothers who don't want to breastfeed.
A baby who can breastfeed until the age of 2 is the happiest baby in the world. Obstetricians and gynecologists often say: "There are no mothers who don't have enough milk, only mothers who don't want to breastfeed. How much milk does the child have? " . 」
In this regard, many treasure mothers will say: I really don't have milk, and my children don't have enough to eat every time. In fact, it is because children can't talk, and it is difficult for adults to judge whether children are full or not. Babies under half a year old often take milk, and they should take milk every 1-2 hours. Mothers think that they have too little milk and their children don't have enough to eat, so they add milk powder for mixed feeding. After a long time, of course, their mothers' milk will be less and less.
Trick 6: What should I do if my baby falls asleep while nursing? The baby is comfortable and safe to be held by its mother. If you are not full, you will fall asleep. If you wake up, you will eat two more bites and torture your mother. If you are not full, your baby will not sleep well, which will harm others and yourself. How to wake up children and let them concentrate on breastfeeding? The most useful trick recommended here is undressing!
If the indoor temperature is controlled at about 26 degrees, parents can safely help their baby undress, leaving only diapers. Hold the baby wrapped in diapers in the mother's arms to feed, and the mother's temperature can ensure that the baby will not catch a cold. In addition, because of breast-feeding, the resistance of the baby brought out from the mother's mother is 65,438+00 times stronger than that of the adult, and the breast-feeding mother is not easy to get sick. This is the power of reproduction.
Trick 7: Can you change diapers? Nonsense, who can't change diapers when raising children? This is not necessarily the case! Have you ever been sprayed with urine or stool by a child? Do I have to change the sheets several times a day? Now please ask the professional nanny of the Science and Education Association to teach you the secret of changing diapers!
The trick is to put the clean diaper under the smelly diaper, then open the diaper, wipe the baby's ass, and then pull out the smelly diaper, so that even if the child happens to pee at that time, your sheets will be kept. Once you get used to it, nothing will happen again.
Trick 8: Can you burp? Posture 1: Lie on your shoulders and pat the child on the back. This is a traditional posture, and it is not easy to shoot hiccups in many cases.
Posture 2: Let the child sit on the leg, hold the child's neck with his left hand, hold up his chin, and pat him on the back with his right hand. This is very efficient, and it usually takes ten burps to finish.
Be sure to feed enough milk for the last meal before going to bed, and continue to feed after hiccups until the baby can't eat any more. Parents can rest assured that they can sleep until dawn!
Trick 9: Don't destroy the baby's concentration. Please don't disturb your baby when he is playing with toys or reading picture books. Even if it's time for dinner, it doesn't matter if you let the children eat later. Cultivating children's concentration is equivalent to cultivating children to concentrate on anything when they grow up. What I fear most is the elders who yell at their children and tease them. They think they are smart and ask questions while watching TV. Please don't talk, leave space and time to that dedicated villain!
Trick 10: As long as there is no danger to your life, encourage your baby to give it a try. I think the parents in the East are more polite and too timid. "Don't move! Danger, stand up. The ground is dirty. Do not touch it! You'll get hurt ... don't do this, don't do that. " American parents often say, "Try it!" Try it and feel it. Encourage the baby, as long as there is no danger to his life, let him try to know the world with his little hands.
It doesn't matter if the clothes are dirty. In the process of groping, the baby knows which items are threatening and which safety needs to be remembered. These feelings and cognition are the only way for children to grow up. Parenting early education encyclopedia authorized reprint