You should know that disobedience is a common occurrence from 6 months to 24 months. Fortunately, this is not a serious illness, nor is it a serious mental illness. This is a proper and normal practice, but it makes parents very painful. The baby is likely to last at least 6 months from the age of 2, which is almost a preview of adolescence!
It is ten times more difficult to raise a good-natured baby than to raise a smart baby. Little Taishan has this kind of trace for nine months, because at this time, he will start to say "no". When I want him to throw the toy ball into the jar, maybe give it to his mother, when he plays games with his mother, Little Taishan will resolutely say "no"! He will not only express clearly in words, but also show rejection in practice. At this time, the baby's father attaches importance to the mother's kindness to guide the baby to throw the ball and play intellectual games. Although this game is an intellectual enhancement game that he can play at his age, I really don't want to force him to see that the baby has independent talent. I just let him do the work he likes and give him something he likes to explore. I just need to keep the baby safe. What I did was very effective for the baby. At least my baby's development in every period is qualified, and his speaking ability is advanced, which comes from my reading and speaking to my baby every day.
In mid-March, because the heating was turned off, the baby was naughty and always climbed to the floor to play while I was not paying attention, resulting in a cold and diarrhea. Because he pulled too hard, he was forced to stop giving his baby nutrition porridge and self-denial bread such as formula milk and fried rice. In the first few days, the baby is still used to it. After a week, the baby suddenly became unstable and super impetuous. He really wanted to be satisfied with everything, and cried when he saw the bottle. The situation is even a big shot. The baby's temper is becoming more and more impetuous. At this time, I really realized that it is far more difficult to cultivate a baby with sound temperament and good temper than to cultivate a smart baby!
There are many parents who care about their children's intellectual achievements like Xiao Taishan's father. Because of some exaggerated early education information, many people think that children aged 2-3 will have a good life if they attend a good kindergarten and various training classes. Unfortunately, there is no kindergarten with such outstanding achievements in this world. After investigating many children aged 3-6, scientists have come to the conclusion that although those children with early intellectual development are more advanced than their peers in speech and arithmetic, they are more anxious and stupid when dealing with others.
To prevent excessive listening to the baby's father thinks that doing everything possible for the baby is a sign of deep love for the baby. The inevitable result is that when the baby is too stubborn to cry, you will definitely give in to him, although you feel that his demands should not be met. Whether it is for the baby himself or the people around him, it will not bring any benefits to let the baby meet unreasonable requirements too much. Starting from 8 months, we should start to teach our baby how to get along with others. Although this will often make the baby cry and make the mother very helpless, it is a very important proposition, which is much simpler than teaching after 3 years old. Trust me!
Finally, mothers should be informed that they should pay attention to the balanced development of their babies. Intellectual development and temperament development are very important, and children's growth is irreversible. Parental care is more important than what you learn in kindergarten. In the early stage, we should use scientific methods to get rid of the anxiety headaches of adults and babies. Mothers should be gentle and loving to their babies and stick to their own principles!