Aunt Li is idle at home after retirement. After having a grandson, she offered to help take care of her grandson. However, because the daughter-in-law didn't go to work, she could take care of the children by herself, so she didn't agree with Aunt Li taking care of her grandson.
Aunt Li's grandson reached the age of going to kindergarten when he was almost 3 years old, but because his grandson was born in June 165438+ 10, and he was under 3 years old, he could not go to public kindergarten and his daughter-in-law went to work, so Aunt Li began to take care of his grandson.
After taking care of her grandson for a few days, she found that his language was unclear, his self-care ability was not strong, he cried if he didn't like it, and he was not brave.
Aunt Li thought: It seems that mother dotes on children too much. Children lack practical ability and self-care ability. Boys are weak and unsociable, and they will not adapt even if they go to kindergarten.
Children can't tell the teacher clearly about everything. They cry when they meet something and can't communicate with children. Kindergarten teachers and children won't like it.
Aunt Li changed her grandson consciously after taking care of her grandson. Every day, she takes her grandson downstairs to play with other children, let him interact with others, and take her grandson to the sports equipment in the square to exercise.
In addition, she insists on reading stories, reading children's songs and playing early education games to her grandson every day. Two months later, great changes have taken place in the grandson: self-care ability and language expression ability have been enhanced; Don't cry when you encounter difficulties, be strong and brave; Cheerful personality, sensible and polite, and get along well with children.
When my son and daughter-in-law saw the changes in their children, they all admired Aunt Li's care for them. The daughter-in-law regrets that her mother-in-law came late. She thinks she is a retired old teacher with knowledge and education. Mother-in-law not only gets along well, but also takes care of the children scientifically.
1. Reading stories promotes children's language development.
The story is rich in language, with various nouns, verbs and adjectives. In the process of listening to stories repeatedly, children develop a sense of language, which is invisibly remembered and their language expression ability is enhanced. This is the power of input.
Children like to listen to a story over and over again, and they will read it tirelessly. Parents should not be afraid to repeat. Only by listening more can children output and improve their language expression ability.
Reading stories to children repeatedly, children learn many words in stories and can blurt them out slowly.
For example, there are many classic short stories 365 nights before going to bed, which she often reads to her grandson, such as the little flower dog going shopping, the tortoise and the rabbit running, the little frog learning to talk, the little gecko borrowing its tail and so on. Children hear a lot of words and phrases, which virtually strengthens language expression.
2. Read stories to cultivate children's reading interest and concentration.
The best way to make children love reading since childhood is to accompany them to read story books every day.
Children are young and like to snuggle up to adults and listen to stories. Maybe sometimes children don't understand, but children like reading with adults, so parents should seize this and cultivate their interest in reading from an early age.
And good stories are vivid and colorful, attracting children's attention; Good story content attracts children to listen, at the same time, it can inspire children to think and stimulate their imagination.
I feel the same way about it. My family also has 365 nights before going to bed, which is read to children every night. Children are used to getting books before going to bed. Because of reading, my children not only have strong language ability, but also have a large amount of literacy. They can read independently in grade one.
Let children love reading from an early age, and children can benefit for life.
3, reading stories to help children develop good habits, cultivate good personality, high emotional intelligence, high adversity quotient.
Children's imitation ability is very strong. A good story book has a subtle influence on children, and children will unconsciously change their bad habits and learn the good habits of "small animals" in the book.
Strong sense of story substitution, let children change bad emotions and habits, cultivate children's high emotional intelligence and cultivate children's ability to resist setbacks. The power of stories is much more useful than parents' preaching.
For example, little monkeys go down the mountain, little dogs go shopping, little monkeys lie down, little pigs who love candy, and "Brave Snail" in "365 Nights" that Aunt Li often reads to her grandson before going to bed. There is a "Mom tells you" section behind every story, which conveys simple and profound truth with warm stories.
Children often listen to it, which will be subtly influenced, imitate the behavior of small animals in books, unconsciously correct their behavior habits, form good habits and cultivate good character.
For example, learn the spirit of small snails who are not afraid of difficulties and setbacks and go forward bravely; Seeing that the pig's teeth are broken and pulled out, get rid of the bad habit of eating snacks and not brushing your teeth.
Therefore, it is also important to choose storybooks. Be sure to choose a story book with high knowledge and positive content, which is helpful for children's growth.
The book "Little Stupid Bear", 365 nights before going to bed, focuses on children and is recommended by the expert group of Chinese graded reading. It is an audio reading book specially designed for children aged 3-6.
The Story of 365 Nights before Sleeping (volume 12) is divided into four themes: character cultivation, habit formation, emotional management and adversity quotient education.
Suitable for parents aged 3-6, help parents build a bridge to communicate with their children, help children develop good habits, shape a sound personality, establish a correct three views, and guide children to be positive.
After children go to primary school, they can also be used as a bridge book to help children achieve independent reading.
The exquisite illustrations of all the scenes attracted the children's attention and stimulated their interest in reading.
There's a stereo, bandu. You can listen to stories before you go to bed.
Parents with children aged 3-8, if they want to improve their children's language ability, let them form good habits, cultivate good personality, and cultivate high emotional intelligence and adversity quotient, suggest using this set of 12 volumes of bedtime stories for 365 nights. The changes in their children can be seen.