It is said that the post-90 s generation is a non-mainstream generation. If these non-mainstream generations are upgraded to "mother-in-law" generation as time goes by, I feel that they must be a fashionable mother-in-law who keeps up with the trend and pursues individuality. Although time will make these non-mainstream people grow up and become mature, these highly educated mother-in-law will behave very differently from their current mother-in-law:

The post-90s mother-in-law will never want to be a cow and horse for her son and daughter-in-law and take care of her children. They would rather spend some money to be quiet, let their children find their own nannies to ask for a new moon, and let their children attend various early education classes. They are definitely a new generation of mother-in-law.

1990, mothers-in-law pay more attention to their private lives. When a son marries a daughter-in-law, the daughters-in-law will definitely stay away from him. My son and daughter-in-law don't look for them, and they usually don't show up. In their later years, they plan more for themselves. I've worked hard all my life, and it's time to enjoy it. At this time, they often fully explore their hobbies, like dancing, painting and traveling, and they will travel around the world with their wives.

The post-90 s mother-in-law, together with her daughter-in-law, never pretends to be an elder. Maybe two people get along more like friends. The post-90s mother-in-law can't train Ma Baonan and Xiao Yunan. In their concept of parenting, children and themselves are equal. The only difference is that I am a little older and have a little more experience. It is this difference that children may not know less than themselves. A son and a mother are equal, so a daughter-in-law can naturally become friends with her mother-in-law.

So I think that when you become a mother-in-law after 1990s, there will be fewer and fewer contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and family life will become more harmonious.