As we all know, the French are famous for their equality and freedom of speech, but what we don't know is that they have never received strict and somewhat personalized traditional family education, complicated etiquette and strict manners. special
The most commendable thing is that French parents of all ages have inherited and continued their traditional education well. Now, let's take a look at what early education in France teaches.
So we invited a mother who has lived in France for many years and has a pair of Chinese-French mixed-race babies to solve this mystery for us. Look at the romantic, independent and polite French people, and what kind of mysterious education is hidden in their families.
Ma: I graduated from English education and used to be an English teacher. He has lived in Ireland for 65,438+00 years, taught Chinese as a foreign language, worked in local Chinese newspapers for many years, and has two children. Back in 2065,438+05, I taught Chinese in private middle schools, public middle schools and primary schools in France.
In most families in France, adults will prepare the nursery before the baby is born. No matter how young a child is, no matter how sealed the house is, as long as conditions permit, even if parents sleep on the sofa bed in the living room, they will not share the same room with their children. Mention strange bedfellows.
Children's rooms have a variety of supplies, and the most important thing is a safe and comfortable crib. After the baby came home from the hospital, he put it directly on this cot. The baby has been there since birth, so you can rest alone.
Most French families prepare nurseries before their children are born. No matter whether the family residence is spacious or narrow, the nursery must be separated.
No matter how young the child is, no matter how sealed the house is, even if the parents sleep on the sofa bed in the living room, they will not be in the same room with their children, let alone the same child. Go to sleep.
Newborn babies come home from the hospital and put them directly in the crib. They have their own independent rest space. Never had such a mother? Human teddy bear? I didn't take it for granted among my parents, let alone share the bed with my mother and squeeze my father into the guest room or sofa.
Babies sleep independently as soon as they are born. Parents go to the nursery to drink milk except in the middle of the night.
How early do the French train their children to eat independently? As long as they think that children can hold spoons by themselves and know that their hands and mouths work together (instead of sending spoons directly to their nostrils), they will let them eat by themselves.
Eating less and less is not important. What they care about is that children will know how to eat while eating, spend good time with their families at the dinner table and eat independently.
French parents will not tolerate children talking loudly in public to influence others unless everyone can speak freely.
They certainly don't want children to be as self-disciplined as adults, but constant reminders and repeated corrections are enough to prove that parents attach importance to this matter.
Therefore, most French children have not developed the habit of shouting. This may be due to prenatal education, even small babies don't cry.
French people's respect for knowledge and love for books and the humanization of library services make people feel? Accompanying books? It is a pleasant thing.
Mothers will take their children to the library to borrow books, return books, tell stories, read books and participate in library activities. ...
Some babies can't even sit, but the mother will still put the baby on her lap, sit in the spacious and bright library and read quietly with the baby, so that the child can experience this reading atmosphere.
Maybe you don't believe it. French table manners in traditional families began when babies could skillfully eat by themselves. The rules are as follows:
When eating, you can't put your elbows on the table. You can't talk with your mouth full. When eating with a fork, be sure to raise your arm instead of lowering your head. Usually, you can't get off the bus.
As long as French parents think that children's understanding ability can clearly understand the meaning of these two words, parents will emphasize the importance of these two words at the first time so that they can be used and reused anywhere in daily life. Use.
If you're serious? Thank you? Don't say when? Thank you? And then what? Please. Then French parents will never compromise.
French parents are not as indifferent as we thought. They love their children very much, but they do emphasize that children need a certain degree of loneliness.
French parents will emphasize letting their children stay for a while, whether it is reading, playing games, chewing their feet or looking at the ceiling ... in short, this time it is their own. A period of being an adult.
French mothers feed and nurse their children according to time. Even if the baby is crying, even if the baby is crying, they may chat with the baby, but they hardly feed it in advance.
If the time is coming and the baby is ready to eat or breastfeed, the baby will not stop crying. Parents may say to their baby quietly and firmly: Baby, you must be hungry. Mom is already preparing for you. You just need to wait a little longer! Through this kind of communication, the baby is used to not being angry about eating.
I seldom see French children crying in the supermarket because their parents didn't buy what they wanted. Parents will calmly explain that today is not Christmas or birthday, and there is no time to buy gifts. You can't buy them. Usually their children don't talk nonsense.
Is this in French? Early education? The basic concept of. They didn't let their children learn English and painting as soon as possible. Instead, start to cultivate children's behavior habits as soon as possible. Parents can really learn something from it!