Family education is the most important factor that determines a person's character and destiny.
More and more people are aware of this.
As parents of China, they spare no effort to invest in education.
Prenatal education is carried out before birth, and early education classes begin a few months after birth. In addition to traditional school education, there are extra-long classes, art classes, preschool classes, olympiad, mental arithmetic, one-on-one English teachers, homework classes and so on.
In addition to these important expenditures, there are also several big expenditures, such as school district housing, study tours and exchanges, and traveling abroad.
These are inseparable from the investment of money.
Children's education expenditure has actually become the highest proportion of family expenditure.
However, a good school, with the investment of money, all kinds of early education classes and remedial classes, can give children anything?
The same school, the same money investment, why is the final difference between children still so big?
Think of two popular parenting entertainment programs.
One is a string from Super Parenting Teacher. Children are willful and selfish, like to beat and scold other children, even beat and scold their parents, make unreasonable demands in public and cry loudly.
One is Chun Wu's daughter Nene in Where's Dad? She often helps other children, is polite, shares things with friends and is warm and kind.
Both children have good family conditions and similar ages, but their personalities and upbringing are quite different.
The reason behind this has little to do with money, mainly family education, which is the guidance of parents.
The most important investment in family education is not money, but time and energy.
Some people say that companionship is the best love for children.
But the investment of time and energy can't be exchanged with no amount of money.
The cultivation of parent-child relationship and children's love cannot be separated from time and energy. We pick up and drop off children, we accompany them, we understand children, their needs, their hearts and their psychology. All these require a lot of time and energy.
Think of a story, a father, in order to create good conditions for his children, go to an aristocratic school and enjoy the best life, he often stays away from home, starts a business, works overtime and struggles.
But the child is not happy.
Once, when the father saw the child angry, he asked, "What are you unhappy about? Eat the best, use the best, go to the best school, and a car will pick you up every day. What else? "
The child cried and said, "yes, I have everything, but I have nothing." My father never picks me up. "
My father was speechless in an instant.