Everyone wants to be a dragon, but parents don't understand that the dragon is level 6, and the hidden dragon is in the deep, and there is no practice of using hidden dragon. They are bent on flying to the sky, and the result is that Kang Long has regrets; Everyone wants to see a woman become a phoenix, but parents don't understand the truth of phoenix nirvana. It is the most primitive mistake to hatch a chicken and nirvana a phoenix. As the saying goes, when you grow up, you will know that you are old at the age of three. The most fundamental thing in children's education is to "leave roots". Only by letting children's educated roots go deep into fertile soil, watering, fertilizing, loosening the soil and basking in the sun, and enriching their roots through art, reading, programming and sports, can they blossom and bear fruit.

Second, the process consciousness is not strong.

No one denies that it takes ten years to plant trees, but the mentality of "seizing the day" highlights the bad mentality of parents in the process of education and training.

Third, the sense of value is wrong.

The achievements of education are staged, such as preschool education, preschool education, primary education, junior high school, senior high school, university education, master's degree and other continuing education. The educational achievements in each stage have irreplaceable value, but it is not uncommon for parents to be ignorant, inadequate and dissatisfied with the value of their children's learning achievements. After taking two exams, I want to study one; after taking one exam, I want to study Tsinghua, Tsinghua and so on. There is an endless pursuit of educational value. Arbitrary and arbitrary educational realistic ideas, some of which simply don't realize what the ultimate goal of education is to let children do, lead some children to a desperate ending under strong pressure.