1. The wonderful realm of education-intentional without trace
There is no need to do anything deliberately. The more deliberate and purposeful, the more counterproductive it will be.
2. The real preparation for education is to improve yourself. Those who know little learn little.
As a new mother, I feel that I need to learn a lot, for fear that my daughter will feel uncomfortable because of my ignorance. I always thought my daughter was still young, but since I came into contact with Tingting, I found that people were reading parenting books during pregnancy, and I was far from enough. I also hope that it is not too late to mend. Therefore, I plan to pay attention to Xiaobu's family early education and baby tree cultivation every day in the future, and understand her daughter's daily stage, skills she needs to learn and places she needs to pay attention to. Recently, I mainly pay attention to complementary food. I hope she will eat it delicious every time.
3. Like Newton-the advantages and disadvantages of treating children correctly
Appreciating a child is not only appreciating his advantages, but also how to treat his shortcomings. You see, he has always looked like Newton, and he will really look like Newton more and more.
No one is perfect, no money. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages, including myself. Now is a quick success and instant benefit society, people always lack patience, especially for children's shortcomings. This also confirms that positive hints or more encouragement can make children develop in a good direction.
4. Reading needs temptation-if you want it to be accepted, you will be tempted, if you want it to be rejected, you will be forced.
Learning is a pleasure, not a chore. Aversion will block all memory channels. One can't hate one thing and do it well at the same time, and pay attention to methods in everything. If you want to learn math well, you must open a "canteen" to let your children play middle school. If you want to read it, just point and read it word by word. If you want to encourage children, build a notebook, not a notebook. If you want your child to correct a bad habit, have a meeting at home and give some advice. If you want your children to have a good childhood, you should prepare 5-6 small gifts every Christmas, which can be eaten, watched and played, and wrapped in wrapping paper. This kind of childhood is very beautiful.
5. Four words more precious than gold-seeking truth from facts
When people do things for themselves, they should also seek truth from facts. What they do is not for others to see. This is the truth of people and kindness to themselves.
Seek truth from facts and don't exaggerate everything. Don't show off when the wind is smooth, don't be discouraged when the wind is against the current, gather strength inward, and one day you can break out of your shell.
After reading this book, the biggest reflection is: first, reduce intervention, return to the game, and let it have a free atmosphere and a happy childhood. Second, it is very important to cultivate your daughter's reading habits. I can buy cloth books, listen to picture books and tell stories.
A good mother is better than a good teacher. I hope I can keep learning and become a qualified mother and a qualified first teacher. One day, I hope my daughter, like me, will feel lucky to have a good mother.