Develop children's intelligence and avoid encouragement; Must conform to the law of children's development. Don't just pay attention to children's intellectual development, the development of emotional intelligence and mental health is very important. Educating children is an extremely complicated art, which combines the knowledge of pedagogy and psychology and is difficult to master. Here, a few words can't solve the fundamental problem. It is suggested to buy more books on how to educate children, which will be of great help to you to master the art of educating children.
Key points of developing children's intelligence;
1. Developing intelligence starts with prenatal education, which determines a child's life. The earlier a child's family education begins, the better his physical and mental development will be. With the right education, every healthy child can become an outstanding person. On the contrary, the later the education is carried out, the less the children's ability is realized, which is the law of the decline of children's potential ability development.
2. Develop children's intelligence by learning foreign languages. The most important method is repetition. Listen again and again until you have a sense of language. It turned out that he just couldn't say it, but he already had it in his heart.
3. Develop children's intelligence by observing nature. Taking children to nature from childhood is the most important way.
4. Develop children's intelligence through physical exercise. It is very important to cultivate children's interest in sports from an early age. Through exercise, children will feel the unity of body and mind.
5. Open children's hearts through music. Music can greatly develop children's imagination. All ideas and dreams in life come from imagination! Listening to music often is the best way to create imagination.
6. Develop children's intelligence through painting. Painting is a compulsory course for early intellectual development, which can develop children's observation, imagination, thinking in images, color sensitivity and spatial imagination.
7. Develop children's intelligence by speaking. If a person has difficulty in language expression, it is easy to be deformed in interpersonal relationships when he is an adult. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to cultivate their children's speaking ability.
8. Develop children's intelligence through reading. The background information in children's minds is large enough and their intelligence is developed.
9. Develop children's intelligence through games. Only by loving and playing games can children develop intelligently. What children find in the game is not only self, but also an incentive for success, a sense of creative satisfaction and the rules of interpersonal communication.
10. Developing children's intelligence through writing. Writing is an important way of expression. Parents should encourage their children to "improvise" and write down their own ideas, regardless of grammar spelling.
The killer of children's intellectual development;
1. Some subjects. Partial subjects are not correct, and "partial teachers" are true. Most children don't like this course because they don't like the teacher.
2. I don't know the rules of mental work. When our brain is in a "relaxed and active" state, we can absorb information faster and more effectively. Children will never use their brains in a benign mood.
3. The self-concept of "I am a silly child". Everything is relative. Whether children are born or not depends on enlightenment and cultivation.
4. Improper educational methods. Only by learning new educational methods can we become competent parents and successfully educate our children. Make good use of educational websites for parents' classes.
5. Destructive criticism. Talking to children is also responsible, stressing art and not making ultimatums.
6. Force children to study. Forcing children to study will stifle their interest and initiative in learning and it is impossible to develop their intelligence.
7. Low expectations. Only by combining high expectations with realistic and foreseeable prospects can children develop.
8. Wrong comparison. Don't force children, let alone compare their shortcomings with other children. This will only make the child more unable to lift his head, become gloomy or force him to go to the opposite side-hatred.
9. I'm not interested. Children's interest in learning is like lighting a bonfire in the wild, because there is no shelter, and they will be blown out by the wind if they are not careful.
10. Serious lack of self-worth. The best legacy we give our children is to let them go their own way, relying entirely on their own legs.
1 1. Negative emotions. It is everyone's wish to keep good positive emotions, and happy and stable positive emotions are important psychological conditions for physical and mental health.
12. Children who have not been beaten are fragile, and failure is one of the sources of experience.