Although the mobile phone that we can't live without every day is an important communication tool, it is also a bad influence on children. In the eyes of many parents, it is a thorn in the side, the chief culprit of the decline in children's academic performance, and the gap between parents and children. It is the root of all evil, and many parents have broken their brains. As a parent, what should you do if your child is addicted to mobile phones? Here are a few tips for everyone.

First, do more effective companionship.

Companionship must be of high quality. High-quality companionship is the spiritual communication between parents and children, rather than children and parents sitting around playing mobile phones.

It is also very simple to accompany children, such as chatting. Parents can take out their old photo albums and tell stories that children can't experience: how did mom and dad meet at the beginning, what our life was like when we were children, and what's the difference between them now. This can not only enhance the mutual understanding between parents and children, but also make children cherish today's life. For example, cooking with children and letting them do what they can, such as choosing vegetables and washing vegetables, or tasting the salty taste of food, can make children feel more involved and responsible in the family. In this way, there will be no such scene: parents call their children "out for dinner" for more than a dozen times, but the children ignore it and continue to play games. Other housework, such as washing clothes and sweeping the floor, may also involve children. In addition, parents can also take their children for outdoor sports. Take the children out to walk the dog and let the nature teacher teach them; Accompany him to paint, travel and visit amusement parks; Take him to kindergarten, play games and learn to do sports. Participate in children's growth activities and lead him to find his own interests in real life. Yang Lan, the host of CCTV, said that no matter how busy you are at work, you should personally accompany your children to travel and experience various social activities with them.

Second, we should discover and cultivate children's legitimate hobbies.

Parents should cherish their children's interest in electronic products, guide their children to learn electronic technology and pave the way for their future development. There is a student named Wang Dian in Xiguan Middle School, Luonan County, Shangluo City. He was interested in electronic products and loved electronic technology since he was a child. From junior high school, I began to study electronic technology, such as home appliance maintenance, automobile circuit, single chip microcomputer, circuit typesetting, mechanical processing, and I especially like to learn electronic production. With the guidance and support of parents and teachers, he has his own "home laboratory", which contains all kinds of commonly used tools, such as hand drills, angle grinders, electric welding machines, multimeters, oscilloscopes, notebook computers and smart phones. At the same time, I got a lot of knowledge and Taobao materials on the Internet, and I am a practitioner in internet plus. With the help of these tools, the whimsy in his mind has become a reality through his dexterous hands, and his works far exceed the level of a high school student in terms of production technology and technical content. Last year, he made outstanding achievements in scientific and technological innovation. Four of the five scientific and technological products he declared passed the examination of China National Intellectual Property Administration, and were granted patents and patent certificates. It can be seen that children with higher creativity tend to be more confident and self-reliant, with wider interests, strong curiosity and rich imagination; Creative children have many ideas and questions, and will not easily satisfy simple answers; Creative children usually have their own unique views and original opinions on the same problem.

Third, lead by example and set an example for children.

In a carriage, adults and children are playing with their mobile phones, and only a mother and son are reading a book carefully. Someone asked the mother, how did you persuade her children to study instead of playing with their mobile phones or IPad? Mother said, "Children will only imitate us if they don't listen to us." Children should be educated before themselves. Children should do what they are asked to do. Actions speak louder than words. There are many parents who bow their heads now, so don't always bow their heads to play with their mobile phones in front of their children. If possible, put down your mobile phone and read more books, do housework or work hard. Parents' actions are more convincing than just preaching After coming home from work, parents try to put their mobile phones and IPad aside and play with their children. This is the best way to quit addiction. Maybe you use your mobile phone to do your job. You should let your children know that you use your mobile phone for work, not for playing games to kill time. Children are a mirror of parents. Parents are playing with electronic products, but they say to the children next to them, go and read books quickly. How can we make children willing to learn? Because our children play electronic products, they often imitate them from their parents.

Fourth, teach children to use electronic products correctly.

Electronic products are not a "scourge". Everything has two sides. Television cartoons also have educational functions, such as big-headed son and piggy Peggy, which are full of virtues such as respecting the old and loving the young, being brave and firm, being diligent and honest. The point reading machine has taught children a lot of knowledge from literacy, arithmetic, English, music, art and so on. At the same time, electronic products have a positive effect on expanding children's horizons. Needless to say, electronic products not only fulfill the function of "education", but also open a whole new world for children. Just learn to use electronic products quickly, which is something that children and parents should be proud of. As long as we make good use of the advantages and avoid disadvantages, we can serve us better.

First, parents should keep pace with the times, understand the current development status and wider use of network technology, be able to make good use of electronic products by themselves, and regard electronic products as tools of life rather than toys, which is the premise of teaching children. The second is to teach children to use some basic functions of electronic products, such as Taobao, payment, navigation and Meituan functions of mobile phones. The third is to combine APP with ly electronic products that children like. For example, if your child likes singing, you can teach him how to use the national karaoke app. Your child likes playing chess. You should instruct him how to play chess online. If your child likes taking pictures, you should teach him how to take pictures and how to use Meitu Xiu Xiu software. Teach children Baidu to find what they want to know, and use homework to help them learn topics that they can't do. Slowly divert these children's attention with things they are interested in, which can not only entertain but also increase their ability and knowledge.

However, parents should clearly stipulate that children must finish homework, sports activities and housework as well as possible before they can play computer or watch TV. In this information age, it seems impossible for children to completely give up these modern tools of communication, entertainment and learning. In fact, any game with healthy content can be played, just need rules. Video games have their advantages. For example, learning video games allows children to use what they have learned in school, while history video games allow children to consolidate and identify relevant historical knowledge while playing.

Therefore, what parents need to do is to choose. Parents can choose the content of electronic products, use some children's online filtering software, or use electronic products with children's mode to filter out bad information on the Internet, and also ensure that children have the opportunity to learn through entertainment. The second is participation. As parents, we should also learn and use electronic products. If you are not an expert in electronic products, at least don't be a layman. Only by synchronizing with children, our guidance will not make children feel disgusted, will not make children think that our words are noise, and will also enhance their feelings with children. The third is the rules. Parents need to tell their children clearly that they can't play video games for more than the prescribed time every day. There are clear rules for students to carry mobile phones and other electronic products. 2065438+In August 2008, the Ministry of Education and other eight departments jointly issued the Implementation Plan for Comprehensive Prevention and Control of Myopia in Children and Adolescents. This document clearly stipulates that students use electronic products: parents should minimize the use of electronic products when accompanying their children. Consciously control the use of electronic products by children, especially preschool children. The single use of electronic products for non-learning purposes shall not exceed 15 minutes, and the cumulative daily use shall not exceed 1 hour. After studying with electronic products for 30-40 minutes, take a rest and relax 10 minute. The younger you are, the shorter the continuous use of electronic products should be. For schools, it is required to use electronic products scientifically, and it is strictly forbidden for students to bring personal mobile phones, tablet computers and other electronic products into the classroom and bring them into the unified custody of the school. This requires the cooperation of parents.

5. Home-school cooperation and scientific response to children's Internet addiction.

I hope parents and teachers can cooperate to cultivate their children. First, parents should strengthen their daily contact with the school, actively understand their children's actual performance in school, rationally look at all the "net-quitting" measures taken by the school, actively cooperate with them, and take personalized measures against their children's "addiction" behavior. Second, a child has an internet addiction problem. It may be that the parents of the children have problems in education and guidance. In the process of children's growth, parents should strive to become close friends. This is the most powerful weapon to help children get rid of Internet addiction.

How good parents are, how good children will be. Parents are the key to deal with the harm that ubiquitous electronic products bring to children's healthy growth. We should be strict with ourselves and set an example everywhere, so that children can develop good living habits from childhood and become their own masters when they grow up. We are duty-bound to educate our children. I believe that through the joint efforts of schools and parents, children will definitely use electronic products correctly and have a healthy and bright future.