To tell the truth, educating people has never been a simple problem.

Why, some people say that "educating children well is your lifelong career". It can be seen how great it is to have children and raise children!

Can you talk about some views from the following aspects:

First, about being good to children.

For the sake of children, it is normal that no parents don't want their children to be good, but they are all good for their children.

Are there any parents who are bad to their children?

A: The world is hard to find.

The poor inherit the wind.

This statement actually highlights the problem that parents are good to their children.

Second, on the issue of tolerance for children.

What's important here is that what can be tolerated and what can't be tolerated is not so simple. The judgment of parents here is also a very important test.

Some congenital factors of children, you have to be tolerant if you don't tolerate them. For example, their children are born like their parents, with double eyelids or single eyelids, white or black, good-looking or not, good or bad intelligence and so on. Many questions about the characteristics of individual life attributes have to be tolerated by parents and naturally bear these natural characteristics. Intolerance is abnormal except in special abnormal circumstances.

Why do you say "dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, ..." Although it is idealistic, it also has certain rationality. The meaning of this statement is essentially to emphasize the importance of genetic factors. That is, the innate, natural and uncontrollable components of general manpower.

Third, on the issue of intolerance towards children.

What is actually emphasized here is the educational responsibility of parents to their children. Education here refers to parents' family education. For parents, how do you educate and raise your children?

Family education here is very different from compulsory education in schools. School education is equal and open to every eligible child, which is not emphasized here.

Different parents, different family education, especially parents' individual personality characteristics, still have great influence on children's growth.

The general direction is mostly upward, good, good. The essence of "upward", "good" and "goodness" here is self-evident for parents.

Parents should correct some bad habits in the process of their children's growth in time, and can't let them indulge.

I remember that the three-character scripture said, "Life is good at the beginning, similar in sex, and far apart ... Meng Mu used to choose neighbors, but his son didn't learn, so he broke the loom, ..." This is also a fact.

Fourth, what happened to the child.

This is not a complicated problem.

If you have a child, bring him up and make sure he is brought up. The outstanding thing is that at least you can stand on your own feet.

Education, training, costs, responsibilities and so on have all been completed.

To put it simply, children have grown up, finished their studies and started working in society.

As for what kind of material a child can become in the future, it depends on his nature.

Generally speaking:

On the premise of observing law, morality and public order,

Great talents can be made, and small talents can be made.

Do your best.

Do whatever suits you.

The basic requirement is to be a useful talent for the country, the family and the society.

All roads lead to Rome.

There are thousands of roads in life, depending on which one you take.

This includes how parents treat their children well, how to tolerate them, how to better educate them, how to ensure their all-round healthy growth, how to better follow their own life path and how to better enjoy their beautiful and happy life.

It comes down to a big problem.

Is a problem that can't be a little sloppy.

Good question!

In a few words, slightly shallow, for reference only!

Children are the darling of parents. They do their best for their children, even if they have no food in their mouths. They all want to grow up quickly. This is the wish of every parent. They pray that their children have food, clothing and warmth, grow up healthily, have a good sleep and have a happy childhood.

Especially in this era, there are very few children, and at most two are not precious, even more important than their own lives. They are afraid of being put in their mouths and on their backs, and they are always on tenterhooks. When they are studying, they are worried about being bullied by other children. Good parents certainly don't want their children to bully others, get themselves into trouble and cause unnecessary trouble.

As for those parents who think their children are too young to be sensible, for example, many of them are in kindergarten now, or even younger, and they are deeply addicted to the internet. Some children even go home at night without homework, play mobile games, and can't hand in their homework in class during the day. Parents don't mind letting their children play countless times.

I heard from some parents in the village that playing games can also activate children's brains, especially boys who are inactive and read too many books. I may not be able to earn a lot of money when I grow up, and I have to rely on my brain to turn quickly when I do business or other financial opportunities, so I am a promising boy.

Parents' different ways of education also depend on their children. As they get older, they know how to be flexible. Some children are sensible and obedient when they are young, but they may not be so good when they grow up. Some children are rebellious when they are young. As long as they don't listen to their parents' education, they will be sensible when they grow up.

It is natural for parents to love their children. To understand tolerance, family education and ideas have a great influence. Family harmony, early education is appropriate. Self-discipline from childhood, respect for the old and love for the young, and people who are useful to society when they grow up, love their family, patriotism and society.

It is human nature that parents are basically single-minded for the good of their children. But it is unwise to tolerate a child without restrictions, which is not conducive to his growth.

When animals get older, they will gradually let go of their orders and live independently, and so will people. Excessive tolerance or even doting will spoil a bad boy and lead to his low ability.

Japanese children show their calves in winter, distribute lunches, carry schoolbags by themselves, do strong exercises, and exercise their resistance, willpower and sense of responsibility.

Excessive tolerance may also lead to ingratitude and become a baiwenhang. Far-sighted parents will make their children miserable, because life is not always a colorful cloud.

Parents want to be the most solid umbrella for their children to protect their growth, but we must remember that it is difficult for children who have not experienced the wind and rain. They are the ones who finally grow up.

It is the nature of parents to be kind to their children. However, some parents are really full of love, and their requirements for their children are infinitely satisfied. It is easy to develop arrogant, ungrateful and selfish giant babies! To tell the truth, there are quite a few such children now [covering their faces]. Go and see families with children. Basically, children come first. Families surround children, especially the elderly. He is obedient to children [covers his face]. I think it is right to love children. As the old saying goes, "I'm used to food and clothing, but I'm not used to problems", that is to say, I can try my best to give my children better living conditions. If you find those minor problems, you should help correct them as soon as possible. Don't believe that trees are straight! From saplings to towering trees, it is very important to take good care of them, prune them in time and get rid of diseases!

Therefore, it is very important for children to develop a correct outlook on life, self-discipline and strict habits. Parents are actually their children's first teachers. What kind of parents will raise what kind of children? This is not flexible. Parents are selfish, hooligans, influence children, and children imitate them tacitly. When the bad habit is formed, you will scold him, thinking that it is too late, and parents can't adjust it, which will cultivate a kind of harm to society.

Think about what such a child will look like in society in the future. Children raised with a charming temper will not learn well, because without self-discipline and good psychological cognition, what others or teachers say is hard to listen to. When they grow up, they will naturally not put some immature ideas in question, but blindly look at people or things around them from the perspective of Laozi's being the best in the world, and the future of this child will be ruined!

I hope parents can give their children a good understanding, good self-discipline and good self-esteem, live in a Wei Fen where everyone loves and everyone loves their children, and let their children be self-disciplined in their own behaviors and solve their unwilling voices, so as to grow up healthily! Become a pillar of the country!

A loving mother lost many children and contracted all the labor skills they should learn. If you tolerate them, no one in society will tolerate her, not to help them, but to hurt them.

If parents have no principles to tolerate their children blindly, they are actually doting on their children. There is an old saying: "Drowning a child is like killing a child." Children who grow up in this family environment will find it difficult to adapt to society and get along with others when they grow up, which will eventually lead to failure in life.

Man is the product of environment and society. Children's words and deeds are inseparable from their parents. If parents don't educate their children as early as possible (before the age of three), family education has failed, and if they don't develop good behavior habits before the age of seven, family education will get twice the result with half the effort. As the saying goes, it is quite reliable to look at the old at the age of three and at the age of seven. Stealing the details and stealing a lot of gold is also an old saying.

Parents' lifelong achievement lies in raising and educating their children, so that they can benefit society and people, not society and mankind.

People will eventually return to society and integrate into society, so parents who are not tolerated by society should not tolerate their children. Because parents are tolerant, society will not be tolerant. When you grow up and enter the society, you will be rejected and spurned by society ... and lose the soil for growth.